How to become a strong woman: 10 secrets

Weak sex. ..

This nickname we got from men many centuries ago.

First, it was about physical strength - most women really can not boast of its presence.

Then, by this definition, the full financial dependence of the ladies on gentlemen was implied: first from the father, then from the husband.

But the times have changed, more and more the ladies refused to go to the wimps and thought about how became a strong woman .

Today, it's embarrassing to pretend to be a helpless amoeba, entirely dependent on her husband.

To be honest, I'm sorry for women who actually fall into slavery to men, devoting their entire lives to their husbands, often tolerating disdain, treason, and even - bullying.

And do not be arrogant here: "Ah, this is all envy of our married".

What envy?

I have nothing against marriage, but female slavery is time to eradicate a long time ago.

And the sooner you, "happily married", this will understand, the better for you.

How to become a strong woman: is it too late to learn?

If you have home plants, then you understand how much effort and time you need to put on to make them look beautiful and feel good.

Correct watering, light, fertilizing, spraying, transplanting, loosening of soil, etc.

And now imagine that you stopped watering them.

What will happen to the plants? They will perish!

And now think of the life force of the grass, which breaks the asphalt, looks for at least some areas of the soil, stretches to the sun, despite the unfavorable conditions.

This is exactly the same with a person, especially with ladies!

"If a girl is incredibly good in her youth, but scattered and does not bring anything to the end - the beauty will quickly go away.
If it has very modest external data, but a strong character - the charm will grow with the years ".
Sophia Loren.

While brave gardeners create greenhouse conditions in the form of cash irrigation and protection from adversity, they do not hurry to learn how to become a strong woman.

But, if today you do not need anything, then who will give a guarantee that will also be tomorrow?

If the man you are hiding behind today, like a stone wall, tomorrow will go, find another. .. or with him, God forbid, - there will be a misfortune!

Who will you trust?

And if you have to answer not only for your life, but for the life of the kids?

Is not it better to learn to stand confidently in advance, so that you do not have to do it in a hurry?

How did you become such a strong woman?

Once on Friday, I was on a hen party, in the company of two of my friends: Ani and Lesi.

Both early married, and like - quite happily. They talked about their personal lives, complained about their men, in general - everything, as always.

And then Lesya and Ani actually got a dialogue, which I followed with interest.

Lesya: We, last weekend with Sergei, made sushi at home, it was so delicious.

Anya: My Slavik comes to the kitchen only behind a plate of food.

Lesya: Tomorrow we'll sleep, and then we'll clean up to completely release Sunday.

Anya: And I do the cleaning on Wednesday or Thursday, and then Slavik gets angry if I put it off until the weekend. He says: "Can I ever rest?".

Lesya: And on Sunday we agreed with friends in the forest to go, while the last warm days are.

Anya: And mine again will fall for two days on fishing, and I'll hang around at home.

Lesya: I saw such stunning boots, true, a little expensive, but Seryozha reassures: "If you like it, buy it. We will always earn money. "

Anya: And I saw such a shocked skirt, but my says: "I do not care about new rags - you are still at home".

Then this strange conversation continued in the same spirit, until Anya could not stand:

"Damn, I was all convinced myself that I had successfully married, but now I understand what kind of relationship can be. He does not put me at all. After graduating from the institute, he was not allowed to go to work, and now reproaches every penny. That's how you could become such a strong woman ? ".

We tried to calm the girlfriend, convincing that everything can be changed, there would be a desire.

They gave Anya a lot of advice. I chose the top 10 for you.

10 secrets that will help you become a strong woman

1. Watch for yourself.

   Someone from the great ladies, I read the phrase: "The more my problems, the higher my heels."

   Neither the seat of the house, nor the presence of children, nor any troubles - not an occasion to turn into something fat and neglected!

   It's better to meet any difficulties in full parade.

2. Respect yourself.

   Women suffering from complexes, from the inferiority syndrome - cause only pity, but will never cause respect.

   So - it will not be perceived as an equal.

   Here, for example, you took a stray dog ​​into the house, washed it, fed it, left to live.

   You can love her, never offend, but you will still understand that you are the master, and she is your pet. And for the described rug or pogrezennye shoes it must be punished.

   Would you like to be in this dog's place?

3. Do not allow yourself to be offended.

   The husband came from work in a bad mood and yelled at you.

   You silently, all swallowed, but he did not even consider it necessary to apologize? Be sure: this situation will be repeated more and more often.

   This attitude must be suppressed at the root.

4. Grow.

   Even if your man admires that you, except culinary people, do not read any books, not the fact that he thinks so!

   You have to be an interesting interlocutor, to operate on facts, not emotions in a dispute, to keep abreast of events, to follow novelties of cinema, music, etc.

5. Do not live one day.

   
   You do not work because your husband provides you everything.

   And if tomorrow he tells you: "Go to all four sides," can you feed yourself?

   Money need is not the only reason to work!

6. Do not stop halfway.

   Accustom yourself to any business to finish.

   It does not matter what it is - a complex dish or learning English.

7. Train your body.

   Your muscles should be obedient to you.

   Strong should be not only the spirit, but also the body, so do not forget about regular sports activities.

8. . Live life to the fullest.

   Even if you are a housewife, you should not limit your existence to four walls - you are not a hamster!

   The husband should know that you do not wait for him for days, inventing new dishes, but living a full life.

9. Learn from other people's experiences.

   Let among your friends there will be at least one strong woman, from it you can learn many secrets how to become the same.

10. Do not be afraid of failure.

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Before become a strong woman , you need to overcome many obstacles.

If you retreat before the first, then you will remain a weak sex.