Do you know the feeling of resentment when everyone seems to have conspired and try to incite you, laugh at you, over your gait, over your words, over your actions?
You do not understand these jokes, and you can not say anything in response, because the only desire that you have arises in these situations is to escape, or to respond rudely to the wit.
But do not despair - there is a more positive solution!
You can develop a sense of humor , and learn how to respond with dignity to the plumes of wits in your address.
We develop a sense of humor with a laugh at ourselves!
The sense of humor is the ability to respond to events easily.
The reasons for the negative reaction to jokes, misunderstanding of humor are the low emotional level and intellectual development of a person.
But there is good news!
Both the first and the second can, it is necessary and useful to develop, and we will help you in this practical advice!
In order to start the to develop a sense of humor - you need to raise the emotional level!
First of all, learn to laugh at yourself!
Pay attention to your own habits, attachments, addictions, and joke on them.
For example, you have long been hesitant to throw out an old sofa and buy a new one, you can say to yourself:
"My old sofa is better than ten new ones! We have experienced so much together. We are kindred souls! "😉
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Or if you drive around the whole day, you can say:
"It's good to have a car - you do not have to pay for the fare or the apartment!" 🙂
If at once it's not funny, then it's okay, the advantage of laughing at yourself is, that no one appreciates you, you are for yourself a jury!
A cheerful look at life will help to develop a sense of humor!
After training yourself, go to the objects and events of the world around you and continue the to develop your sense of humor !
But for now, do not rush to voice the "pearls" you found.🙂
To begin with, write down your fascinating, creative "business ideas" and views, analyze and select the ones that you most like.
Pay attention to the shape, color of the object, its characteristics, and give the association that it calls you.
For example, an umbrella.
If with a twisted handle, then the association may be that it is the staff of a shaman, or sage.
The umbrella protects against rain, to this property the association may be that an umbrella is a "protector against all ills," or "a protector of comfort."
If your friend wears a pink shirt, you can say that he is a "pink flamingo".🙂
But be careful, a joke can both strengthen the relationship, and cause dislike depending on the situation.
Recorded and selected suitable jokes will be your arsenal, which you can use every day.
Continuous practice will help you to joke better and better, and your view of life will become more fun.
Jokes filled with power and energy will only strengthen the development of a sense of humor!
In order to fill jokes with more strength and energy, it is necessary to enhance intellectual development.
Begin to expand your vocabulary, read books, not only humorous, read different, for example, stunned business book by Donald Trump "The Art of Bargaining"!
This will expand your horizons, increase your erudition, and your jokes will stand out with their sharpness and accuracy.
Witty people think associatively.
Think associatively - means to distinguish in different in value objects the same characteristics.
The development of the sense of humor is to compare disparate things.
Practice, and you will succeed.
"There are three manifestations of God on earth: nature, love and sense of humor. Nature helps to live, love helps to survive, and a sense of humor to survive. »
Mikhail Zadornov joke
success depends not only on the selected object and successful association, but also on how to present it.
For this you need to apply the acting skills.
Improvisation, gesturing, appropriate intonation are also integral parts of a good joke.
Imagine: You are traveling by bus, and a nearby person stands on your foot and does not notice it.
What will your actions be?
Will you ask this person to get off your leg?
Or just let him know that he is standing on your leg, and let him guess himself, what to do?
And can offer to swap places?
So, you are on the bus stuffed with people, like a herring in a can, next to you is a man who has stood on your foot.
You say: "Sorry, you stepped on my foot. Let's switch places with you. "
The man kindly apologizes to you in return and becomes in your place, and you are on his, and also step on his foot.🙂
The situation looks comical, but the reaction to such an action for different people will be different.
The joke is able to defuse the situation and strengthen the relationship.
But if a person does not understand the joke, then this can trigger an attack of aggression, and, as practice shows, it's not everyone who can control anger!
So pay attention to who you joke with, and what are you joking about, or is it too little?😉
And now select for yourself a couple of minutes
and see a VERY powerful video about Nick Vuichich!
This is a man that nature has spoiled many,
but he still has not lost his sense of humor and continues to rejoice and enjoy life!
Everyone should think about it!
Are not you ashamed( having everything) to find different reasons to ponyt and complain about life?
Watch the video and motivate ourselves for a better life!
Always keep faith in yourself and under any circumstances, look with a smile at life, because she is one and more this will not happen.