If you knew how many times people say phrases: "I can not", "I can not do it", "This obstacle is irresistible, it is necessary to turn back", "I'm tired, I do not want to fight" and even the most terrible: "I do not hate my life, "you would be horrified.
People that nature has given enough to ascend to the top, spend their lives for nothing but because they do not want to make a small effort on themselves, do not want to collect all the will power into a fist and throw the difficulties that have arisen on the way: "I will do everything I can!!I will do it!".
The whiner's whine is filled every day with new and new crying voices and it seems that there will be no end to end.
So it's more pleasant to find stories about people like Barbie Guerra( !
To a girl who lost both hands at an early age, but who was able to do what she often does not have the courage to be completely healthy insignificant( according to statistics - 80% of people, daily crying in a vest about the injustice of life): she became successful and strongwoman!
The misfortune that turned the life of Barbie Guerra
Once in the American town of Pasadena, in a loving family, a girl was born who was so pretty that she was called Barbie.
Up to 2 years, the pupa was an ordinary child. Surrounded by parental love and care, she was quite happy.
A girl in a tenement house grew up, where there was not much room for games and therefore Barbie adored running into the yard.
Two-year-old children are incredibly fearless and inquisitive.
When she saw the transformer booth, little Barbie Guerra decided that it would be fun if she climbed it.
Taking advantage of her mother's employment, the girl climbed onto the booth and grabbed hold of the wires.
I woke up at the hospital.
The hands burned to the bone had to be amputated, but it was not the worst thing either: doctors feared that the child would not survive.
Parents literally begged for the life of their child - she went on the mend.
Barbie Guerra: "I DO NOT SEND!"
Despite the fact that Barbie's life was already out of danger, many difficulties awaited her: she had to learn to live without both hands.
I'm sure that many would have hung their noses and began to sink in self-pity, but the girl was unique.
She decided that she would be happy, no matter what.
She had no hands, but had healthy and strong legs.
They could hug her mother, eat, keep things - yes, anything they can do!
"You will not achieve anything in life if you make an effort only on days when you feel good."
Naturally, it was incredibly difficult to adapt to a new life!
Of course, there were moments in the life of the girl when she was convinced: nothing will turn out, she will forever remain an inferior cripple and a burden for the family.
Parents have destroyed such thoughts on the root, supporting their child in everything.
It was thanks to them that Barbie Guerra was able not only to overcome all difficulties, but also to become famous.
And yet, the girl does not represent her life without faith in God.
She is convinced that it was God who kept her alive after the incident with the transformer booth( although the doctors believe that her shoes with rubber sole became the lifeline).
While many people after the afflicted misfortunes turn into inveterate atheists and start blaming God in everything, exclaiming: "Well, what for to me all this? !", the girl on the contrary came to faith and does not part with it until now.
Barbie Guerra: adult life
I have met girls many times in my life - young, healthy, beautiful, intelligent - who did not believe in their own strength so much that they crossed out their chance to find love with their own hands.
Fears: before the first date, unwillingness to care for themselves, bad character, limitless conceit - all this Barbie Guerra did not suffer.
She was optimistic about her future and was confident that a physical handicap would not prevent her from finding a woman's happiness.
You will not believe, but that's exactly what happened: the girl met a wonderful guy, in which she fell in love and for whom she became the most beautiful wife in the world.
The couple had two children.
Yes!
Girl without hands was able to independently cope with the upbringing of children. Moreover, she did it so successfully that a little later her two adopted children appeared in her house.
The large family did not suffer at all from the fact that their mother has a serious physical disability. Barbie was not afraid to take responsibility for other people's children, being able to give them love and affection.
But many unlucky klushi - do not want to complicate your life even with your child, signing up for an abortion or throwing your own child in the trash.
Barbie Guerra: "Sport is not just for the healthy!"
Walking in the morning to work or to study, look around.
Calculate how many "elephants with lifes around the body" you will see!
These worthless creatures, who do not want to give up the habit of gobbing up and lazy at least charging the house do, are convinced that they deserve a real prince.
And they are terribly surprised that they have not yet seen on the horizon at least his white horse, which, frightened by what he saw, escaped the far-away kingdom!🙂
"It does not matter how you hit, but it's important how you hold the blow, how you move forward. You go - go, if you do not turn off the fright! Only so win! Be ready to keep the blows, but not to cry and say: "I did not achieve anything because of him, because of her, because of someone!" So do cowards! And you're not a coward! It can not be! "
Rocky Balboa. The more incredible, against the backdrop of these lazy vegetables of a feminine gender( not at all suffering from physical defects), the story of Barbie Guerra looks like that, without both hands, managed to bring her body to perfection.
In her free time, she did not lie on the couch, absorbing the television slag, and practicing sports: she became a real fan of bodybuilding.
Regular training gave an excellent result: Barbie was able to win more than one prize in the competition for bodybuilding.
A cheerful, beautiful woman, with an ideal-relief body, falls in love with not only spectators and the judge, but even other participants who, forgetting the spirit of competition, happily take pictures with a woman who has not been broken by life's misfortunes.
Biography Barbie Guerra - proof that any man is the master of his life!
And, if we lead a meaningless existence, it's not God, fate or other people that are to blame for this, but only ourselves.
Today, a 36-year-old beauty with a doll name - a happy mother and wife, a successful sportswoman.
She drives( YES!), Loves to dance and has fun with friends, she decorates the face and body at her own discretion( has piercings, tattoos) and spits on the opinion of those who claimed: "Her life together with the loss of her hands ended."
A girl without arms, was able to find her happiness in spite of everything.
But she was much heavier than absolutely healthy individuals. Nobody gave her guarantees that everything would work out.
And she could easily repeat the fate of disabled people that they end their lives all alone in some orphanage.
But Barbie Guerra had what many lack: strength of will, a thirst for a full life and faith in success.
I strongly recommend to see a small,
but insanely inspiring video, about the life of Barbie Guerra.
P.S.sorry. .. video in English. .. this will serve as an additional incentive to tighten up your knowledge! We look and try to understand what is at stake!😉
And are you still whining, crying and drowning in self-pity?
I'm ashamed of you. ..