How to find your calling?

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Our most important task in life is not to become someone, but to understand who we really are!

So, answer the following questions:

Do you feel life goes by you?
Are you rushing to work in the morning?
Work takes away so much energy from you that you are too lazy to think about inspiration?
Do not you have a favorite business from which you wake up in the morning with burning eyes?
Do you often get depressed or do you notice apathy?

If you said yes to at least one statement - congratulations!

From now on, you will open doors to an amazing and full of life world.

In other words - it's time for you to "tie" with the present life and start off on to find your own vocation .

Because what you are doing now, not only does not bring you joy, but also takes away all your vitality.

Continuing to remain inactive, you run the risk of falling into a whirlpool of protracted depression, tantrums and, possibly, billing life.

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You do not want this, do you?

How to find your calling?

But what should I do?

How to find your calling? - you ask.

There's nothing complicated in this!

A little reflection and a couple of steps - that's the recipe how to become happy.

We, in turn, will try to direct you to the desired goal.

What is calling?

Before proceeding with to seek the vocation of , let's look at the term itself and its designation.

So, what is calling?

"Everyone has his vocation. Talent is to know it. "
Ralph Emerson

Calling is something for which a person wants to live, for which he gets up in the morning and goes to bed in the evenings.

Calling is a job where a person catches an incredible buzz.

Calling is something for which a person was born at all.

Someone is called to be a teacher, someone likes to save lives, someone is born to become a mother, and someone to "smoke bamboo" among coconut palms.

And if you do not get pleasure from your business, then it's time for you to find your vocation .

The next 5 steps will help you understand which direction to move!

Step 1. Ask the universe the right questions!

Most people do not find their place in life just because they ask the wrong questions.

Thinking about what we want to do, we think mostly about the professions of doctors, teachers, firefighters, drivers, etc. Therefore, we ask ourselves "What profession can I approach?"

But this is a wrong question.

Instead, ask yourself "What would I like to do if I had a million dollars?"

This question may get you stuck, but, in fact, all the answers will be the most sincere, reflecting your real desires.

For example, my friend the financier said she would become an ordinary secretary.

I would sit, answer the calls and carry coffee.

As a result, she nevertheless revised her life principles and became an administrator at the English school, where she was not loaded with numerous reports and regular business trips.

Although she lost in salary, but found a favorite thing.

Therefore, listen to yourself and be honest, first of all, with yourself.
Step 2. We struggle with contradictions!

So, you answered yourself, what would you do with a bag of "greens".

But you start to swallow nasty thoughts that prevent you from doing what you love.

For example, I do not have that age, and suddenly nothing will turn out, no one will appreciate my work, who will feed the family and then a full list of nonsense. ..

I hasten to please you, such thoughts gnaw at absolutely everyone, but only a few can cope with them.

So let's fight with your head and get rid of stereotypes.

And to make it easier for you, I'll give an example in the face of Alan Rickman.

If anyone does not know, Alan brilliantly played the role of a Potions professor in the Harry Potter tape.

And you know that almost up to 30 years he worked as a designer, after which he realized that his true vocation was theater.

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Therefore, do not be afraid of anything and drive away all the nasty thoughts from yourself.

Remember: changing the scope of activity is never too late!
Step 3. Proceed!

When you have decided on your favorite things and have thrown out unnecessary emotions out of your head - take action.

If you are afraid to quit your job, then at the initial stage you can not do it.

Do your favorite thing in your spare time, and when your business starts to bring a significant income, give up hated work.

If you have several options for what you would like to do, try everything in turn.
Step 4. Save the sequence!

Often it happens that we grab for one thing, then switch to another, third, etc. As a result, we can not do anything, we freak out and go back to square one.

At this stage do not panic, do not get nervous and bring it to the end.

If you really found your vocation , then from the completed task you will feel an unprecedented burst of energy and a clear confidence to move on.
Step 5. Drive fears!

Insecurity is the most important obstacle to achieving a goal.

Even if you know what you want to do, you know how to achieve your goal, only fear can hinder you.

By the way, your loved relatives and close friends can feed fear.

They can hotly point you to all sorts of risks, thereby inflaming your fear.

Therefore: always look at the fear in person, in advance, calculate all possible risks and losses, do not share plans with relatives.

As they say, less know - better sleep.

With your family, you can only share successes, but in no case do not devote in detail.