Follow these simple rules and you will not recognize yourself!
From you , the confidence of will come from the rays, and others will reach out to you!
Because weak people always reach out to strong ones!
So, let's get started!
1. How to become confident?
The very first thing you need to stop once and for all compare yourself with other people!
You are an individual, you are a person - and such as you are no more and will not be on this planet!
Be yourself, finally!
If you play the game "Comparisons" - you very often will be a loser, as there will always be those people who will be better than you, who will be ahead!
In human psychology, one simple truth is laid down - no person compares himself to those who are worse than him!
Always remain your self and lap your confidence only in your abilities!
2. Self-confidence is first and foremost a belief in yourself!
Always live your life!
Understand when you live someone else's life, while following other people's ideas and ideals - you can never feel and know yourself completely, you can not respect yourself!
Never wait for any approval from others - always do what will work for you, that you think is necessary!
3. Your confidence lies in communicating with positive people!
From time immemorial it is known that first of all, confident person loves and respects himself, and this same love spreads to the surrounding people - and this in turn is for them a powerful support!
Always try to communicate with positive, optimistic and strong people!
Remember - those people who sow negative around themselves - always pull you to the bottom with them!
Negative and pessimistic will always suppress your desires, impulse, aspirations, it will kill all your ideas!
And you, without being aware of it, gradually turn into the same loser!
4. How to become confident? Stop criticizing yourself!
Always remember - any of your thoughts materialize!
A lot of people have an unfortunate habit of blaming themselves!
For example, you once said such phrases: "Something in my life is only a black band!", "It could only happen to me," "I always draw trouble," "I'm always late," and t.
These all phrases contribute to the formation of negative perceptions of oneself!
Never say such words again, do you hear?
Never think negatively about yourself!
Do not throw criticism at your side - it will ruin you!
5. Zaporuka self-confidence - this is your everyday achievements!
My dear, do not be lazy to get yourself a daily schedule of your everyday victories!
For example:
"I read today 30 pages of the book Andrew Matthews" Live easy ", or" At last I did not get too lazy and ran in the morning, before work, I'm done! "Or" I learned 6 English words today, this is socool, "etc.
Let your daily schedule always be at your fingertips so you can view your achievements - which will always keep you in good shape and will add strength to you!🙂
6. Warn yourself of problems - like nasty flies!
The confidence of will only come to the person who will not pass everything through himself, but it will be easier to treat different situations!
Let's think. ..
Many people adore with a fly make a huge elephant!
They like to screw themselves up to such an extent that sometimes it becomes even funny!
Very often your problem may not be as big and complex as you imagine it!
Just your constant thinking of it brings it to the size of the Apocalypse 🙂
If you, for example, can not fall asleep from what you thought that you made a bad impression on your boss in some situation - take and wave on it with your hand,forget it - it's better for you!
From what you are experiencing and torturing yourself - it will NEVER be better!
Love yourself!
Zaporuka self-confidence - to all situations, try to be easier to treat!
Make yourself a rest, and finally say: "Enough with me! At me all is WONDERFUL, it is better does not happen! »😉
7. Self-confidence - ability not to go in cycles in the past!
Never waste your energy, your precious time for thinking about past deeds!
Everything is already there, behind.
Such thoughts will prevent you from tearing forward to your goal!
All people and always make mistakes - there are no ideal people!
It's better to leave your strength in thinking about your achievements, about your small victories.
Be able to forgive yourself and move on to your happiness, and to your confidence !
8. Listen to yourself - and you will gain self-confidence!
A lot of unpleasant and negative situations appear in our lives from the fact that we can not always understand what we really need!
Think about it, but suddenly you have already achieved what you wanted, but continue to blindly go forward, slipping past your dream?
And she was so close. .. 99.9% of people always feel insecure, live with her every day, realizing that they can not achieve. .. but what you can not achieve, eh?
Answer yourself to this question!
Initially, you need to understand yourself, what do you really need in order to be on top?
9. How can I be sure? Immerse yourself in what you love!
Agree, it is very difficult to feel a happy person, if all your days are spent on hateful work, and everything swims along the same current, equally!
And here is when you are doing your favorite thing - especially if you have eyes burning from the fact that you are good at it - then you have half found yourself!
If you still do not want to quit your job, then at least give your free time to your favorite pastime and who knows - maybe it will bring you a huge success in the future!🙂
10. The pledge of self-confidence - the ability to speak firmly and confidently!
Remember, words always have powerful power!
The character of a person can be immediately identified by his words!
Never throw your words to the wind!
Do not answer anyone sharply, speak intelligently, calmly and confidently - and people will start treating you differently!
I wish everyone the same iron Self-confidence, as in this video! !!
Be sure to watch it 🙂
11. Self-confident people - always write a list of their positive qualities
Every person on this
Planet has its unique abilities, skills, features!
Sincerity, honesty, kindness, responsiveness. ..
Look at your list more often, know how to focus on your positive qualities - and your will come to you. Confidence !
12. Try to use your weaknesses - to your own advantage!
How to do this?
Do not scold yourself for any flaws!
There are drawbacks for every person and even pohlesche your!
It will be much easier for you to get rid of your weaknesses if you try to optimize them to the maximum!
For example, twist your curiosity in such a quality as - curiosity;your stubbornness - in purposefulness!