Men are polygamous.
This is confirmed to us by works of art, psychological research, and the men themselves, in general, do not hide this fact too.
Women in different ways come out of the situation: someone reconciles with male infidelity, someone stands up for an open relationship, while walking to the left, someone refuses to forgive betrayal.
When we start dating a guy, then we expect him to be faithful.
But we do not know whether it will be stored or not, so we suffer, suffer, constantly waiting for a dirty trick.
Do not be so harassed!
If you can not learn to trust a partner, then the test for fidelity to will help you.
To organize it is not so difficult as it seems to many girls.
Yes, and a drop of effort is worth the peace of mind when you make sure that the guy keeps you faithful, or saved time, if he does not pass the test.
A test of loyalty that destroys the relationship
People who are jealous, not confident in themselves or in their relationships, tend to be tested for loyalty.
I personally would not check my boyfriend, because I trust him and do not want to offend with unfounded suspicions.
Think about it, maybe it's worth doing the same, instead of coming up with cunning schemes and bringing out the "deceiver" to clean water, when he does not think about treason at all by a dream or a dream?
And for you to think better, I'll tell you a story.
There was a girl Marina with a beautiful guy( that's true, beautiful - many girls looked at him).
Oleg, despite his external attractiveness, was a guy modest enough, serious and in the soul of Marina did not want to.
They met more than two years - almost an ideal novel from the outside.
But we, Marina's friends, knew that she had been suspicious all this time, because she did not believe that such a handsome guy could keep her faithful.
Despite all our persuasions, the girl decided to conduct a check for Oleg.
For the role of seductress was chosen as a sexy waitress from the favorite restaurant of the couple, who has repeatedly demonstrated her sympathy for Marina's boyfriend.
Gave her a girlfriend of money and said to flirt with all her might at the meeting.
And now Marina and Oleg came to the restaurant, and the mean, long-in-love waitress Olga instead of working out the money, take it, and lay out the whole truth of the womb: "So, they say, and so, young man: your girl paid me toI seduced you. She does not trust you. And how can you meet with such a Satan? "
Naturally, the guy was offended.
The situation was further complicated by the fact that this evening he was going to make a proposal to Marina.
But instead of engagement ring girl because of her stupidity got the news about the break of relations.
Oleg could not forgive her for an organized check, and they broke up.
What should I think about before testing a guy for fidelity?
I told you this long story so that you are convinced: the plan you have conceived can not always end as you want.
Sometimes it ends with such a confusion, like that of Marina, and the loss of a loved one.
If you still do not stop thinking, how to check the guy for fidelity, then:
- Think about the plan in as much detail as possible so that it works and does not fail.
- Do everything to hide the fact of verification from the boyfriend, otherwise he may well throw you if he finds out that you do not trust him.
- Assemble the money, if you want to check with an unknown beauty - not for thank you, it will work, in fact.
- Carefully choose a candidate for the role of temptress, so that it does not turn out to be such an opportunity as my friend's.
- Once again, weigh all the pros and cons: maybe, well, its - checking this - better enjoy the relationship and learn to trust?
How can you be sure of the loyalty of a guy without a special check?
When we watch a movie where a young lady arranges a fidelity check for her beloved and he withstands it with honor, it seems so simple.
In fact, everything is much more complicated and does not always follow the plan you developed - keep this in mind.
You can make sure the guy is faithful, not making special checks for him, as follows:
- Look closely at how he behaves with unfamiliar girls and your girlfriends: staring at them, showing signs of sympathy, frankly flirting, furtive glances or does not pay much attention.
- A faithful boyfriend will give you your phone without any problems, so you can climb in and out of the way to protect your smartphone and computer.
- Call the guy and cancel the upcoming appointment, referring to some business;the guy that loves you, will be upset by this fact.
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For two hours from the appointment, let them know that your affairs are settled and you are ready to meet.
He was not happy because he already had time to plan something?
It's worth pondering.
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Call him at an unconditional time and watch how often he does not pick up the phone or refuses to talk, because he's busy.
Here, however, it is necessary to take into account the specifics of the boyfriend's work, perhaps the boss forbids him to solve personal problems during working hours.
How to behave with a guy: acquaintances, strangers, loved ones
How to test a guy for fidelity without help?
If you certainly decided to make sure that a loved one is not inclined to betrayal, then I advise you not to use this for your friends or common acquaintances.
Who knows if this friend or friend is secretly in love with the love of your boyfriend and will she want to take the chance to beat him off from you?
You can organize a loyalty check for a guy on your own:
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Having started on a social network where your favorite, "left" account hangs.
Put on the avatar picture of a beautiful girl, focusing on your guy's tastes, and start flirting with him.
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Registering on a forum where your young man often hangs.
Share his tastes, support him in disputes with other members of the forum, start communication in PM, and then offer to meet in real life, because "you have so much in common."
A normal guy will say that he has a girlfriend, and refuses to meet.
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Explore the history of the browser to find out what sites your young man is visiting.
This will help you to better know your sweetheart and start trusting him if you do not find anything terrible in history.
By the way, the cleared history leads to unpleasant thoughts that he has something to hide.
To check the relationship with your boyfriend and how faithful he is to you,
listen to the tips from the video:
Hire a girl to arrange a guy to check for fidelity
If none of the above methods work or you need an additional check,then the role of temptress.
It should be a beautiful girl, in the taste of your young man with some acting skills.
To find such it is possible among students of theatrical institute or in modeling agency.
Naturally, be prepared for the fact that she will want money for her services.
When a suitable candidate is found, think through the details of the fidelity check:
- Organize them a random meeting - in a cafe where your boyfriend dines, at a stop, on the street.
- The meeting should be organized competently, so that they have time to talk, let, for example, she ask to install her Windows, ask for help in the store, start going to the same sport club as he, etc.
- A girl hired by you should actively hint at how much she liked your boy, flirt with him and she must offer to meet again if your young man does not.
- If the guy remained impregnable, and you still have not calmed down, then you can organize a repeat "casual" meeting, here, they say, "the fate itself brings us together."
- Find out from the hired actress all the details of their meeting, ask if possible to provide evidence of fidelity / infidelity.
If check for fidelity to was honorably withheld by your guy, then stop beloved louse with your jealousy.
Start building relationships on trust.