How to become a good person: 10 steps

Well, tell me why some people say: "He is such a good person," while others rarely cause sympathy and admiration, although they do not do anything wrong?

What does this phrase mean in general?

And what should we do to make a good person , and we will try to analyze it today!

How to become a good person: what do I put into this concept?

I will say right away, I expel the radishes from my life quickly and mercilessly.

To keep a person next to you who, at a difficult moment, instead of pushing him into the back, is stupid!

But at the same time, I do not hold contests for the rank of my friend or relatives.

I perfectly understand that we are all people with their shortcomings and those who lose feathers from their wings do not walk on the ground.

For example, one of my girlfriends is always late, and since I believe that non-punctuality and non-punctuality is another deadly sin, you can imagine what each meeting with me is worth.

The second - carousing to any little things, no harm to anyone, but we still can not understand why she does it.

The third is that the poor always feel sorry for themselves and complains that there is absolutely no money at all, after an increased payment for utilities, they will have to celebrate the hungry New Year, and then come in a new coat and ask to leave early on December 30, because, how many things need to be cooked.

The list can be continued, but I advise them to how to become a good person , I'm not going to, because they already such and named shortcomings do not prevent them from rushing to the rescue on the first call, do not remain indifferent to the problems of others,forces of the army and refugees.

Many of my daughter-in-law Yulia are called a good person.

And it really is: she is responsive, kind, always ready to listen and help, it is easy and interesting to communicate with her - her virtues can be listed for a long time.

But at the same time it, like every living person, is not without flaws.

For example, for 8 years now I have heard from her complaints about the lack of repair in the apartment, but she does not take any steps in this direction. It can be called prodigal, and it is too dependent on someone else's opinion.

I all this to the fact that even the most good person can, and even must, have shortcomings, because he is alive. You can not demand the impossible from people!

How to become a good person: where to start?

The definition of a "good man" is an almost impossible task.

For me, everything is simple - this is someone who does not intentionally evil, and if he did something bad unconsciously, he is always ready to correct what he did.

Preparing this material, I accidentally came across the questionnaire mail.ru: "What qualities should a good person have?"

The answers were so different: from having the mind to believing in God.

So, try to form an unambiguous answer.

"Under the most beautiful tail of a peacock lies the most common chicken ass. So it's less pathos, gentlemen! "
Faina Ranevskaya

If you decided to change your life and become a good person, first determine the character traits with which" You are Good "should have.

5 will be enough to not take on too much for a start.

Here are my answer options:

1. Kindness - and not only in relation to friends, but also to enemies.
2. Compassion - people are disgusting to me, who do not contract their heart at the sight of a sick child or a homeless animal.

3. Ability to put other people's interests above their own - within reasonable limits, of course.

   Bearing the victim's role is stupid, but selfishness will sooner or later turn against you.

4. Participation in charity.

5. I do not give money to beggars on the street - they do it professionally and earn good money.

   But always throwing a bill in the box of the society "Friend", which deals with homeless animals, and I think that today it is not a crime to help the army or refugees!

6. Honor.

   I put into this concept the ability to keep my word and fidelity to my principles regardless of the circumstances.

And, I'm happy to hear your answers to this article: " How to become a good person ".

Perhaps, and I will discover something new!🙂

10 steps to becoming a good person

The way from a bad person to a good one is long enough and it is impossible to overcome it in one jump.

It's better to move in small steps, which will certainly bring you closer to your goal than take the sprint speed and fall half way.

These 10 steps I divided into two blocks: what you need to strive for and what you need to get rid of.

7 tips to help you become a good person :

1. Every day do a little good deed.

   For example, take to a homeless kitten's shelter, help a sick neighbor to bring the bag to the apartment, help to assemble to another buyer scattered purchases in the store, tell the colleague how best to perform the task of the boss - this list is really endless, and every good deed will make your karma brighter.

2. Begin to cooperate with any charitable foundation - the benefit now has plenty to choose from.
3. Sincerely rejoice in successes to others, and not just pretend.

4. Learn to listen and empathize.

   Sometimes a person, in order to feel relief, just need to speak out, but from whiners, for which complaints, professional activity is better to stay away.

5. Get rid of racial, age and other prejudices.

   All people, regardless of skin color, religion, sexual orientation, language they speak, social status, profession and others - are equal and deserve to be happy.

6. Be tolerant of the shortcomings of others.

   There is such an unpleasant category of people who are the first to run a stone in those who stumbled at least once.

   These false moral authorities cause me to disregard.

   It should be remembered that all people have these or other disadvantages.

   It is necessary to fight only with absolute evil. All the rest deserve a second chance.

7. Love.

   I am now talking not only about the presence of a second half in life, but also of the love of family, friends, your profession, your country, your language, etc.

   People who are deprived of this feeling will never be good.

3 feelings to get rid of:

1. Irritation.

   Stop being angry - if you can somehow correct or eliminate the irritation factor - do it.

   If not - reconcile with it, as with the inevitable, or just retire to a safe distance.

2. Envy.

   Dare to envy successes to others - this is a disgusting feeling that destroys.

3. Cruelty.

   Here, in my opinion, it's pointless even to comment.

   People who offend weak and defenseless people are hardly considered good.

I propose to watch a small video,

which will make everyone think:

Admit to yourself - are you really a good person?

Naturally, the negative character traits that prevent you from becoming a good person , much more.

This can be attributed to hypocrisy, stinginess, betrayal, selfishness and many others.

But, start small.

Then you yourself will understand, from what ballast it is necessary to get rid.