I was always amazed by the existence of half-human-half-plants, which lead an absolutely useless way of life.
They go on about primitive instincts: to devour, sleep, bump, content with small ones and, it seems, do not have any life goal at all.
They do not want anything, they do not want to develop themselves.
Sometimes I even think: why do they live?
The aimless life of is simply awful.
It's not even life in the full meaning of the word.
This is a primitive existence, unworthy of a reasonable person!
The aimless life of my aunt
's neighbors My aunt lives in the private sector.
To the right of her live the comrades who love to drink, but to the left - seemingly normal at first sight average family: a couple of 60 years old and their adult unmarried son.
They live, like many other, special problems, like the same alcoholics on the right, do not create, like - quiet, but here they are - the brightest illustration to the material " aimless life ", that's just a classic example.
The three of them are huddled in two rooms, in 30 years none of the neighbors saw that they were doing any repair work, they have not even carried water to the house yet.
Their 40-year-old son never married, moreover - no one even saw him accompanied by a girl.
They do not read books, they do not have anything to talk with them about, TVs do look: they are mostly very clever and useful for the brain, stupid-humorous series, such as "Bukin's".
Why do I live or why do I live?
Sometimes it seems to me that they are not people at all.
So, someone created by mistake robots that are burdened by their existence.
Yes, even drunkards that live to the right of their aunt, have some goals in life: to find money, to get drunk, to beat each other face faces.🙂
Why do people lead an aimless life?
Do you know what unites people who do not live but exist?
They do not even know the primitiveness of their being.
If I decided to talk with my aunt's neighbors and tell them that they have the aimless life of , they would be surprised, offended, but - did not believe it.
The main reasons for this human behavior are:
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The misunderstanding of the fact that a man is given one life, and to waste it for nothing, he simply has no right.
There will be no rehearsals!
There will be no spare lives, as in computer games!
Therefore, you need to live so that you can enjoy this world, see as much as possible, learn different things.
You need to live in such a way that you do not grieve before leaving for another world and a bunch of opportunities spent.
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Cowardice.
For acceptance of even the simplest life decision, you need courage. The more serious the choice, the more courageous you must be.
Panties do not want to take responsibility even for their lives, what to say about a stranger, therefore, and resemble a hermit crab that never gets out of the light of God out of the sink.
He seems to be living, but the only thing he does in his life is cowardly hiding in the house, because he is afraid of failures, pain, criticism, yes - everything in the world.
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Complexes and low self-esteem.
If a person has been taught from childhood to think that he is a nothing and can not achieve anything, then he will sooner or later believe it and grow up as a useless inhabitant who drags the miserable aimless life of .
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Lack of vital qualities for the winner. Yes, not all are born by great scientists, generals, politicians, writers, etc.
There are a lot of boys and girls who study hard enough.
But, if they and their parents made more efforts, set their own goals and worked hard to achieve them, then the losers on our planet would be much less.
Behind any success is 10% of the data by the nature of personal qualities, 10% - good luck and 80% - colossal work, persistence and desire to self-develop.
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Inability to set life goals and achieve their realization.
In order to understand this skill, read as much as possible psychological literature, recommendations of successful people.
How to avoid aimless life?
The sooner you realize that dragging a miserable existence instead of living a bright full life, the better.
It is much easier for young people to change their lives than for old people, so do not delay the evaluation of yourself and your being.
Count how many goals you set for yourself in the last year.
If less than 10 - it's time to change something in your aimless life!
The meaning of life. What is it?
To avoid mistakes of people who waste their lives, you can if:
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Do not miss the signals that the stars send you.
People just do not see that prospective opportunities come across at every step, preferring to whine: "I'm not lucky."
You are invited to an interview for a new firm, but are you also satisfied with your old job?
All the same, visit the interview, listen to what the new employer is offering you.
And suddenly - this is the chance that you have been waiting for so long.
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Letting love into your life.
Love your family, your soul mate, what you do, life, after all.
People who know how to love, there is always something to set goals and achieve them.
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Do not be afraid to change something in your life if you stop feeling happy.
You can not hang out for decades on one job, if it does not bring you any money or pleasure.
You can not live with someone you do not love, just because you need it.
It's fear that kills our chances of happiness and success.
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Set yourself concrete realistic goals.
Travel to Italy, a new car, the post of the head of the department, repair in an apartment, study abroad - these are the goals that can be achieved if you make due efforts.
And here is a star from the sky or an overseas prince this minute - children's dreams.
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Plan your life.
Lists of affairs for each day, a collage of desires, a plan for the year will help you to identify your goals.
Create not banal lists, but write down the time of implementation of a particular goal, intermediate stages of its implementation, important components of success, etc.
The question remained: how to find your goal in life?
Perform a simple exercise from Alexander Kuskov
and understand what you really want.
Go!😉
has a lot of people suffering from the aimless life of , but they do not want to change because of their own stupidity, laziness, cowardice.
Do not repeat their mistakes, because no one will ever lose your lost time!