You know, a lot of books at the moment it is written about human purposes, the correct achieve goals, dreams. ..
Many people talk about the most collages of illusions.
But there comes a moment and you realize that the very collages do not work, your dream has not motivate you, goal never implemented, and the business quite froze. ..
But where to start? Which target to choose? What do you need for to achieve the goal?
We know for sure that we need the target of , and later to achieve the target!
Let's deal with this issue and put everything on the shelves!
How to determine your goal?
Initially, we need to deal with such concepts as " goal " and "dream"!
People always confuse these two concepts with each other!
Wikipedia states that The purpose of is the real object of the conscious aspiration of the subject is the end result to which the process of activity is directed;Dream - this is the most cherished desire, in the performance of which, the subject feels happiness!
For example, what do we want in the future?
You will say, we want: an apartment, a car, a dacha, a desired vacation( to go to Hawaii) - all this is more of a goal than a dream!
These are the most real objects that a subject is consciously striving for!
From this comes the conclusion, if their desires you will be treated as targets - so you will be easier and easier for them to go and something to do than lie on the couch and dream: "..a suddenly. ."!
A dream is something huge and unattainable, and for to achieve the goal it is quite possible to draw up an action plan.
Well, we have decided on this.
You know, in response to these questions, I hear some typical answers from people who repeat themselves one time: "... I want to have a house of 800 sq. M.m, and I want a maid. .. and I want to go there and buy it here doroguschy thing. . do not even know - should it be me or not. .. but let them, and I would like to point »..
What sort of answer is that?
This is The purpose of the person?
Such mild and vague answers do not work, and they will never work!
I also saw on the walls of my friends a huge number of collages that also do not work!
Collage - this is when a sheet of paper pasted pictures - as if the person's goals.
And they do not work for the same reason - they are typical and indefinite, Achieving the goal is not!
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You ask me: "What does the word 'typical' mean?"
I will answer: "Typical is the target of , which in fact really does not need this person!"
He heard from some friends there that NADOimagine putting an target, and to make it come true - you need to make a collage!
And the same man made a kollazhik, pinned it on the wall - and lo and behold - Well done. . settled on the couch and waits until this poor goal true!
That's it for everyone, so that the goals are carried out, without even applying to them the slightest effort!
He made this collage, because it was so necessary, because they told him so!
And if you look at the situation from the real side, then in fact, this person does not know what he really wants!
He just picked up and put together a variety of goals.
Some goals he was cute, some - yes because it's cool, and some - so because my mom wants so!
But no goal with this heap does not ignite, motivate, do not give a spark in his eyes!
Here we come to the most important criterion:
The goal is to light!
You need to burn your eyes passionately, you can not sit in one place, you urgently need to run somewhere rashly, and quickly do something to realize that very goal!
You should feel the same flow of desire fire!
From the right target - you need to have a drive, you are ready to work for days in order to achieve the goal, and that's right!
Will it be hard? And who is now easy? All hard and difficult!
Humanity is implementing exactly such goals - when desire, assertiveness and confidence are the key for the sake of to achieve the goal!
The real life of is :
I have an acquaintance who needed to buy a house because he had a big family and lived in a communal apartment. ..
He found the right house, but he did noton a pocket!
My friend was not scared, he laid out his last 150 thousand rubles as collateral!
He needed this house very much, it is necessary! He caught fire!
After 3 months, he paid 9 million rubles for this house, without any loans there!
He worked hard, he thought he was looking for a solution to his problem! He needed it!
And it's not necessary, but oh, it's necessary!
And he was ready to do a lot for his goal! He was burning with desire!
And now, for example, take an average, ordinary employee.
How does it respond to the achieving the goal?
He is asked: "What do you need for complete happiness in this life?", To which he quietly and pofigistically responds:
"Well. . apartment. . It would be nice to move from the parental apartment to your personal, and thus improve the conditionsmy unjust life. .. "And he sits to himself watching TV and chewing a sandwich with mayonnaise. .. We talked called. ..
Probably we live very boring.
I'm something for today, I do not see the pressure and fire desires in people!
I highly recommend you to watch a motivating video!
I hope it will rouse you in the fire of desires to go ahead and achieve your own!🙂
Only thanks to the purpose that inspires us, from which wings grow from behind, there are dramatic changes in the life of mankind!
This is popularly called an absolute idea!
But understand, it will be absolute only for you! It can not motivate another!
For one person, the absolute idea is to buy yourself a house, for another - to buy a fur coat!
This is all individually!
You do not need to look for a hundred such ideas, find your one, but a high-quality idea, in the realization of which, you would experience pleasure!
When you realize one idea - look for the next one!
And now sit down for a minute, think. .. does your absolute idea move you at the moment? Or still need to look for a new one?