How to become attractive?

Remember the Soviet film "The most charming and attractive."

There the main character - a girl with a beauty that is far from the ideals of beauty - with the help of her psychology friend tried to establish her personal life and win success with men?

Indeed, often you just need to understand how to become a charming , instead of manically grinding your appearance.

Charm and attractiveness( in the broad sense of the word) is much more important than model beauty.

Charming woman? And how to become it?

It's quite difficult to qualify the very word "charming".

Usually we use it when we can not really explain why this person likes us, although it is not outwardly handsome, does not shine with a special mind or manners, and it is quite difficult to find any positive qualities in it.

And yet the charming woman attracts the attention of men much more often than any reference clever beauty.

And, the love and admiration for her person is not due to the presence of the charming woman's merits, and often - despite their absence.

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Becoming charming and attractive is much easier than an intellectual or a beauty.

For example, my classmate did it.

Ira was not that she was not a star of the class, but in general she did not stand out from the crowd: she was plump, modest, in gray clothes, chosen by her mother, she was a middle-aged student with no talents.

In our class, of course, was the main beauty: tall, slender with long hair, in expensive clothes, with a brisk character, besides, she was an excellent pupil and took prizes in olympiads in chemistry.

I do not remember what triggered the conflict always quiet Ira and the first beauty of the class Ani.

I remember only that the girl's insecure remark "maybe I do not become so charming and beautiful as you, but I'm also a person and deserve happiness," Anya laughed and replied: "Beautiful? Charming? Yes you do not become even a little attractive, and you will die an old, useless maiden. "

Ira did not reply to this insult, they forgot about the conflict after a while.

The classmates were really shocked, including Anya, when, five years after graduation, the alumni metamorphosed with Ira.

Yes, she still had a little overweight, but she did not become a model, and her clothes were restrained, not fashionably provocative, but before us there appeared absolutely another girl: self-confident, cheerful, interesting, attractive, well-dressed and... incredibly charming.

The bright beauty Anya hopelessly remained in the shadows.

"Ira, how did you manage to become so charming and attractive?"

I, having graduated at the time university and wondering about everything related to psychology, could not naturally pass by the history of turning an ugly duckling into a charming and attractive swan, soshe asked the classmate how she managed to become so charming.

Ira responded that she was so wounded by Ani's disdain for her person, that the first class beauty did not find her neither charming nor attractive and per gram that she swore herself to completely change.

Chance introduced himself while studying at the university, surrounded by people who did not know her before.

All the summer Ira worked on her appearance, manner of behavior, tried to overcome her own shyness and uncertainty.

For the first time in the audience, she came with a confident gait in a pretty summer suit hiding the flaws of her figure, with a new haircut, illuminating everyone with her smile.

She managed to start everything with a clean slate, then she could only grind her image of a charming and attractive girl.

Ira used the whole arsenal of means to become truly charming and attractive, and not just pretend to be such: beauty salons, trainings, courses, reading psychological literature and biography books of successful people, watching motivating videos.

She also realized how important it is to be successful and to be among like-minded people, that's why she became the head of the group in the second year, she started participating in the publication of the student newspaper and in the volunteer movement that saves homeless animals, she found her love among the volunteers.

The girl says that she will not wish to experience what she experienced at school, so she gladly shares her advice on how she managed to become charming and attractive.

I'm sharing her advice with my readers.

It's not for nothing that I constantly repeat that appearance is very important not only for men, but also for the self-esteem of the woman herself.

To start the transformation it is necessary with attempts to become attractive externally

Ira once again confirmed that I am telling you in many articles:

"Look after your appearance. Strashnye ladies have no chance to become charming and attractive. "

Ira realized that she could not be what she wanted, until she knew how to become attractive in her eyes and in the eyes of others.

Here's what Ira did to become attractive outwardly:

Looked at herself critically, having compiled a list of advantages and disadvantages of her appearance, what makes her attractive and what prevents it.
Has determined, what disadvantages it can fix.

For example, a longish nose should simply be left alone, as it was not going to do any plastic surgery.

But with more pounds you can compete.

Let her complexion will not allow her to wear clothes of XS size, but you can get rid of hanging fat and find a smart, feminine figure with proper nutrition and playing sports.
Having secured the help of the stylist, she changed the wardrobe so that all things decorate her mistress( emphasizing her advantages and hiding faults) and flawlessly combined with each other.
I changed my hair style, hair color and learned how to use makeup correctly.
I got a beautician, a master of manicure / pedicure and began to visit them regularly.
Chose perfume and use it daily.
The fragrance of a woman adds to her appeal.

Well, is it really so difficult to follow Ira's advice and also become attractive, and at the same time - charming?

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To become charming and attractive, you need to change your attitude towards life

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If you want to become charming and attractive, you simply have to:

Forgive yourself for all the failures, otherwise you can not leave them behind.
Learn to think positively, do not pay attention to minor troubles and learn to see the beauty even where there are very few.
Smile even when you want to cry.
Open your mind for something new, leave your comfort zone as often as possible.
To love this life and people, misanthropy is a battle.
Sincerely believe that ahead of you is the success and happiness that you will necessarily achieve what you want.

Ira asserts that as soon as she painted her black and white world in bright colors, as soon as she learned to think positively and enjoy life, she immediately became more charming and attractive in the eyes of people, without even doing anything special.

What else is needed to become charming?

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Already those recommendations that Ira so generously shared are enough to become more attractive in the eyes of people.

But this is where my friend did not stop, giving a few more tips to those who want to become the most charming and attractive:

Love yourself, gain confidence in your own charisma and attractiveness, get rid of complexes.
Master the art of communication, become an interesting interlocutor.
Get a set of positive qualities, valued by people: kindness, generosity, empathy, reliability, loyalty to one's word, cheerfulness, tact, etc.

This will help you become more charming.
Learn to make compliments so that they sound unreasonable and unfair.
Live the fullest possible life, especially while young, participate in social life, movements that you like.
Daily learn something new, feeding your brains with useful information.
Read more - the books hide the wisdom of generations, which will certainly help you to become charming and attractive.
Form your own zest.

In your appearance, the manner of communication and behavior, the character must necessarily be what sets you apart from others, which makes you truly charming and attractive.
Surely go to success: good grades, financial independence and career growth favorably influence self-esteem.
Believe in the fact that you are the most charming and attractive, and this is sure to believe others.

An excellent selection of tips on how to become a charming girl,