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I remember, in my student years, I fell in love with a randomly met guy coming from a stop to the house.
Our relationship was like a fairy tale.
He called me only as an angel, wore on his hands and never tired of repeating that my blue eyes blind him and, at the same time, drive me crazy.
I was in seventh heaven with happiness, I looked at my beloved and could not believe that such a man got it to me.
However, the happiness did not last long. One day the beloved's phone was not available.
And due to correct education and high moral principles, I did not begin to find out where he had gone.
Now I'm not a student for a long time. I met another person with whom I decided to bind my life.
However, from time to time, I still go back in time and think that it might still be worthwhile to find out what happened to the person who carried me in my arms, and then suddenly disappeared.
In order not to repeat my mistake, you should definitely know the stages of the relationship between a man and a woman.
After all, knowing the psychology of relationships, you can protect yourself from possible disappointments. ..
The psychology of relations between a man and a woman.
5 stages of the relationship:
So, if you are in love or not, know that any relationship develops according to the standard program and has 5 stages:
- attraction,
- uncertainty,
- desire to be single at the sighing object,
- soul affinity,
- betrothal.
And now let's talk about each stage in more detail.
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1 stage of the relationship - attraction
Many eminent psychologists assure that at the initial stage of the development of relations, men peck at the appearance of women, and women on the male intellect.
However, I hasten to note that this is far from the case.
In the 10th grade I had a fat and terrible girlfriend who did not recognize cosmetics and fashion squeaks.
However, this did not stop her from having crowds of fans.
And the boys for some reason preferred to get acquainted with her, and not with more beautiful and skinny girlfriends.
And the girls did not rush to rush to the macho, but they were interested in a completely different type of guys.
In the period of acquaintance we think that we are attracted by the charm of a partner, his charm or mind.
However, initially we are attracted or repelled by the smell of man.
Note: sometimes on a first date your companion is chopping nonsense, and you are listening, hanging your ears and nodding in love.
And it happens that a man from the skin is climbing, trying to make a good impression, showering you with gifts, making compliments, and you do not want to give all these gifts and the admirer with them.
2nd stage of relations - uncertainty
This stage necessarily follows after the period of attraction.
During uncertainty, a man starts to rush about, whether that woman is or need to look further. ..
The woman, in turn, is frantic with uncertainty, not knowing why a man does not call, why he does not come and does not give gifts.
She starts composting her friends' brains, and then calls the man he likes with questions: "Why do not you call?" Or "I, that, you do not like me?".
It's this obsession that women often frighten off men!
How to find your man?
In this case, you just need to calm down and give the man time to think.
Do not get it with stupid sms and calls.
If you liked the man, he will show up in a couple of days.
Uncertainty is like fishing.
First you start a fishing rod with a worm and wait.
The fish swam to the worm, "sniffed".
After that the fish floats around the worm for a while in thought, whether to eat it or not.
At this time you need to sit quietly.
But when the fish caught on the hook, you need to quickly drag it to shore.
The same should be able to do every intelligent woman!
3rd stage of the relationship - the desire to be the only one( s) at the sighing object
When a man has passed the stage of doubt and determined his choice, he always calls the girl and invites her to go somewhere.
And then the main thing is not to bend the stick, playing the intangible or busy fifu.
At this stage of the relationship between a man and a woman, , you need to show yourself with the best of luck.
The third stage of relations is a kind of test drive.
Before you buy the product( in this case it's about relationships and marriage), you evaluate it and identify the presence of a marriage or defect.
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4th stage of the relationship - spiritual closeness
But this stage is the most interesting.
After all, just now lovers begin to open up before each other.
They show their shortcomings, trust the partner and open up before him.
The main thing is to do it all gradually.
Do not immediately dump the tub "dirty laundry" on the head of a loved one.
It's so easy to frighten him.
For example: you appeared before a man who liked a wonderful woman, a skillful hostess and a pleasant companion.
Imagine how a chevalier will be shocked if he finds out that all the dishes were prepared for you by the grandmother, you are not interested in listening to him.
And in general, instead of a housewife, you are an inveterate party-goer.
5 stage of relations - betrothal of
If you have reached the stage of betrothal - this does not mean that now you will have a happy family life and a common old age.
At the stage of betrothal, a man and a woman realize their choice, they tolerate each other's shortcomings and love for dignity.
Although it sometimes happens that at the last stage the couple understands that the relationship is leading to a deadlock and it's better to part ways than continue the mutual torment.
This video is relevant to both men and women!
Think about it. .. and enough to deceive yourself and your mate!
It is at the last stage that it is important to understand that there are no ideal people that from household quarrels and turmoil can not escape.
And what is more important than a person's spiritual qualities, and not scattered around the apartment socks.
Take a closer look at your second half.
You may be picking on it from scratch.
Refresh your senses and bring a bit of romance into your life.