How do I find friends of interest?

I do not know if you agree with me, but I am convinced that man is a herd. Of course, there are misanthropes, introverts, originals that do not often need human society like others, but they also want to find friends on interests, with whom it would be comfortable and exciting to communicate on topics that are understandable only to them.

An exception are only hermits who flee to remote places away from people, but their scarcity only confirms what I said, and does not refute it.

Is it always possible to find friends of interest?

My answer: "Yes, always!".

Whatever extraordinary person you are, no matter what original interests you have, there will always be at least one person who will share them.

Find friends, if not real, then at least virtual( the blessing in our century of communication media abound), you can, wherever you live.

At the university, only in another faculty, at the same time as me, a strange girl was studying.

I understand that it would be better not to use the term "strange" to a psychologist, but I really do not know what to replace it with.

She was not bad or dangerous, she was mentally healthy like, she did not do any extravagant deeds, but everything was strange in her: clothes, hair color, thoughts, what she sounded, the manner of speaking and even the look.

It's no surprise that she did not have friends at the university, and she did not even try to find them.

It seemed to exist with the student's society, but it remained on its own.

One day, while strolling on Sunday down the Andreevsky Descent, among the artists who sold pictures there, I saw this most strange girl from the university.

She sold her own made jewelry, cute chatted with her neighbor in the shopping place, was fun and lively as ever.

And I realized that she managed to find friends on interests, among which she is absolutely happy.

A few tips from a psychologist to those who want to find friends of interest

If you feel lonely, you can not get along with those you know, if you really want to find friends of interest, if you just burn with impatience to communicate with those who are you for sureunderstand, the first thing you need to do is calm down.

Normalize your breathing, shake hands.

You do not need to run anywhere.

There is no such magic place where friends live for every taste and color.

To find friends by interests, it is necessary to try.

Here are some tips that I hope will be useful to make it easier to find a common language with those with common interests:

1. More certainty.

   Are you desperate Cheburashka, who agrees to get friends even dangerous crocodile.

   Your dream is to find somehow who?

   Then it is unlikely that the result will please you.

2. Do not be shy.

   Discrepancy and frustration looks disgusting, but if you( especially when being a man) play the role of a modest and complexed chamomile, then you do not have many chances to find your friends by interests.

   You just can not gather strength to explain what your interests are.

3. Looking for the right place.

   Are you going to look for mushrooms on the asphalt?

   No, you will go to the forest.

   Precisely the same you need to be motivated when searching for friends: if you, for example, are fond of football, you do not need to visit all kinds of art exhibitions with perseverance of a maniac, go to the stadium better.

4. Less demanding.

   Just yesterday you were lonely and begged the sky to send you at least some friend of yours, and today, when your dream is fulfilled, you begin to pick and choose: "He is 30 seconds late for meetings and T-shirts are red, and I hate this color!»

   Calm down, Mr. / Miss is the ideal!

   With this approach, you run the risk of retiring to a different world without ever having a single friend.

Where to find friends of interest is the easiest? Of course, on the Internet!

I think that the creators of the "World Wide Web" themselves did not know how much their invention would make mankind happy.

Today, with such an abundance of social networks, various sites and other things to whine that can not find friends on interests - it's just criminal.

Most likely, you just do not want to look for anyone.

The easiest way to find friends on the Internet:

1. In social networks.

   In the same facebook, Vkontakte, Odnoklassniki, there are so many different groups that picking yourself one that will meet your interests - is simple.

   Take a closer look at the band members, select the one who is most interesting to you, and send him a veiled offer of friendship.

   You do not have to invent a bicycle, it's enough. "Hello. Did you already hear the new album by Justin Bieber? ".

   If the recipient supports the conversation, you will most likely have a new friend.

2. On special sites.

   http://ishudruzei.com, http://www.podobno.ru, http: //copi.ru/search/cheburashka/ - this is only a small part of the existing dating sites.

3. At the city forum.

   Today, even in small cities, what to say about megacities, there are forums where city residents can talk on interesting topics.

   Register - and forward to communication.

   If you really find a soul mate, you can always transfer communication to real, the good that you live in the same city.

How to forget the past?

Where can I find friends of interest in real life?

You can also try your luck and look for friends of interest in your city without recourse to the Internet.

First, outline your range of interests.

Let's say you adore modern art, then you need to visit exhibitions in museums and galleries of your city, vernissages in the open air, etc.

If you see a connoisseur several times on similar exhibitions, especially if he / she has been looking at the same picture for a long time, which you liked and, without hesitation, get acquainted.

Similarly, you can find friends of interest in:

1. Sports clubs and gyms.
2. Theaters and cinemas.
3. Churches and other religious organizations.
4. Charities.
5. At exhibitions of dogs and cats.
6. On Sunday "changers" of collectors, etc.
7. At trainings, etc.

Where else can I find friends of interest?

To make sure you do not stay without a friend, I offer you several more options for dating:

1. In an office, school, university - that is, where you spend a lot of time, often - much more than at home.

   Take a closer look at your colleagues, classmates, classmates.

   Well, it can not be that they are too bad and unfit for friendship.

2. During city holidays and festivals.

   When celebrating the festive mood, getting to know people is much easier.

3. During his trips.

   There is nothing shameful in getting acquainted with fellow travelers in a train compartment or getting a conversation with a neighbor on an airplane.

4. At parties.

   The more crowded it is, the more chances you have of finding a friend among the guests.

5. In his own house.

   Look around, maybe your future best friend lives very close, and you daily hurry home, which really does not notice those who are traveling with you in the elevator.

   If you do not know the residents of your entrance, contact the ubiquitous grandmothers on the bench.

   Those will accurately provide you with an exhaustive dossier for each tenant.

Where else you can find real-life friends in

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Finding friends by is not so difficult as it seems to you, you just need to try and leave your comfort zone briefly.

But, if you have found a good friend, try not to lose it.

We need to work constantly to maintain friendly relations.