How to understand that you like a guy by correspondence?

Today, acquaintance by correspondence will not surprise anyone.

Let paper letters replace electronic ones, even now, thanks to the Internet, opportunities have considerably expanded, although messages have become much shorter, but correspondence continues to unite hearts.

But is it always the messages that you get from a young man that testify to his sympathy?

How to understand that you like a guy by correspondence , and do not expose yourself to ridicule, if he, about anything except friendship, and did not think?

Today we'll talk about this.

To understand that you like a guy by correspondence is not so difficult. ..

That's what my friend Nadia's colleague answered when I went to her for a consultation, collecting material for this article.

The fact is that Nadia and her current husband Victor fell in love with each other precisely by correspondence.

Young people got acquainted at one of the forums dedicated to the adored book, and now - to the series.

Even the fact that in these forums everyone is hiding their real identity behind nicknames and avatars does not become an obstacle for the creation of a family.

Nadia and Victor drew attention to each other because their judgments about the characters and events were very much alike.

Several personal messages and they continued to communicate in social networks, having studied, thanks to the photos placed there, and the appearance of each other.

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Nadya says that she did not have to analyze for a long time, whether she likes it or not for this young man - she felt a deep sympathy for Victor, which, by the way, was mutual.

After three months of daily correspondence, the young people decided to meet.

Victor lived in another city, but happily came to a meeting with his beloved.

The first date met all expectations.

After six months of wandering back and forth and endless letters on the Internet, Victor bluntly said: "I'm in love with you up to your ears, marry me" and, having received her consent, moved forever to Nadya.

They have been happily married for two years.

What should I look for in order to understand that I like the guy by correspondence?

Only thanks to correspondence it's not so easy to start a relationship.

If in person we can analyze the look of the guy, his gestures, the signals he gives, then in this case we can pay attention to the text of the letter and how often the guy writes.

Nadia advises girls who correspond with boys, also pay attention to two points:

1. Does the young person show initiative.

   Actually this is the same as with a date in real life: you understand that you like a guy when he first invites you to a date, does not lazy to stroke a beautiful shirt and buy a bouquet of flowers, chooses where you will go, invites you to the next appointment, is calledconduct to the house, initiate a kiss, etc.

   It's the same in the process of correspondence: the guy offers to talk, asks questions to get to know you better, remembers what you like and what does not, tries to write without mistakes, goes back to contact, etc.

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2. Does the young man devote a lot of time to correspondence with you.

   If it is limited to banal unsubscriptions, hurry to turn off the conversation because it is always busy, do not hurry to respond to your letters, then most likely you do not like the guy.

   Interested guy will never exchange communication with a pretty girl for a game of Tanchiki.

Whether you like the guy by correspondence or not, you can, paying attention to what and how he writes

It does not matter if you write long e-mails to each other, or you limit yourself to short correspondence in social networks or via Skype, analyze the texts of the young man,to understand his feelings.

Letters from a guy who feels sincere sympathy for the girl will:

• as literate as possible, without mate and criminality;
• contain questions that will help him to know you better: about your family, work / study, hobbies, favorite music, books, films, etc.;
• cheerful, with witty( well, if lucky) jokes;
• fountain compliments and comparisons( in your favor, of course) with other girls familiar to him;
• with the young man's stories about himself, which indicates that he wants you to know him better;
• contain questions about how to act in this or that situation - he already in your correspondence is interested in your opinion;
• with unambiguous hints - not vulgar and vulgar, but with a note of eroticism;
• include the following phrases: "I'll look forward to your reply," "I miss," "How I would like to embrace you now," "I can not wait to see you," and the like;

And still pay attention to how the guy finishes his letters: a simple "Poka", "Chao" or "Well, it's time for me" indicates that you are not good enough for him.

Quite another matter: "I'm so sorry to interrupt our correspondence, but I need to run to work. See you soon "or" All the best, I'll miss until I receive your next letter. "

Another 3 signs to understand that you like the guy by correspondence

Here are a few more for girls, thanks to which you can finally understand whether a young man likes you or his messages are not serious intentions:

1. He can notto be filled with communication with you.

   He is ready to correspond by day and night and never ends the conversation first, but if he is forced to do this sometimes, he expresses his sincere regret that he needs to leave.

2. He is interested in: "Where have you gone?", Says that he has become bored, although quite a bit of time has passed since your last letter.
3. He builds joint plans for the future, for example, from time to time skip the phrases: "But when I see you, I'll show you my favorite cafe" or "I'll introduce you to my friend Vasya and you'll understand how cool he is."

And how do the girls themselves correspond with the guys to like them,

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How else can you understand if you like the guy by correspondence?

Sometimes the best way to learn something is to ask directly.

If you correspond with a cute guy to you just on the Internet, you do not have any mutual friends and he generally lives in another city, then to not bother about the topic, like you or not, just ask him about it.

You do not need to terrorize a guy with harassment "And when we get married?" If he just licked a couple of your photos, but if you've been in correspondence for some time, and you still could not figure out what feelings he feels for you, then whywould not ask a direct question in a playful manner.

For example: "Something I do not understand, my friend, do you like me, or do you just get bored with communicating with me?" Or "I'm going to torment the daisy by cutting off the petals to find out how you feel about me."

Even if the guy answers your question negatively - do not extinguish and do not cut off the correspondence.

Save your pride with the phrase: "Fuh, well, you calmed me, now we can just communicate in a friendly manner without any omissions."

You really can find a good friend or gradually reduce the correspondence to nothing if you lose interest in it.

Despite the number of letters I've written, I want to warn you: girls, do not rush from the first minutes: "Ahhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh How to understand that you like a guy by correspondence ?! ".

Everything will gradually fall into place.

If your communication has all the chances to develop into a novel, then soon you will receive from the young man all the signals that hint at it.