Civil marriage: the pros and cons

Sooner or later, each couple in love begins to understand that the usual meetings at the cinema, flowers, candy, home-seeing - all this starts to bore. ..

I want something more serious!

I want to wake up in the arms of my beloved and dear person, spoil his( her) cooked delicious food and just always be side by side!

But for today, that girls, that men are not at all in a hurry to formalize official relations!

It is important for them now to live together, to know each other. Frequent couples prefer to take a serious step towards marriage by trying to test and temper their relationship with the civil marriage.

What are the pros and cons of the so-called civil marriage?

Let's get along with you and understand!🙂

What gives a civil marriage to a man and a woman?

Men, by virtue of their natural infantility, shun serious obligations, seeing in the civil marriage a certain salvation.

Formally civil marriage does not oblige to anything, that's why it's easy enough for a man, because if a married life does not work together with a civil wife, then a serious divorce process and sharing of the acquired property will not be waiting for him.

Tell me, is it profitable?🙂

In addition, living a civil marriage, a man does not feel responsible for his family life, which burdens the official marriage.

From the woman's side, everything looks radically different.

Women's half of the population are less likely to be supporters of civil marriage, as it is, in its essence, not a proof of the boundless fidelity and seriousness of intentions on the part of the civil husband!

Living a civil marriage, a woman feels a constant lack of confidence in herself and in her man who is next to her.

Civil marriage becomes destructive for a woman, as she expects from him the same as from a legal marriage.

While a man is not ready for a really serious life together.

Woman flirting, trying on the role of his wife, and forgets that the status of their relationship is not official!

Over time, a man who, against his will, was dragged into the game of a real family life, will become nervous and may completely stop the relationship that has become binding for him.

In this case it's easier not to create a civil marriage and live without obligations than to expose the relationship of ambiguous innuendo. ..

Civil marriage: the pros and cons. Reliability check

• Before entering into an official marriage, loving people want to get to know each other in everyday life with all these gray everyday life, days of marmots, to find out better what cockroaches in their heads live with their beloved person!

  This is certainly a plus.

  But sometimes it happens that after living together for several months - they diverge! You see, they thought that they were not created for each other!

  Dear ones, who told you that everything will be easy?

  Have you waited for a harmonious and understanding relationship on a saucer?

  Not here it was. .

  You need to plow, dear, over relationships, plow! Of course, it's one thing when people meet, organize romantic evenings for each other, but another thing when all this romance suddenly disappears because the lovers began to live together. ..

  And do you know why it disappears?

  And because none of the two of them made any attempts to save their feelings, their love.

  After all, not every one of us can adapt to another person and forget that he still has friends with whom he also sometimes likes to spend his free time!

  So, some quarrels and moods begin, which eventually lead to situations when the pair part. ..

  It's also easier?

  , is not it?

  If you have already started living together, then be kind - learn to listen to the wishes of your second half!

  With this, it all begins. ..

• In a civil marriage - the relationship is not binding.

  
  Here's a dream!

  After all, this is full freedom in action, no responsibility to you and, of course, only one pleasure to each other!

  Here everything is clear!

  But. . only one of the partners knows about this variant of the relationship.

  And here's the most unpleasant moment!

  Before you come - you should discuss everything together and paint - who has any plans for the future, discuss it necessarily!

  And only after that very much will fall into place.

  In my opinion, it will be much more honest and correct than to fool each other's head, so take my word for it 🙂

• You can play in the "artificial family".

  Very often it happens that one of the partners does not want to formalize official relations for the time being.

  Someone, argues this by the fact that you need to gather for the wedding and stand confidently on your feet, and someone thinks that it is not yet time. ..

  And what remains for the woman?

  Well, of course, she loves her man and will dutifully wait for him to deign to take her into his wives!

  And here an unpleasant gift can occur: sooner or later she will stop waiting, she will simply get bored. . and she will leave!

  And what is there to be surprised at?

  Each of us dreams of a luxurious wedding, a beautiful wedding dress, of the pleasant troubles associated with this memorable day, of the same feeling of pride, happiness and a pleasant excitement that will overwhelm her. ..

• The practice of joint introduction of the family budget.

  
  In the civil marriage you can practice how you can share the total money finances together!

  After all, by and large, a lot of conflicts and misunderstandings in a couple are connected on the same clarifications, why a man earns, earns, and a woman manages to spend a lot and as a result, until the next salary is not enough?🙂

  For example, you have a dream from the childhood to buy some real estate in Armenia!

  Well, how can you, please tell me, can save up for real estate if you do not know how to negotiate with each other about the correct introduction of the family budget!

  Learn, practice - and be loving umnichkami!🙂

• Possibility to leave without resorting to court.

  If you decide that you do not suit each other, for example, you met your true love or just looked and analyzed your "prince" in the dullness of weekdays and began to understand that this is not your berry field - then you can safely pack your bags and go quietlysuperfluous nerves and judicial burden!

I strongly advise you to look more detailed video of

about the real pros and cons of civil marriage!

Valuable advice to married couples, how to stay happy in a relationship!

1. If you already live together and you have a common wardrobe for clothes - this is not an excuse to resign and tell everyone and everything that here. .. you have come to life and gray routine!

   It is compulsory( in turn) to organize romantic or unpredictable days or evenings 🙂 from which your partner would feel dizzy. Romance in the relationship has never prevented, but only sprayed more feelings between lovers! !!

2. Do not be lazy to make each other little surprises, create some nice little thing!

   Such actions will always be appreciated by a loved one and will never go unnoticed!

3. This may sound trite, but I know that only sincerity, trust, no deceit and of course love - can overcome a huge number of everyday problems!

For a happy family life, each person must decide for themselves what is the main thing for him: play in an artificial family, or still create his own nest with small chicks.