The topic of today's article will certainly be of interest only to ladies who, in pursuit of success, are not in a hurry to give up the advantages of their gender.
We will talk about what features of character, appearance, way of thinking should have ideal woman , according to men.
After all, you will agree: they know better what kind of companion they want to see next to each other.
And since I believe that a modern woman should not confine herself to the role of the wife closed in four walls, then for sure you will be interested in knowing which, according to the representatives of the stronger sex, there should be a successful business lady.
The image of the ideal woman,
, imposed on us I do not know about you, but I already had this very phrase "perfect woman" in the order of nastiness.
All women's magazines, forums are full of articles, how to become an ideal woman .
Various experts vying with each other to give advice on this topic.
There is so much information and it is so contradictory that it gets confused - just spit.
Everyone sees his truth.
According to experts of the beauty industry, the ideal woman is the one that does not get out of the salons, and there are so many cosmetics and things in her wardrobe that it's time to open your own store.
Feminist movements on the contrary created the image of some creepy asexual creature, the true purpose of which is to prove its superiority over men.
The older generation is not tired of teaching that the true role of women is to get married, give birth to children and learn how to cook divine borscht and bake pies.
Psychologists, coaches who earn on personal growth issues, program ladies that life without a career and financial independence is not life, but family is a secondary matter.
And even religious preachers hasten to share their thoughts on the role( very unenviable, by the way) of women in the modern world.
After reading different points of view, it becomes clear that nothing is clear, and to combine all this in one woman will not work in any way.
But you know what struck me the most: the bulk of advice, about what an ideal woman should be, comes from the women themselves.
In my opinion, this is no good.
One can not help asking men what they see as an ideal woman.
If you drop all the feminist nonsense, then the most honest answer to the question "For whom you want to become an ideal woman" will sound like this: "For men."
Interesting facts! Why it is better to be born a woman than a man!
And, to become an ideal lady want not only for her husband or boyfriend, but also for friends, business partners, colleagues, and all the familiar members of the stronger sex.
That's why in this article I'm going to share with you the advice that men have voiced.
The ideal woman in the man's imagination
As for me, women who do not read men's magazines do not attend men's forums, and generally do not want to watch men in their natural habitat, lose a lot.
I, for example, often do this, because I really want to get to the bottom of the truth, what an ideal woman should be in the eyes of the fairer sex.
"So we are arranged that every man wants to see next to him an ideal. From my point of view, the ideal woman can listen and hear, understand and accept you as you are. She is a friend, a wise counselor, and the notorious "waistcoat". .. But most importantly - all this should be mutual. Relationships will be harmonious only if a man wants and knows how to become for his woman not only a support and an adviser, but also a friend and the same vest. .. "
Oleg Roy
Gradually I was able to form for my readers 5 recommendations from men,that will allow you to become an ideal woman.
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Form your sexuality.
Women very often confuse vulgarity and sexuality, so they go to extremes.
Some, trying to appear sexy, do not get out of the maxi-belts and dyed sweaters, in fact offering themselves to everyone: from the boss to the old guard, and then wonder why they are considered whores.
Others, fearing to be known as frivolous sluts, wear suits of men's cuts, hiding their sexuality in every possible way.
Everyone is wrong!
You need to find a middle ground: pick up a sexually discreet wardrobe and learn how to send fluids of sexuality so that it does not look vulgar.
Easy flirtation, correct eyes sending, erotic laughter, arousing smile - it is useful not only to build a personal life, but also a career.
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Do not forget about femininity.
If you are constantly turning in the world of men( doing business, politics, science, programming, etc.), then do not try to be like them.
Take advantage of your gender.
Wear dresses and narrow skirts-pencils, white blouses with an unbuttoned top button, classic studs on the hairpin, do not ignore the care of yourself and makeup, do not get cut to the boy.
How to become feminine?
Remember the former Prime Minister of Ukraine Yulia Tymoshenko.
You can treat it differently as a politician, but you can not disagree with the fact that her successful career took place, including thanks to feminine outfits and the ability to use women's charms.
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Do not take on man's responsibilities.
Nature inherent: a man - a hunter, a woman - the keeper of the hearth, maintaining order.Do not try to take on man's responsibilities.
Firstly, you will alienate men( they are frightened by women trying to lead everything).
Secondly, and you yourself will be unhappy.
If it's about the family, then let the man make money and solve problems. Your task is to provide comfort at home and to use your finances reasonably.
The same goes for business.
Even if you are a successful business lady, then you definitely need a reliable adviser who will think through the strategy of conquering new peaks.
Then you can fully focus on the financial affairs of the company, improving its image, caring questions, etc.
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Remember that the attractiveness of a woman, directly depends on her appearance.
All men love beautiful well-groomed women: a figure without cellulite and fatty folds, fresh manicure and pedicure, a neat hairdress on clean hair, feminine stylish clothing, high heels, moderate make-up.
Ladies and physiologists helped to calculate the ideal formula, in the eyes of men, the female figure: the waist should be divided by the volume of the thighs.
If you get a coefficient of 0.7, then you are perfect( regardless of your volume).
If less or more, then start eating right and doing sports.
You can hide the shortcomings of the figure with the help of well-chosen clothes.
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Stay faithful.
Regardless of whether you have aimed at building a career or a happy family life, remember that you must always remain faithful to both your husband and your boss.
Do not look for entertainment on the side, do not jump from office to position, trying to find the warmest place, otherwise stay with your nose.
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Men consider secondary, but still important qualities of ideal woman the ability to listen, sympathize, maintain conversation, take care of him and his children, adapt to difficulties.
As you can see, achieving the ideal is not easy, but in life there is nothing impossible.