Let's face it. ..
Have you ever wondered why some of the fair sex do not have time to fend off the gentlemen before buying the first bra, and others have huge problems with their personal lives?
And, those who are ready to marry "already for anyone" are often more attractive than those who hand over chevaliers.
Fate? Luck?
Well, okay, if you so want, then 5% of 100% can be attributed to the fate.
But what about the other 95%?
I suggest listening to the immediate culprits of the failed personal life of many ladies - gentlemen.
The ideal girl through the eyes of the men : what it is and what it takes to become desirable and attractive in the eyes of the stronger sex - a topic that we'll talk to today.
Appearance of the ideal girl through the eyes of men
. As if sloths who do not want to look after themselves and sweat in the gym do not convince themselves, men love eyes!
Even after 30 years of marriage, any representative of the stronger sex wants his wife to look attractive.
But the ladies for some reason believe that they have the right to forget about what the masters of manicure-pedicure and hairdressers are for.
Curled at the word gym, as from a toothache, preferring to acquire dozens of extra pounds, disfiguring their body.
Not only at home, they walk in creepy dressing gowns or ragged sports, but they do not particularly bother with work clothes or festive clothes.
This is exactly what one of my mother's girlfriends Natalya Alekseevna did, turning from a beautiful girl( she saw her student photos) into a hippopotamus with greasy hair in clothes from second-hand clothes.
I always wondered when I saw them together: a slim, cute, dressed perfectly on him, Uncle Grisha, and an ugly looking Aunt Natasha.
And it would be nice to still unwillingness to look after yourself could be explained by financial difficulties, so no - both earned well and the husband did not limit his wife in spending.
All the blame - laziness and pofigizm aunt Natasha.
The truth that is the ideal woman through the eyes of men should be beautiful, Grisha's uncle proved by personal example: he left to an attractive colleague for 7 years his junior. Of course, the destruction of the family does not always happen as a result of the loss of the attractiveness of the wife, the reasons are much greater, but often, the woman's outward slovenliness repels her husband, releasing him into the arms of some beautiful woman.
Mind ability of an ideal woman through the eyes of men
You can safely spit in the face of those hens who claim that the modern gentlemen only give a fool!
Silly silicone ladies attract only insecure nouveaux riches, with which no normal woman simply will not live, so let them settle for stupid dolls.
The ideal girl should:
- work in a field that is more or less related to intellectual work;
- be an interesting interlocutor;
- is not dishonored, considering that Hawaii is in Africa, and the dominant is a man who loves to play dominoes;
- read - a woman with a book looks incredibly sexy;
- to be smarter and wiser, that is, not to aggress aggressively your mental abilities, trying to humiliate a man.
As you can see, the representatives of the stronger sex are not so easy to please.
On the one hand, they value the female mind, but on the other hand they take care that their Ego does not suffer.
To tell you the truth, I understand men in this respect.
I myself do not like too much dried up intellectuals who, even while barbecuing with friends, pour out the terms they have diligently learned from the dictionary.
Wiser to be, ladies!
The ideal woman: what character traits should one possess?
To admit, preparing for you this item, I was somewhat confused.
The study of this topic in one of the men's forums threatened to end with the phrase: "These reptiles themselves do not know what they want!", Because many answers were diametrically opposed.😕
Having collected all will into a fist, I nevertheless returned to the study of this issue and singled out the features of the character of the ideal girl through the eyes of men who met in the male responses most often.
So, with, the ideal woman through the eyes of men should be:
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Kind.
From wicked witches and hating all living, gryms - gentlemen prefer to stay as far as possible.
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True.
The vast majority of men in this forum confessed that they could not forgive treason.
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Caring.
It turns out that the representatives of the stronger sex like when they are every day preparing fresh soups and taking care of them, like the small ones, when they get sick.
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Feminine.
That is, women, such as "a horse at a gallop stop, in a burning wigwam will run", should go into oblivion.
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Patient.
To put up with the bad mood of the husband after an unpleasant conversation with the boss, do not be nervous, reminding him the 78th time that dirty socks should be put in a basket, and not hide under the bed, and smooth out all sharp corners.
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Strong.
Yes, you did not misunderstand: when men are in trouble or they want to show weakness, we must substitute our shoulder, and do this so as not to offend the male ego.
What else should an ideal girl have?
It would seem that the more demanding representatives of the stronger sex still need to, after all, they have already said so much.
The ideal woman through the eyes of men, besides all of the above, still has to:
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Be sexy.
That is, to cause sexual desire in a man, to force to want himself and. .. not to complain about headaches all the time.
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To think about the future:
take care of one's health, do not abuse alcohol, do not squander all the money on rags, but be able to save money on global purchases, want a family and children.
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Be a good housewife.
You should not limit your world to borscht and cleaning, but the ability to cook deliciously and keep the house clean will greatly increase your chances of successfully marrying.
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Working.
Well, gentlemen do not like limited housewives and freeloaders who are only whining, sitting at home, that her husband earns little.
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Feel free to show your love.
This can be done with embraces, kisses, romantic surprises, a scene of jealousy( without fanaticism and not too often), which will end with reconciliation in bed, reminders to wear a scarf, kind words - whatever.
And that's what really men want!
Lovely girls / women - we take note.
P.S.a direct hint in the forehead!😉
As you can see, it's not easy to become the ideal girl , such as the men want to see us, but for the true ladies nothing is impossible.