How to become a person and not dissolve in the gray mass?

That's why some people we can say "He / she is a person", but there are not others?

I do not know what you put in this concept, but I believe that an interesting person can be called, which stands out from the crowd, is not afraid to oppose the crowd, has its own convictions and is ready to defend them even in an unequal "battle."

But the presence of an extraordinary mind, excellent education, reading, talents and even - an excellent career does not guarantee that a person is a person.

Whether can become an person or one must be born, we will find out in this article.

How to become a person? In the course are epithets. .

I'm sure that the very concept of "personality" is quite versatile.

I will prove this to you by selecting epithets with examples.

Examples can cause you disagreement, but this is my opinion and I'm ready to listen in your comments.

1. Bright personality.

   This subspecies is most often found in areas that require creativity, challenge, festival, etc.: the world of fashion, show business.

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   You can fool a lot to the winner or the winner( how still better:) :) ) Eurovision 2014, but no one will argue with the fact that Conchita Wurst in addition to a strong voice has also unquestionable strength and courage.

   P.S.Do not you agree? I ask you to go down below( after the article) and justify your answer in the comments!

2. Talented person.

   These two categories are similar.

   A bright personality is almost always talented, but a talented person does not need to be bright.

   You can bet that the person whom God has awarded with talent is already a personality, but I do not agree with you.

   Look back at the modern stage and you will see a lot of faceless boys and girls, and even singers / older women with older voices.

   But are there many of them such as Slava Vakarchuk, Ruslana, Zemfira?

3. Strong personality.

   
   By this phrase we most often represent politicians, military men who in the most difficult situations are not afraid to take on a huge responsibility and be leaders: Abraham Lincoln, Che Guevara, Golda Meir, Theodore Roosevelt and others.

   Among the Ukrainian politicians for me, number one - Vyacheslav Chornovil, who gave his life for the future of his country, and no camps could not break it.

   There, by the way, he earned the title of "Zekovsky General". ..

4. Charismatic personality.

   Not only famous people can have a bright and charismatic personality, but they are quite ordinary.

   I have one friend, called Stanislav.

   A fairly creative young man, but there are not enough stars from the sky, all his creativity is within the amateur performance.

   Girls, especially young ones, are simply killed for him, although he is an ordinary puny young man of short stature.

   But here there is in it some unreal charisma, multiplied by reading, that you will not forget when you see it.

5. Scary person.

   In fact, epithets here can be chosen any: creepy, bloody, etc.

   I think no one will argue that Stalin was a person, and even Hitler - too.

   The fact that on their conscience millions of deaths and ruined human lives do not make them less known. Alas, but it happens!

6. Bright personality.

   I did not want to end the list with Hitler and Stalin, so I remembered about another category.

   These are people who are born to make the world better, more perfect, to bring good into it.

   Their life is service to others.

   When I say "bright personality", I think, first of all, about Mother Teresa.

Surely now you are thinking, how can one become the person of , which the whole world will speak about?

Human capabilities are endless and with a huge desire to achieve you can really do a lot.

But even if you do not become world famous, do you really want to dissolve in your environment?

Not?

Then, we will learn how to become a person.

How to become a person - useful advice!

In order for you to get ready-made recommendations, many people stuffed cones. Are you too lazy to use the finished product?

1. Love life.

   With all my heart and without a trace.

   Live everyday as the last, hurry to do as much as possible!

2. Learn to not only take, but give.

   If you do not dream about the career of the second Stalin, then learn to do good to others.

   Fortunately, today's situation in the country, as ever, teaches us to sacrifice.

   There are so many people who need your help: the military, refugees, children, homeless animals.

3. Every day lived consists of many choices:

   What to wear today, what to cook for dinner, buy a favorite vase, etc.

   All positive and negative life moments are the result of our choice, it concerns both trifles and global issues.

4. Do not be afraid to become a black sheep.

   Stop saying to yourself, "What will people think if I say or do this?"

   Yes, we live by certain human and social laws, but that does not mean that they are indestructible.

   Express your opinion - not criminal, smart people will understand you, and fools. .. yes, spit on them!

5. You are a reflection of your environment.

   
   If all your alcoholics friends, then you have three ways: also to sleep, find new friends, help alcoholic friends get rid of their bad habits.

   Personality will try to implement the third option.

6. Do not be afraid to make mistakes.

   This is an inevitable part of life.

   It's better, trying and mistaken, to fly to the sky, than to be cautious and die in the swamp!

7. Run away from the critics.

   Usually many people criticize others who do not do anything by themselves.

   Keep communication with losers to a minimum.

   Well, of course, stop criticizing others.

   You understand why, right?🙂

If there are rumors about you, then you are a person. Remember: never discuss and do not envy the bad. They envy the best, discuss the best.
It's better to be the center of attention, having a scandalous reputation than being in a primitive herd of condemning!

Always desire more than you have.

Only the desire to achieve the maximum will make of gray - Personality.

I recommend MANDATORY to watch the video from Vladimir Dovgan about how

to overcome dependence on public opinion and become a person?

V. Dovgan case says. . do not be a gray mass, start acting!😉

As you can see, can become a person.

It does not matter how old you are or how you lived before that.

There is always the opportunity to change your life for the better.