Psychological methods. Or how to achieve what you want?

Start the conversation with a compliment.

And do not shout here about the banality.

Flattery is a powerful psychological device that works almost always irreproachably, but there are three:
- do refined, not banal compliments;
- understand that it is you who praise: if your bosses have complexes about excess weight, and you say that in a new dress it resembles a bun, then the result will be exactly the opposite;
- do not use this technique too often not to be sneered.
Make it so that the person from whom you need something owes you a good deed.

For example, you know that the department head, on which your promotion depends, is looking for a rare book for a daughter writing a thesis.

And here is a huge library of your friend is just such a book is available.

So, you need to persuade a friend and borrow from him a book for the boss.

You already have one advantage over competitors!😉
Share the tastes, interests and passions of the person you need.

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It is not necessary to become Krishna or a vegetarian, just like registering with the box section or the macrame courses.

It is good enough to theoretically study the topic in order to competently support the conversation.

This method is not suitable for everyone.

People who use it are often called chameleons and are not respected.

Think about whether you are ready to step on your throat to succeed?
Ask for the maximum and get just as much as you need.

This psychological reception is almost identical to trading: the seller obviously overstates the price, the buyer - understates, and they converge on the golden middle, which suits both.
Put a person in such conditions that he himself offered to help you.

This advice will work only if a person enters the circle of your friends and relatives, or just feels uncomfortable, refusing people.

Ask two times for something almost impossible( but only - real: ask, get the moon from heaven, do not need it).

And if you need help in the future, then the person who refused you twice, he will offer his services to make amends.
What's in your name. ..

Remember that the psychological tricks of work only when you execute them in a jewelly and thoughtful way.

Most people like their name, so repeatedly use it in conversation, avoiding the pronouns you / you.

But if the head of your department allows you to call yourself Aristarkh Benediktovich only to the director, and from your subordinates you need to call yourself a boss or somehow else, then, remembering his name-patronymic in talking about raising wages, you risk achieving a significant decrease in it.
Imagine a person with his idea.

For example, you want your wealthy friend to help financially support the animal shelter in which you work as a volunteer.

You know that she adores animals, but she does not like to share money.

Show her cute kittens and funny puppies, tell a heart-wrenching story that today there was nothing to buy them food.

You do not have time to look back, how she will donate a tidy sum, or maybe join your noble movement altogether.
Criticism - fight!

For example, you are working on a joint project with your colleague.

Even if the ideas it offers are far from perfect, then openly ridiculing and criticizing it, you will rush into a scandal and bring cooperation to the collapse.

It's better to act softer: "Your idea is not bad, but maybe we'll try a little bit like this. .."
Tired and sleepy easier to suggest.

Again, look at the characteristics of the character vis-a-vis.

If you know that after a hard day at work, your wife becomes angry and nervous - and does not like to be touched at all, then it is not necessary on this day to go fishing.

Risk to say goodbye to spinning!(.. that's right, for a note to the male sex. ..) 😉
I'm a Kiwan-Pokivan. ..

Among the psychological tricks, this is not the last place.

Remember, if you agree with what the person says, then automatically nod, right?

This circuit also operates in an inverted form.

Constantly nodding, listening to your interlocutor, you automatically program it for consent.

Do you think it's easy to manipulate people?

I'm sure most of you think it's very difficult.

In the specialized literature, opinions were divided into radically opposite:

, some researchers claim that it is enough to read several books( naturally, the first issue is the author's own edition:) ) and voila - you are a steep manipulator;
others - that it is almost impossible: to instantly get what you want from a person, you need to have extraordinary abilities, including - and to own hypnosis.

The truth, as always, hides somewhere in the middle: in order to get what you want, you need to perfectly master the psychological techniques of !

So it's already there. .. Today, I'll open 10 secrets for you( I will not hide it myself), which will help to reach your goal faster.

P.S.Naturally, they may seem to someone subjective;Naturally, they are not a panacea for all failures;naturally, they largely depend on the impeccability of your performance and the psychological characteristics of the vis-a-vis, but they do work. All recommendations are verified by me personally!😉

10 psychological techniques - will help achieve what you want!

Perhaps not on the topic, but still. .. could not get around this video side!

Provided effective and interesting psychological techniques,

that will help in combating the sweet!🙂

. .. the video is dedicated to all sweethearts( and I am also in your ranks)!

And finally: remember that the psychological techniques of are nothing in themselves!

They work only if you use them at the exact time, in a suitable situation and with a psychologically ready person.