- Do not be afraid to make mistakes
Make mistakes is normal!
If a person does not make mistakes, he will never gain life experience.
Many continue to work in those places from which it is high time to quit.
Remain in a relationship that does not bring happiness and satisfaction to either side.
Once again they try to do the same actions and constantly come across a negative result.
The reason for all fear!
Fear of making a mistake. Fear of being alone. Fear of losing something. Although this "something" is only an illusion and self-deception.
Fear is a feeling that corrodes a person.
And in order to cope with it, it is necessary to perform actions without thinking about the results.
And in most cases they are amazing!
What you were afraid of was really only a figment of your imagination.
Even if you make a mistake - this will be an excellent excuse not to repeat it again.
After all, you can live your entire life with the realization that you have not made up your mind for anything because of the fear of making mistakes. ..
-
To learn how to enjoy life - live "Here and now"
This principle has long been the basis of most spiritual practices and religions.It does not matter if you believe in God or not, living here and now is the most effective way for to enjoy !
Most people prefer to live in the past or in the future.
It's a great way to get away from reality, to feel sorry for yourself and remember the "best years" of your life.
But self-pity kills.
Often, she joins a sense of guilt "for aimlessly lived years."
In this state, a person simply can not be happy!
Another option is to constantly fly into the future.
"Another couple of years, and I will live like a man;I will raise children, and then I can enjoy life;when I have this machine, I will be happy. .. ".
All these settings do not allow you to enjoy today.
Man is driven by greed, a desire to prove something to someone, self-interest.
And in this it is very difficult to admit first of all to yourself.
Live for today, enjoy every moment of life.
Undoubtedly, every person here and now has something for which you can be grateful to the universe.
Thank the Universe or God for what you have, and they will certainly reciprocate you.
-
Change your attitude to the world right now and start to enjoy life
For some reason, many people think that they are unhappy because of some unresolved and far-fetched problems: no money, you can not find your love, etc.Actually, everything depends solely on you and happiness too!
And if you still be accurate, happiness depends on your attitude to this world.
Do you cling to certain things with too much prejudice?
For example, very often people tell their friends that in life they are surrounded by "inadequate idiots", wherever they are - because of this they are unhappy and can not fully enjoy life!
Why did I bring that example?
Yes, because the world around you is nothing more than a mirror of your inner health.
If you are irritable, aggressive, you are depressed, then everyone around you will seem the same!
Think about it!
-
To feel joy in life - look at the world much wider
If you constantly have fear of something there or constantly worry about trifles?We do the following. ..
Maybe this will sound not very ethical and not very beautiful, but this is my opinion. .
Think how insignificant you are on this planet!
There are billions of people on Earth, such as you.
It will pass, for example, 100 years, and the old generation will be replaced by a new one, you will die and everything. . what's next?
And now let's think together. . is it so important that you on the way to work nahamila some grandmother or looked at you somehow obliquely?
Almost every one of us got into similar situations - but this is a small moment of our life.
How to become an optimist, and not be a dull little turd?
This is completely normal!
And if you are aware of this naturalness and naturalness, of what is happening - you can easily carry any unpleasant moment.
Watch a video about a man who really enjoys life
and teaches this skill to other people.
This is an example to follow!
- Practice honesty in all matters.
Honesty is the foundation of peace of mind.
Many feel remorse, dissatisfaction and fear precisely because of their dishonesty.
Even the smallest deception can cause self-flagellation.
Constant thoughts that someone can "figure out" you, cause isolation and prolonged depression.
Is not it better to always tell the truth?
Many even change jobs if it is related to dishonesty.
Experience shows that this frees a person from an unnecessary load that prevents from learning to enjoy life .
Being honest is not a weakness.
This is the lot of strong personalities!
The main thing, always remember that the causes of dissatisfaction with life are in ourselves.
In some cases it is recommended to seek professional psychologists for help. ..
As they say, do not delve into your head alone.
Enter your e-mail and get new articles on the mail
Human life is the most amazing thing that the Universe has given us.
And everyone dreams that it consisted of a continuous white strip. But in most cases this does not happen.
Because our life is a constant development and self-improvement.
If it had a lingering black bar, then it's probably time to change something radically and yet start enjoying the life of .
Pain is an excellent motivator for taking certain actions that can later become decisive and completely change the destiny of any person.