Well, who does not dream of being liked by everyone around? !
Agree, on earth there is hardly such a person.
We all want love, universal acceptance and worship, but we absolutely do not know how to achieve it.
So, to make interesting interlocutor , you need to be:
- clockwork;
- is charismatic-active;
- interesting;
- and an excellent listener.
It's worth understanding that everyone likes - it's just impossible!
After all, even a chic Brad Pitt like not everyone.
However, not everything is so bad.
And if you can not like all people on earth, you can easily become an interesting person.
Of course, it's not easy, but it's real.
And if you decide, by all means become an interesting interlocutor, then the following tips will help you in this difficult matter.
Let's go!
Zanuda will never become an interesting interlocutor
Believe me, no one will ever be interested in boring.
Why?
Yes, because people quickly get bored listening for the umpteenth time the story that your ex-goat or how you chose the battery in the kitchen.
Another bore such a story is possible and it will seem exciting, but after all your goal is to become an interesting conversationalist, and not create a club boring.
Charismatic person = good listener
Remember - all charismatic people are good listeners.
Do not feed us with bread - just tell us about your beloved!
How to become charming?
We absolutely do not like to get involved in other people's problems.
Knowing this feature and starting to listen to the interlocutor - you instantly turn into a good listener with whom you will share experiences, and with whom you will be consulted in any small things.
Speak about the interests of your interlocutor
Ask your interlocutor about his hobby, ask leading questions.
You can even discuss his interests.
Believe me, my favorite business brings people together much faster than anything else.
It was through a hobby that I managed to become a friend of my personality.
Unfortunately, the topic of this person's interests was not close to me and not even interesting.
But the person who starts talking about what he likes, is simply not interested in what the other likes.
Until now, this person does not know that his hobby is absolutely not interesting to me.
The main thing - I raise the topic and everything, Ostap incurred. .. 😉
Tell 3 stories of
People before the light bulb, what your phone number and what operating system your tablet has.
What they are interested in is bread and spectacles. So give them what they want.
Constantly keep three of the most interesting stories that have happened to you.
The story of the choice of battery in this case will not. ..
Charisma
Until now, 90% of people do not understand who this charisma is.
Some believe that they are born with her, others are confident that charisma can be worked out only by asking for a goal.
A study conducted by psychologists showed that during the conversation the focus is on facial expressions and gestures.
Often confident tone and correct gestures can carry such nonsense that listeners will pray for this person!
And this is pure water true!
Please note that it is often the case at university that the dvoe, confidently bearing the raving of a blue mare receive an evaluation higher than stuttering teeth that answer correctly to all questions.
Diversify your life
Meet interesting people, read interesting books and live just an interesting life!
I recommend to look at additional recommendations on how
as always remain interesting and never fall face to face in the dirt!
Let's take a note.
Believe me, when you have all of the above, you just do not need to be to become an interesting interlocutor of .
Your life will be so diverse that other people will involuntarily begin to consider you an interesting companion, and an interesting person.