I want to become a psychologist: where do I start?

Today

Diary of success to share with you interesting tips, how to become a psychologist yourself!

No, not at all that's the psychologist who listens to people's problems and gives certain advice!

We will learn to conduct an analysis of people's behavior, watch their gestures and actions!

I want to become a psychologist or what is the first thing that a graduate psychologist pays attention to?

Alas, but these days it is still impossible to read other people's thoughts.

But if a good deal, we do not need it to be able, merely need to learn to observe and use a minimum psychological knowledge.

Remember, about 70% of the world's population, show their desires for behavior, movements, gestures and facial expressions.

If you learn to read gestures correctly, then this will give you a lot of advantages.

For example, by gesticulating an interlocutor, you can easily determine whether a person is lying to you or not?

Also, thanks to the knowledge in the field of body language - you will be able to steer the conversation in the direction you want, to win the interlocutor and obtain consent to your offer!

Cool, right?

This ability will help you not only in business relations, but also in his personal life, and suddenly you want someone to fall in love with yourself?🙂

1. The pupils.

   Since ancient times, there is a saying: "Eyes, this is the mirror of the soul" - and this saying is completely truthful.

   The pupils of a person change their size not only from lighting.

   When you are interested in the interlocutor, the pupils expand, and it does not depend on darkness or light, lighting in this situation does not matter.

   Let's say a person wants to get to know you, and decides to start a dialogue with you.

   He's looking for topics that interest you, if he finds an interesting topic for conversation, then your pupils expand under the influence of interest, and a certain topic of conversation captures you completely, and you do not notice it yourself.

   There is an erroneous opinion. .. if you look at the person during a conversation in the eye, then he will necessarily tell you the truth, and you will learn all his cherished secrets.

   Direct, uninterrupted view, most likely shows that a person sympathizes with you or something is interested in you, the longer this look, the higher the interest to your person.

   But such reactions are different, if a person hides something or he does not have a clear conscience, then the pupils of the eyes can start running, usually from right to left or vice versa.

   Just consider the person himself, maybe he's just a closed or shy person, maybe he's at a loss, you can reveal this by talking to such a person.

2. Facial expressions / gestures.

   
   How to become a first-class psychologist ?We pay attention to the gesticulation of people!

   With different gestures, a person can show( without realizing it) his words and feelings that he did not say.

   Observe, if you do not look at the person in person, then he will supplement the information with the movements of hands or change the position of the body.

   If in a conversation with a person you noticed that he tilted his head during your question or answer, his hand gesture is fast and with a small amplitude, most likely it means that you have chosen the right keyword in the conversation.

   When talking to a person, he looks away at extraneous objects or objects, periodically lowers his head, crosses his arms in the chest area, transfers the weight of the body from one leg to the other, which means that the conversation topic is not interesting to him, and he thinks "he will get rid of such an interlocutor like you! "

   This will be confirmed by an extended leg forward, and the hands on the belt - in this case it is better to finish the dialogue, since these gestures mean that the interlocutor starts to get nervous!

3. Personal area.

   Every person has his own personal space, to which he can only let people close to him know him.

   If an unfamiliar person tries to break this space( especially it happens to girls, when ill-bred guys stick to them), then the first will be to drive away the annoying insolent from oneself, and forget about the unpleasant moment.

   In the worst case, an impudent man can get a heel on his hump!

   Oh, it was the case, it was. .))))

   I propose to view a small video clip with a few more tips on the topic,

   how to learn to understand other people.

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4. Learn to listen to the interlocutor.

   There are people who begin the sentence and do not even let the listener say a single word - solid boring!

   In this situation, the listener can instantly lose interest in the narrator's words, since this is a complete disrespect from the narrator.

   Remember, the silent, observant and little-spoken interlocutor is much more pleasant in conversation than the one who constantly speaks, never stops, and does not pay the slightest attention to someone else's opinion.