How to become a woman: mini-instruction

Primary and secondary sexual characteristics are not enough to be considered a true woman.

And, if happy parents are told in the maternity home: "Congratulations, you had a girl", this does not mean that this same girl will grow up a real lady, whom men will admire and envy women.

It can very well turn into an embittered whole world, with a shapeless body, unwashed hair and dirty nails.

Such prostigodopodi, ladies are full in every city, they carry bags with food, cook borscht, watch: "Do not be born beautiful" and other crap, hate a pot-bellied husband who does not slumber from the couch and yells at their own children.

They are angry, irritable, experiencing stress over trifles. .. but the worst thing is, they think that their life is the norm, to which all the fair sex should be equal, and every article there: " How to become a woman ", which their friends readin the hope of changing his life, is a whim.

"It would be better to cook caviar, - sincerely perplex elephants in leaky gowns - or else the husband will quickly flee to another."

And despite the pies and the cold, for some reason husbands run exclusively from them, and if they do not run, it's only because their runners are firmly joined with the sofa and are not suitable for anything for a long time.

How to become a woman, and not degrade into a monkey?

I, frankly, have always been frightened by the prospect of becoming one of the aunts, whom I regularly see on the streets, in shops, in public transport.

I was concerned about the since adolescence, how to become a woman , without changing my nature.

Among my acquaintances there is one lady whom I really admire.

Her life is an instruction for imitation of all the fair sex.

She is a happy wife and mother, well-groomed beauty, a valuable employee with a good salary, an interesting personality.

After 25 years of marriage, Natalia's husband looks at her with enamored eyes( it is worth saying that not only he).

At 45, she attracts much more men's views than the young girls in mini-skirts and to finish off the true housewives with a ladle accreted to her hand, I will say that she prepares the most delicate meat in the world and delicious cakes.

Its ideal, at first glance, life is the result of great work and constant self-development.

Lying on the couch - it replaces the gym, soap opera - world classics, stuck in the TV - go to the theater or the exhibition, greasy dressing gown - a pretty sports suit, and silly novels in paperbacks in her library are not at all!

How did I become a woman?

Natalia tells that she was born in a small town of Cherkasy region.

All the friends of her mother, and her mother herself were on one face: tired, unloved, uneducated, tortured by life.

Even the joint celebrations were faceless: first the ladies cooked and fried-baked in knees, then complained about bad husbands and disobedient children, while these same husbands were cut into dominoes in one room, and the children raged in another, and afterwardswashed-cleaned.

No hobbies, no interests, and the care of these ladies was limited to the standard "chemistry" on the head every six months.

"A woman can make a man softer, can make him weaker and can decide for himself what to do with it.
This is terrible! »
Sigmund Freud, psychoanalyst

As early as 12 years, Natalia decided that she would not be the same.

She tried to understand how to become a woman , unlike her mom and her friends.

She entered the University of Kiev, at the age of 19 met her husband.

University she graduated with a two-year-old child in her arms.

But neither Egorka, who appeared in 5 years Marinka, did not stop Natalia from building a career, taking care of herself, participating in the cultural life of the capital and at the same time remaining the ideal wife and mother.

At first it was hard, but then everything became a habit, and Natalia realized that she was not mistaken in choosing such a woman's way.

How to become a woman: advice from a lady

I asked Natalia to give my readers, and myself, a few tips that will help to become a woman who will admire all around.

My friend was not greedy and shared five components of her successful life.

1. You must love yourself.

   "First of all, it's about appearance.

   Self care must become a habit. Even at home you can not turn into a monster. This does not mean that you need to apply tons of make-up from the very beginning and stare at the mini-skirt.

   Create your own unique style in clothes, choose the hairstyle and make-up that goes with you, regularly visit the manicure and pedicure masters, do not ignore facial care and do not allow tens of extra pounds to settle on your body. "

2. You must be good.

   "Bitchiness is fashionable, of course, it's now a thing, but I'm convinced that the woman should be warm.

   She must be sympathetic, kind, caring.

   I know how to stand up for myself, but I do this only when I am forced, which, by the way, is rare. And so - I let my husband act as a defender, do male work, solve problems.

   I never tried to take his pants off and become the head of the family. "

3. You have to become a successful employee.

   
   "My husband could always support the family, but I did not imagine myself as a housewife.

   Even if there is no material need, it is necessary to work for your pleasure and self-development.

   In order not to ask the spouse for money for lipstick, in order to be able to pick up the banner, if the spouse can not keep us anymore. "

   By the way, husbands are stimulated for financial success by a working woman. .. Well, you can not allow for them to beshe earned more!

4. You must take care of the family coziness.

   "My husband and I always had a rule: he prepares, removes, does lessons with children who is currently free.

   But I never forgot that I am my mother and my wife, so on the weekend I always cooked something delicious, baked.

   And all the Sundays, we had a family day: we went to the woods, or to the park, or to the theater, or we saw grandmothers and grandfathers, in general, we had fun with the whole family that day. "

5. You should be interesting.

   "Marriage is not a reason to abandon theaters, concerts, museums, to be stupid and not to be interested in anything other than new recipes, ways to treat a cold in children, and so, whether José Carmelita will fall in love.

   I still visit premieres, presentations, exhibitions, I follow the world of art. We have much to talk about with the husband, except for the children and repair. "

A very informative speech by Oleg Torsunov about

where to start to become a real and happy woman!

We take the pen and notepad and write it down!😉

Becoming a woman is not so difficult, although it's a long enough way.

Form your principles and follow them, despite the bad opinion of unfortunate aunts in dressing gowns: "We must live like we do."