How to make an offer to a guy?

The centuries-old traditions of our country require that the girl patiently wait until the guy ripens and offers her hands and heart.

But the male gender has now gone a bit timid and not in a hurry to take on obligations.

In addition, in the courtyard - XXI century, in which women in no way inferior to men, but in something( for example, in the ability to combine work, household duties, raising children and caring for themselves) even surpass them.

If you are tired of waiting for a man's initiative, then, having figured out how to make an offer to the guy , so as not to expose yourself to a general ridicule and blame, you can build your life as you see fit, without waiting for years until your timid choice ripens.

When is it best to make an offer to a guy?

Lonely women in Ireland, Scotland are very fortunate: once in 4 years, on February 29, they have the right to make a legal proposal to the guy they like.

The legend says that as early as the 5th century, Saint Bridget complained to St. Patrick's patron of Ireland on the injustice: the boys could call to marry the girl whom they liked when they wanted, but the ladies were deprived of such a right.

Saint Patrick decided to make life easier for single girls and appointed February 29 afternoon, when any lady can make an offer to a guy who feels sympathy.

In the XI century, this tradition was legalized first in Ireland, and then - and in Scotland.

The chance to arrange a family life on February 29 is also used by single girls from Finland, England, Denmark.

If a man refused the honor given to him, he had to pay a large fine.

For example, Finnish men were supposed to buy an unlucky bride cloth for a skirt, Danish - 12 pairs of gloves, Irish and Scottish to pay a certain amount of money.

Modern guys from the above-mentioned states are bought off with expensive gifts.

February 29 is the perfect day to make an offer to a guy.

How to interest a man?

You can always lie that you have a drop of Irish or Scottish blood and offer a man with whom you have been dating for a long time, to take you as a wife.

You can take the initiative in your own hands and on other days, inspired by the example of the British Queen Victoria, who herself chose her future husband, suggesting Prince Albert to rule Britain together.

What should I remember before I make an offer to a guy?

If you are thinking about how to make an offer to a guy, then for sure you are a bold girl, who is used to taking the initiative into her own hands.

It is certainly commendable that you have chosen such a difficult way of organizing your personal life, but remember the dangers that you are trapped in:

1. The guy's answer will not necessarily be positive.

   Prepare for the fact that instead of joyful euphoria "loved one agreed, and we will soon get married" you can experience a sharp pain from failure.

2. If you wrongly chose a guy who wants to offer himself as a wife, then besides the refusal you can expect other troubles: ridicule on his part and the side of his friends, gossip and condemnation behind your back, etc.
3. A young man can answer "Yes" not so much because he really wants to marry you, but because you caught him by surprise with his request and left him almost no choice.
4. & gt; There are still enough men who do not want women to make important decisions for them.

   It is likely that the guy was ready to make you an offer soon, and you will spoil your impatience and get a refusal not because you are not loved, but because of the principles of your chosen one.

5. And you are sure that even if you marry your family life will not be overshadowed by reminders: "Did you marry me to yourself"?

How to make an offer to a guy to meet?

I certainly would not have asked the young man to marry me, but to take the initiative to start dating, I think, could have been under certain circumstances.

Make an offer to a guy to meet does not mean that you have to stand on one knee and officially voice your request.

Everything is much simpler!

You only need to hint about your sympathy and if the guy is not a fool and you are cute to him, then he will definitely take the initiative in his hands.

Make an offer to a guy you can meet:

1. By writing him an email or message on social networks.
2. Inviting to drink a cup of coffee or a movie. The theme "I have an extra ticket for the premiere, and my friend at the last moment refused" is still relevant.
3. After flirting with him at a party.

4. Applying for help and using this moment to get acquainted closer.

   For example, a young man that you like is a programmer, so you can ask him to reinstall Windows for you.

5. Hitting him in the eye as often as possible.

   Well, how could he not put such a beauty on a date?

How to invite a guy to take you as his wife?

It is much harder to offer a young man to marry you than to meet.

Your operation to turn an unmarried girl into a married woman can be successful if you choose the right guy for the proposal.

You can only offer yourself as a wife to the youth with whom you have been dating for a long time, perhaps even live together, and with whom you have already discussed this topic and made plans for the future.

If you decide to win an unfamiliar man, then almost certainly get a refusal and advice to turn to a psychiatrist.

How to become a good wife?

Make an offer to your boyfriend as follows:

1. In a jewelry store, pointing to the ringlet that you would like to wear all your life.
2. During a romantic trip, when everything contributes to such offers.
3. One of my friends made a guy with whom they lived for 3 years, an offer to marry, giving him a pregnancy test with a positive result instead of a ring.
4. Organizing a dinner with candles.
5. Having fulfilled his cherished wish with the phrase "I want to please you all my life".
6. Traditionally, having fallen on one knee. Breaking traditions is cool!
7. In musical form, for example, sending an ensemble to it under the windows, etc.

How to make an offer to a guy - a story with a happy ending

I'll give you an example when, in my opinion, to make an offer to a guy is really appropriate.

Friends of my friends Olga and Mikhail have been living in a civil marriage for 6 years, have two joint children.

Mikhail repeatedly made a proposal to Olga, but the girl all dismissed: "Why this official, we are so well together."

On the 35th birthday of Mikhail, Olga organized a surprise party for him, but a real surprise awaited the man when he entered the room and saw a huge poster "I love you. Let's finally do it: officially get married ", illustrated with their shared photos.

The friends and relatives gathered at the celebration of the 35th birthday of Misha witnessed an incredibly romantic scene and immediately received invitations to their wedding, which was to take place in a month.

Olga already started to prepare for her( she found out everything in the registry office, chose the date, talked with the musicians and the photographer, started sewing the dress), because she did not doubt for a second: Misha's answer would be positive.

Beautiful and romantic recognition of a girl in love with her man

with a question whether he will become her husband:

I advise you to follow Olga's example and, before thinking, how to make an offer to the guy , make sure that his answer sounds: "Yes".

Otherwise, it is better not to risk and wait for the initiative on his part or look for a more brave young man who is not afraid of family life.