How to interest a man?

Even in those times when gentlemen decided everything and were considered the crown of civilization, and the lady's lot was the family and the house, the young ladies used tricks to attract the attention of an enviable groom.

Now in an age of equality, any self-respecting woman should know, how to interest a man .

And that there would not tell tedious conservatives that "only fallen women are hung around the neck", the ability to attract the attention of a man is very useful.

Which woman will always be able to interest a man?

Modern men are pampered creatures.

They are brought up with the example of Hollywood stars and supermodels, influenced by men's magazines that claim that the beauties with two higher educations, incredible sexual abilities, culinary skills that are not inferior to Jamie Oliver, and the desire to create a homeliness and order that even the house, exist in nature.

This is certainly a very hyperbolized female image, but it's impossible to interest a man if:

1. Look awfully externally.

   Men love eyes, so if you are a beautiful and well-groomed woman, your chances of attracting male attention increase significantly.

2. Be as stupid as a duck.

   Suppose you are a super-duper beauty, but if you are not able to connect two words, think that tolerance is a disease, and Shakespeare is the name of a nightclub, your image will significantly fade in the male eyes.

3. Do not believe in yourself.

   If you do not consider yourself worthy of male attention, then how are you going to interest your uncertain hesitant person with someone else?

With the help of what you can interest a man?

Imagine that you, for example, are an electrician.

To change the wiring, you must use a certain set of tools: pliers, pliers, voltage indicator, screwdriver and so on.

Attempting to interest a man is a complex and time-consuming process that requires the use of tools.

Naturally, you must learn to use these tools flawlessly so as not to look ridiculous.

A man can be interested with:

1. Look.

   You do not need to stare at a man without blinking, or clap your eyelashes like Scarlett O'Hara.

   Learn how to send a signal: "You are interesting to me. Approach to get acquainted. "

   Then two or three short glances will be enough.

2. Smiles.

   If you smile at a man you want to interest, then your smile should be beautiful, sincere, light and slightly flirtatious.

3. Signals.

   Removing strands of hair behind the ear, throwing hair over the shoulder to bare the neck, playing with a glass, biting the lower lip, screwing up eyes, etc.

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4. Conversation.

   This tool should be discussed in more detail.

How to interest a man during a conversation?

Let's say you struck the man with his unearthly beauty, encouraged him with a look and a smile, he caught your signals and rushed to get acquainted with all his might.

And now it's important not to spoil everything, and even more interested in a man, introducing himself as an interesting conversationalist.

Many women, and even men, do not have enough skills to conduct a conversation.

The arising pauses, the interjections of "uh-uh," "well," "this is the most," the difficulty of choosing a topic, the inability to formulate one's thoughts-all this can alienate a gentleman from you, especially if he is smart enough and does not suffer fromlike problems.

Women who are trying to interest a man during a conversation, it is important to remember that:

1. The speech should be beautiful and correct: surzhik, mats, speech errors, slang - all this does not adorn the woman.
2. Competent formulation of thoughts - the key to a successful conversation.

3. You should select topics that may be of interest to your interlocutor of the opposite sex.

   What you talk about with your girlfriends, the man will not be interested.

4. You can not start to broadcast on personal topics: complain about your former, superior satrap, digestive problems, talk about all relatives or children's complexes.

   There will be time for such topics.

5. One should not only be able to speak, but also listen to the interlocutor.

   A conversation is a dialogue between two people, not your monologue.

How to understand men?

Is it possible to interest a man with whom you are seeing for the first time?

Just yesterday, I came across an article by Irina Khakamada about relations with the opposite sex.

Part of the advice was about how to attract male attention at parties.

Irina says that a woman should turn into a hunter, then the signals she sends will necessarily be heard by a man.

As an example, the behavior of the heroine Nicole Kidman( the film "With wide-open eyes") was shown at the party: she takes a glass with alcohol, leans on the bar and starts scanning the room with her eyes, and a second later materializes the craving gentleman.

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Irina Khakamada claims that one day she did everything exactly as the heroine Nicole Kidman, and in the blink of an eye she managed to interest not just one but several men at once.

Try and you are such tactics.

And here are 2 more tips on how you can interest an unfamiliar man:

1. Do not invent anything.

   Come, introduce yourself and start communicating.

   And already during a conversation try to charm the interlocutor.

2. Cunning tricks.

   For example, go to the property of interest to you with the phrase:

   "That guy in the corner bothers me with his courtship. Maybe save me from them? "Or" I took this cocktail for my girlfriend, but there's something I can not find. You will not compose me a company? ".

A few more tips to interest an unfamiliar man in a conversation,

you will find in the video:

What it is not necessary to do to interest a man?

by the Soviets on how to win a man, filled with all women's magazines, Internet resources.

This subject is devoted to books, blogs, radio and television broadcasts, trainings and much more.

These recommendations are so many that they can get confused, although some tips wander from material to material( and mine is not an exception), not because authors do not have a fantasy, but because they are really effective.

What upset me is that it's not so often possible to find information about what women do not want to do to win a man.

And as for me, this is important, because often ladies are too zealous in the desire to attract male attention, turning themselves into an object for ridicule.

So, even if you really want to win a man, do not:

1. Behave silly and unnatural.

   Ladies, having read the advice that you need to be mysterious, coquettish, playful, sexy, begin to grimace and grimace, so instead of interest in a representative of the stronger sex causes a fit of laughter.

2. Hanging around his neck.

   You did everything you could: smiled, shot eyes, first you got into a conversation, but the cruel gentleman remained indifferent to your charms?

   Be humble and leave him alone.

   There is still enough fish in the sea.

3. Jump to him in bed on the day of dating.

   So easy extraction becomes uninteresting for most men.

   Too little happy endings in love stories, which were marked by sex on the first date.

I hope that tips will help you, how to interest a man .

And, you will not only use what you need to do, but also remember what can not be done, even if you really want to draw his attention.