All of us, the beautiful sex, know this pattern: like married a man, and in fact - for his whole family. Now in my calendar for 2017 such marks: "d. Tolik pension "," Angela defense diploma "," Birch.leaving.supervision.cat".
And, of course, the fattest circle circled one fateful day. The day when the planets came together. The day to prepare for in a few months. The day when "no, I do not need anything" turns into "I did not think you hated me so much"! Birthday of the mother-in-law.
In 2017 I was lucky. My mother-in-law is not just a holiday. She has an anniversary. Anniversary! What to give my mother-in-law for an anniversary? So much pain and despair for me in this matter.
Well, we will think with you together, I can not cope alone!
TOP-10 ideal gifts, what to give my mother-in-law for the anniversary of
And why did not we marry a couple of years later? Then the next 10 years, I would not have thought about all jubilees. Ah. ..
Having learned the mistakes of my friends and my own, I decided to find this "perfect gift" for my mother-in-law! So, what should I give my spoiled Isolde to Anatolyevna for her anniversary?
Idea # 1. The best friends of the girls are diamonds.
And even if the girl was knocked 60, and the diamonds are not there, do not hurry to abandon this idea.
Get a gift as a gift, which is selected with taste, it will be pleasant for any woman. Our mother-in-law is not an exception.
And if you still tell us that the stone here heals from pressure, evil eye, and "so that the hens do not die," the joy will be even greater.
The idea number 2. In - it means Suddenness.
Do you remember, before your 50th birthday, your mother-in-law admired the finest silk handkerchief from TSUM?
The idea suggests itself. Everyone is pleased when close people notice our "lads".
To present for the birthday of her mother-in-law what she really wanted, but "too expensive."What is not an ideal option?
Idea # 3. For children - ice cream, for a woman - flowers!
If your mother-in-law is as fond of her garden and dacha as she is mine, then catch the idea.
Chopper-blades to give I zareklas( this "funny" story you'll read below).But you can in fact give my Izolde Anatolyevna not "what", but "what"!
Seeds of rare tulips, stunning roses, strawberries and everything that is planted in mother earth.
Why not bring your mother-in-law a bunch of seedlings, each of which is tied with a beautiful ribbon?
What kind of flowers to give a girl to please her?
Idea # 4. Health is more precious than gold.
I love this phrase! Who says that you can not buy health - they look at the question from the wrong side.
Why not give your beloved mother-in-law, and even for a jubilee, a session of a wellness massage in some good SPA-salon?
Imagine: your Maria Stepanovna came to the salon, took a shower with fragrant foam.
Then for an hour tanned, with strong hands Arkady massages and crushes your mother-in-law, breaking all the salts, improving blood circulation and dispersing lymph.
At the end of the charming little fairies, mother-in-law is put on the masochka, and after her a cup of fragrant herbal tea is waiting.
What is the probability that after this she wants to saw you or her husband?
The idea number 5. The way to the heart of mother-in-law lies through. ..
If your mother-in-law loves cooking, bake-bake and spoil the family - this idea is just for you.
Agree, give pots and pans - somehow silly. An exception is only if the mother-in-law herself asked to give new kitchen utensils.
But if you want to make a mother-in-law gift for an anniversary, then pay attention to multi-colored silicone molds for pies and cupcakes. On the multivark, on the steamer, on the dryer for her favorite mushrooms and apples.
Remember, why did your mother-in-law complain recently? It's hot in the kitchen, it's difficult to cook in summer? An excellent gift will be an air conditioner.
Is it upset that her favorite TV show is just at the time when the father is coming home from work? Give her a TV set in the kitchen.
We'll be smart, we will be rewarded!
The idea number 6. Cofemanns are dedicated.
My Izolda Anatolyevna loves coffee very much.
Everyone who has a rest abroad, by all means she is brought by different grades of Arabica. She brews it in the morning in a Turk.
With pressure from mother-in-law, there are no problems, so she can enjoy the incredible taste of this drink of the gods every day.
In my opinion, a good idea can be a coffee device: dzhezva, French press, Turk. It can even be a good coffee machine.
In addition to the gift, you can present spices, favorite sweets or fruits, several types of cheeses. Just a cool coffee service.
While I like this idea the most.
The idea number 7. Staying a woman.
Unfortunately, some of our women are aware of the fact that after 40 life is over.
That now you need to cut your hair shorter( but not in a fashionable haircut, but to make it less dull).What to watch for food - this is the destiny of youth, and manicure and pedicure and at all "unnecessary whim."
You can not even talk about gifts to yourself.
If your mother-in-law is from those "sssrovsky ladies", then try to give her an anniversary visit to the beauty salon!
Stylists will pick her the right tone of hair, make her hands and feet well-groomed. I'm sure that every woman in the depths of her soul dreams of eye-popping appearance.
And after that you can go together to a cozy restaurant and drink a glass of white wine.
ATTENTION!If you decide on such a gift, I advise you to take your beloved mother-in-law every month after the celebration with you to a manicure.
The idea number 8. Give her a friend!
Looking at my mother-in-law's mother-in-law Valentina Petrovna, I feel sorry for her. That's why she is so angry, because "she does not have a bicycle".
Loneliness is the worst thing. And even if in the daytime your mother-in-law's house is filled with the laughter of grandchildren and the chirping of a daughter-in-law, then in the evening it is empty.
And what if you give your beloved mother-in-law for the puppy's birthday? Or a kitten? Or maybe she had long sighed about chickens or rabbits, but only "all somehow not leisure, I do not even know"?
Of course, this gift needs to be approached carefully.
Several weeks before the anniversary, we must try to accurately find out its reaction to such a present.
Walk around the yard: is there a place for a fence with chickens or cages with rabbits? Ask your husband if he can build a small shed?
The idea number 9. Emotions.
Whatever figure in your anniversary your mother-in-law not celebrated, she certainly still loves to laugh and try something new. We are people, and new impressions for us are a breath of life.
Go as a family to the theater, give her tickets for a concert of jazz music( or several tickets, let your mother-in-law with friends "chill" with her computer).
Arrange a movie-day, when you look at the cinema all the novelties that will show in the anniversary of the mother-in-law.
Go to an amusement park, eat sweet cotton wool, drink milkshakes and ride on a swing.
Give your mother-in-law a master class, according to her tastes. Let him swim with dolphins. ..
Give her an anniversary for an anniversary, because life is sometimes so routine.
Idea number 10.. .. and let him buy it myself!
If your mother-in-law is very capricious, and by the time she's just becoming a fury, it's not a problem, we'll tame her.
Now there are so many gift certificates that you do not need to steam.
Just define the sphere that is to her liking, buy a cherished card with the inscription "Gift Certificate" - and enjoy life.
It can be a certificate to the store of cosmetics, clothes, kitchen accessories, furniture and interior stores, linens, musical instruments, books. The choice is huge!
Let her mother-in-law choose her own gift. In my opinion, wow option.
What should I give to close people for the New Year?
Do not repeat my mistakes: 5 tips, what to give my mother-in-law for the anniversary is definitely not worth it
Mistake # 1. DO NOT give a shovel on your birthday!
2 years ago on my birthday I gave Isolde Anatolyevna garden accessories. It seemed to me then that my mother-in-law loves her beds. And the dacha as a whole.
But, raising her head proudly, her mother-in-law said: "So no one has insulted me yet. Exquisitely called the farm, dear! ".She turned on her heels and walked out.
I stayed standing with a chopper and a shovel, on which were adorable little bows. And also with a bucket, a watering can and some other thing that I did not understand.
And my husband said that giving a shovel on his birthday is not the best option.
Error # 2. DO NOT call her an old woman!
Last year I was more cunning. Gave her mother-in-law a good cosmetic set, corresponding to her age group.
So that you understand, I have not had coffee in my favorite coffee shop for several months, I have not bought a single renewal, not a single book!
And what do you think?"You called me an old woman, you must!".
Now on my dressing table is a terrific expensive kit from a good French firm.
Thanks, Izolda Anatolievna! Thanks to you, I smear my face on what I would not have forked myself!
Error # 3. DO NOT try to send it anywhere. She will be back!
Since I was lucky( and without the quotes, mind you!) To celebrate only 2 birthday of my mother-in-law, I share Katyusha's experience.
My Katya has been married for 10 years. Once, having received a solid salary and an equally solid bonus, Katyusha decided to pamper her mother-in-law with a gift for the anniversary.
Valentina Petrovna's husband died long ago. The mother-in-law lives mainly in the country, rides a bicycle and paints her lips in crimson color. Katenka bought her a tour to Turkey. ... .
The next two weeks the heat of passion in their house was such that you could fry the meat to medium. Valentina Petrovna screamed, threw dishes, threatened to take her son home.
But the key phrase, of course, was "You will not send me anywhere!".
A week later in Odnoklassniki there were photos of Valentina Petrovna on the beach.
Error # 4. NO to white slippers.
For me, gifts in the form of dressing gowns, towels, tights and socks are not acceptable at all. And also hygiene products( razor, soap, foam, etc.).But my friend Julia stumbled at the very beginning of the slippery road called "to be a daughter-in-law".
In Yulia's family it was decided to give the older generation bathrobes, towels, slippers and other attributes of "old age".
May the reader forgive me if now our opinions are divided. But the woman and in 80 remains a woman. With its charm, with its beauty, with its wisdom. To give the lady a sneaker is not appropriate.
And so, gave Yulechka on the 60th anniversary of her mother-in-law. .. slippers, bathrobe and a set of towels. The irony is also that the slippers were white.
Error # 5. Categorical NO gifted gifts!
I would never have thought this thought, if I had not received from Isolda Anatolievna on March 8 a wonderful gift. Turning the jewelry box in my hands, I was amazed at what kind of familiar she seemed to me.
"Oh, Mom, have you already started putting your tins in this box? Pussy tried so hard when she chose. "
Isolda Anatolievna turned green. She always turns green when her son calls me "pussy".Jealous, probably. But that day in the greenery of her face was a special shade. ..
In my head instantly came that Thursday. Here I am, in a snow-covered down jacket, I'm tearing through the crowd in TSUM to buy a mother-in-law's gift for a new year. But I get this same box back on March 8th.
Even if there is not much money, even if it "never finds out" - do not give presents. Never.
Are you trying to decide what to give your mother-in-law for an anniversary?
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And, of course, the best gift for the mother-in-law!
An ideal gift for your mother-in-law on her anniversary will be. .. grandson!
If you are in a position, and your spouse does not know yet - buy the balls and flowers and solemnly declare the future grandmother: "I congratulate you on the anniversary! You will have a grandson! "
Girls, it does not matter what relationship we have with our mother-in-law. Someone was fortunate in the face of the mother-in-law to find a second mother, someone an eternal critic.
Regardless of the relationship, let's remember: this woman gave the world a wonderful man who has become an excellent husband. She wore it under her heart, loved it and raised it.
Even if it does not apply to you in the best way, and you often have misunderstandings - there is always a reason. And not necessarily in you.
In the meantime, postpone all grievances and disagreements. Tune in to the positive!
We in fact found with you the answer to the question: what to give my mother-in-law for the anniversary? Help your Izolda Anatolyevna memorably celebrate this day!