In the old days, boys of high class almost from childhood taught the art of talking.
And the mentors took care that these boys, when they become men, could speak compliments and charm the girl with words.
Yes, before men could speak nice words for a girl , but then somehow lost this skill.
And completely for nothing!
I believe that all fathers should teach their sons to speak beautiful speeches to young ladies who are being courted. Yes, and already won by the lady is worth pampering her with his oratory.
Why is it important to learn how to say pleasant words to a girl?
Women love with their ears!
This, slightly beaten, slightly annoying phrase is still absolutely true and relevant.
I would even say that today it is superactual, because modern girls are not too spoiled by beautiful confessions of love, intricate compliments, sincere apologies.
Oh, yes there to say: to meet a guy who is able to support the conversation on a variety of topics without stumbling while not inserting the words-parasites, jargon and mats - this is the limit of all dreams.
I do not know why it happened that men lost the skill to talk with the ladies. Why did they start to think that to squeeze once in the Five-Year Plan "Are you sexy" or grumble "Well, I'm sorry" - this is a feat worthy of all conceivable and unimaginable awards?
Perhaps, the fault of the unnecessarily tense twentieth century with its revolutions, wars, repressions, coups, the lost nobility and the destroyed intelligentsia is all to blame.
But understand, men, you are not excused by the fact that you forgot how to say pleasant words, which is vital to hear every girl.
Men who know how to express themselves beautifully will always have an advantage over their brethren who believe that "all kinds of compliments and confessions of love are a woman's whim and there's nothing to go on about these extortionists."
Dima and his ability to say pleasant words to girls. ..
Once upon a time there were three comrades.
They became friends in school and the fact that they entered the same university only strengthened their school friendship.
Two of the three comrades were handsome athletes with impressive external data, which, according to all the laws of the genre, had to be a huge success for the girls.
They, in fact, used - a little girl could resist the male beauty of the guys.
But the greatest success of the female sex was used by Dima. Low, thin, in ochechkah.
And the secret to Dima's success was that he knew what pleasant words to say to a girl that she melted.
Usually acquaintance of guys with cute girls in some cafes took place according to one scenario: they chose a table with the three most pretty girls, someone from handsome friends asked permission to sit down with the young ladies. Those, of course, agreed, because they saw one more charming, well, and Dima.
First, Dima was sort of like a load, and each of the girls present hoped that he would not get it, but after an hour of talking, a real fight was unfolding for the guy.
Against the backdrop of two handsome boys who were mostly silent, inserting short sentences or interjections into the conversation, Dima poured pleasant words, fountained with witty jokes and could support the conversation on almost any topic, from nuclear physics to the fashion trends of the spring of 2017.
Well, how can you not fall in love with this and not want him to be your boyfriend?
And you do not believe in the usefulness of the ability to say pleasant words to a girl.
Yes, skillful speakers can mask any flaws in appearance and character with beautiful speeches, so that the girl does not even understand what they are, these shortcomings you have.
Useful advices for guys who want to learn how to say a girl pleasant words
You have taken the path of correction if you are trying to master the art of beautiful speeches that are pleasing to any girl.
Here are some useful tips for those who want to learn how to say pleasant words:
- Say everything sincerely: and compliments, and confessions, and apologies, and wishes, and even - passionate obscenities.
We hear a falseness in words a mile away.
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Do not complicate everything.
To push before the girl speech for half an hour about how beautiful she is - this is an obvious bust. A complement that consists of one or two sentences will be enough.
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If you can not say in your own words - steal ideas from the great.
Both poets and prose writers have said so many pleasant words in their works that enough for all the guys in the world. Laziness flipping through thick books to find a couple of beautiful words?
Well, use the finished collections on the following websites:
- http://love.a-angel.ru /stihi/ ljubovnye-devushke-2.html
- http: //smsta.ru/m/ say_3
- http: //kompli.me/ krasivye-slova-dlya-devushek
- and others.
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Do not be embarrassed and do not laugh when you say something nice to a girl.
It's clear that it's difficult to overcome embarrassment, but if you build a crap or nervously giggle, you'll spoil the whole impression.
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How often should I say pleasant words for a girl?
Quite often, but so that it does not get bogged down with the flow of your word-of-mouth. In this matter it is better to focus on the personality of the young lady.
And what kind of nice words you need to be able to talk to a girl?
The main question that will most likely arise for guys is "And what, in fact, the words of the girl feel pleasant."
To the pleasant words for herself, each girl attributes:
- declarations of love;
- compliments;
- apologies( especially when you are really thoroughly offended);
- passionate catchwords;
- is what conveys your care, for example, wishes for a speedy recovery, etc.
1) Nice compliments for the girl.
Compliments are the kings of all beautiful words.
Each girl wants you to sing her beauty, mind and other virtues.
Recommendations how to say nice compliments to a girl:
- Speak about its specific merits, and not just limit yourself to common phrases "You're so beautiful", "You're so sexy," etc.
In the appearance of each girl there is something she considers her worth - find out what it is and praise him.
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It is better not to remember its shortcomings.
We are so arranged that at any age we will find an occasion to be dissatisfied with our appearance.
If you know that she thinks her legs are crooked( this may not be the case, but it seems to her), then do not invent a compliment about her legs. You can only make it worse.
And now, if she asks herself "Do I have crooked legs?" / "I'm fat?" Or something similar, do not hesitate to reply, "No, of course, you are very beautiful and you do not have flaws."
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Remember the diversity.
Do not say the same thing, it's boring. Even if you come up with a terrific compliment, you should not repeat it every day.
Look for new words that you can express your admiration for the girl.
2) Beautiful words of love.
Even the usual "I Love You" has a magical effect. A girl is ready to forgive a lot if a guy sincerely admits to her in love.
Just imagine what trump cards you will have if you learn how to say beautiful words of love and defy embarrassment to speak calmly and confidently.
Yes you will master any female heart!
Pleasant words of love for a girl should be:
- relevant;
- competently formulated;
- is not trivial;
- honest.
If you can not overcome the embarrassment in the presence of the girl and squeeze out the words of love so that they do not sound silly and artificial, you can write her love letters, sms or send postcards.
This will be no worse than full-time recognition.
3) Sincere apologies will melt the heart of any girl.
Now we turn to apologies.
The ability to apologize so that it is forgiven must be owned by every guy.
I'm not a supporter of gender injustice, when young ladies are waiting for an apology from the guy in case they mumble themselves, motivating all the stupid: "Well, I'm a girl. ..".
But I do not understand guys who do not want to apologize even when they are really to blame.
Very much depends on what kind of pleasant words you say to the girl, apologizing. Important:
- Express sincere repentance.
- Indicate what you are apologizing for, and not "Ok, catch your" forgive ", just get off me."
- Do not climb under the hot hand, and wait for a really relevant moment.
- Do not make public apologies( well, is it that your girl really likes show-off).
- Do not do more than what you just asked for forgiveness.
It seems to me that it is best, asking for forgiveness, to speak in your own words without intricate phrases. But, if it's hard for you to formulate a thought on your own, then keep a few tips:
Saying nice words to girls you must be able to!
And who, if not a girl, will teach you how to do it correctly:
4) Other pleasant words are also worth learning.
If you learn to say pleasant compliments, beautiful words of love and sincere requests for forgiveness, then the minimum plan can be considered fulfilled.
This will be enough for you to win the heart of almost any girl.
If you want to improve, you should know that girls also consider pleasant words:
- Phrases indicating support, albeit verbal, for example "Everything will be fine," "We'll cope, you'll see," "I'm with you,so you do not have to fight alone, etc.
- Wishes for recovery:
- Erotic frazochki.
- Toasts. Not once I saw how a guy spoiled the mood of his girlfriend, for example, on her birthday by not being able to say a beautiful toast.
Well, is it really so difficult to prepare in advance so that she will feel and love you even more?
- «Buy!» This is perhaps the most pleasant of all the words that you can say to your beloved. ☺
Pleasant words for the girl you need to learn to tell all the guys.
Believe me, it is vitally important for us to hear both compliments, and confessions of love, and other sweet speeches.