Setting goals: how to set goals correctly?

Do you know what the realization of your goals depends on?

On the correctness of their production!

Naturally, the steps that you take to play a vital role play an important role.

Minor role played by luck.

But the most important step in the life of every person is the first.

That's why the topic of today's article: " How to correctly set goals" to achieve the desired as quickly as possible!

Setting goals: what is it?

Many people misunderstand the essence of the concept.

They think that by saying "I want", they have already set a goal.

However, between the judgments "desire" and "goal" there are serious differences.

Desire is something in between an ambiguous desire and a deliberate choice.

It can take a specific form, but it can also be expressed in an abstract phrase, like: "I wish that there was peace in the whole world!"

Desire is characterized by:

• with some awareness( a person almost always understands exactly what he wants to get);
• a search for motivation( thinking about why I need it);
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• availability let the fuzzy, but still representations of how I will implement this desire.

The goal is a very real thing, to which a person strives and for which he takes concrete steps.

When I say "subject", I do not mean clothing or a typewriter, it may well be an object of love, a trip abroad, the post of deputy director, the recovery of my mother, etc.

"The only thing that stands between you and your goal is the shitty thought of why you can not achieve this goal, which you constantly scroll in your head."
Jordan Belford

The main features of the goal:

• the presence of a specific shape in the object,which you are going to get;
• you can easily answer the question, why do you need it, or the ultimate goal is that the motivation is clear and without explanation;
• you are taking concrete steps to implement it.

In general, the catch phrase: "I see the goal - I do not see obstacles" - exhaustively explains the essence of the concept.

And if you know the how to set targets, then there will be no obstacles on your way at all.

Setting goals: learning to do it right

Achieving the desired can be very difficult.

In failures, we blame anyone: fate, enemies, but not himself.

Even without guessing, it is so important to know, how correctly to set goals, we initially doom ourselves to failure.

In order for everything to work out, several things should be considered.

1. Trust your secret desires with paper.

   Your goal takes shape when you record it.

   It is for this purpose that a collage of desires is created.

   Writing and color illustration take you one step closer to realizing your goal.

2. Create goals as accurately as possible.

   Avoid vague phrases that can be interpreted in two ways.

   Looking at your list or collage of desires, no one else( and you, including) should have any additional questions or reflections: "What did you really have in mind?"

3. Real goals are the guarantee of their execution. No, I do not contradict myself.

   No, this item does not exclude the previous one.

   The real and global goal does not exclude each other.

   You can become a doctor of sciences or start your own business if you try very hard.

   And here to go for a drive on the unicorn or to go to travel in time - hardly!

   Although, everything is in your hands. .. depending on your imagination!

4. Dream about the global.

   
   Let your goals include small ones, for example, buying fashionable boots, but they should not be limited to them.

   Around the world tour, a house in the Alps, own business, the title of doctor of science - you should not drive yourself into rigid frames!

5. Visualize your goals.

   We have talked about this more than once.

   The better the photo you choose for a collage of desires, the more detailed and colorful a picture you will imagine, the faster it will come to life.

6. Limit your goals to a time frame.

   Avoid the use of phrases "someday", "in the future", "in a few decades", "in an indefinite time", etc.

   It's right to say this: "I'll buy myself these shoes in a week", "My mom will be healthy next month", "I will take the post of chief manager in a year", "We will spend a vacation in 2015 in Georgia", etc..

7. Move from dreams to actions.

   Even if you make a perfect collage of desires, visit a thousand trainings: " How to set an goal" and learn all the secrets, you can not achieve what you want.

   Only on your specific actions depends on how quickly you achieve your goal.

Setting goals: a theory supported by personal experience

In addition, I recommend a useful article "Setting and achieving goals" - about a filter of 8 points, through which you need to skip your goal before you begin its implementation.

The management of the organization, where I worked for a very, very long time, paid a lot of attention to the team's climate and staff's psychological stability.

Twice a year, one of the best psychologists in the country was invited to our office.

Her classes were very interesting.

But it was especially valuable that she gave examples from her life or the lives of her acquaintances.

Training: " On setting goals for ", was extremely exciting.

6 tips on how to become smarter

Three of the most valuable tips in my opinion, I want to share with you!😛

1. If for a long time you could not get close to realizing your goal, although you did everything possible for this, then you should formulate it differently or at least reject it.

   For example, for several years I could not lose 5 kg, although I ate properly, I did not eat up cakes and went to fitness, and then I fell in love. .. and all. . callograms began to melt before our eyes!

   Now I just support my figure!

2. Do not be afraid of the difficulties that will occur on your way!

   In a very distant childhood, I did not want to be taken to a dance group, as I was very plump.

   But I insisted and a year later became one of the best students.

   I was able to defend my right to perform on stage together with the band and even stopped hiding me in the last row, in fact for the curtain!)))

3. The belief that you will achieve your goal - must be firm and iron!

   Do not allow even the slightest doubt to overshadow your plans.

   As soon as you start to hesitate: "Do I really need this?", "And if I can not get what I want?", You can put a cross on your dream!

   Confidence and determination are the keys that open many doors.

Be sure to look at the motivating tips on how

correctly sets and achieves

goals from the famous personal development consultant - Brian Tracy

P.S.take a note and stick to these tips. ..

People so often want something, but so rarely put the right goals in front of you .

If you do not make such mistakes, you must conquer the highest peak, believe me.