The appearance of a child in the family is always a great joy. But at the same time, parents face many difficult periods, while the baby goes through all the stages of growing up. At first, difficulties and sleepless nights are associated with the appearance of the first teeth, and subsequently there are questions when the baby teeth begin to fall out gradually.
Many parents are very anxious about this point, they are beginning to worry about the question of what to do with the first dropped out baby tooth, where to put it, and how quickly to calm the baby if he suddenly had a hysterical situation.
Contents of
- When do "milks" drop out?
- Common beliefs
- Mouse waved its tail. ..
- Trust about the fairy
- Use as an amulet
- And if you just throw it away?
- How to help a child survive the difficult period of
When do "milks" fall out?
The age period when a child first encounters tooth loss depends on individual characteristics. Most often, the first tooth falls
from six to seven years. However, there may be temporary deviations associated with the peculiarities of the development of the speech apparatus.First, the lower incisors change, and then the upper ones loosen. Then comes the turn of the premolars, after which the turn comes for the fangs. And by the age of 14 the baby has all the milk teeth. And this process is painless, since the "milk" is loosened up on its own and just falls out.
Common beliefs
Most often, when the child drops the first milk tooth, parents turn to folk beliefs and signs.
Mouse waved its tail. ..
The most famous is the sign about the mouse, which you need to give the dropped out tooth, while saying that instead of repjanogo brought bone. And we must do it right away. The dropped milk tooth rushes to the corner of the house or behind the stove, and the mouse should bring a new baby to the baby, strong and healthy.
In this case, it is believed that the first to drop an unnecessary tooth. Therefore, it should be buried deep enough to be impossible to find. And then the rest will grow strong and healthy.
All these beliefs are created more to calm the child, for which the fallen tooth is a real tragedy. At such a time, parents are ready to invent different tales. And one of the most interesting is the fairy tale story.
The belief about the fairy
There is a belief that the dropped tooth can be exchanged for a fairy coin, putting it under your own pillow. In this case, during the night, the fairy will take the tooth and leave a penny for it.
A bedside table or a window sill may be used instead of a pillow. So it will be much easier for parents to make a substitution.
Use as an amulet
There is a special belief in villages and villages about what to do with dropped dairy teeth. There people in every way try to protect the child from dark forces and evil eye. Therefore, the milk tooth is used as an amulet. And as soon as it falls out, it is wrapped in a piece of red cloth, which is also wrapped in red threads and a special conspiracy is read over it.
And the baby is given a silver spoon. This item is presented by the godparents, and at the moment of giving a spoon you need to knock on the teeth. Later, when the child grows, the retained tooth is transferred to him as an amulet, which must always be worn with him.
And if you just throw it away?
Many parents are worried about this question, is it possible to throw out the first milk tooth that fell out? I must say that in many countries this is considered a bad sign. It is believed that if it is simply thrown out, the child will suffer from insomnia, and new teeth will grow inappropriately.
And if moms and dads do not know where to put the lost teeth of their children, it's better to bury them in the ground of a flower pot or throw them into the fireplace( stove, fire).
This is exactly what happens in England, where parents burn their baby's milk tooth so that evil magicians can use it in their witchcraft and purposes. It also protects from the appearance of canines that change the bite of the child.
But such a nation as the Roma, always on the first milk tooth made a kind of conspiracy. They threw him high toward the moon, which is in the phase of growth and read special words, promising the child a long and prosperous life full of prosperity. In many Asian countries, the upper tooth dropped to the roof, and the lower one is placed under the floor.
As for the existing folk characters, if the child has the first cutter( located on the upper gum), the mother of the baby will soon expect a new pregnancy. If the tooth is accidentally lost or mistakenly thrown away, then it promises an early departure of the child from the parent's house or his life away from his family.
In many European countries it is customary to burn lost teeth. It is believed that after death a person's soul will look for his milk teeth. And the combustion process will contribute to this. At the same time, fire will help protect children from bad thoughts and evil eyes.
How to help a child survive the difficult period of
For a baby, the moment of tooth loss is associated with fears. Especially if this process is caused by a small bleeding or a broken fragment. If the parents found that there was a splinter in the gum, you should immediately contact the dentist.
To rid the baby of possible discomfort, it is recommended to rinse the mouth with water with a soda solution. After each meal, rinse your mouth with a warm liquid and ask your child not to touch the wound with the tongue.
In other cases, when the fall is not associated with special unpleasant moments, the child can tell an interesting story or a fairy tale. It can be about a mouse or fairy, which takes the tooth and, in return, fulfills the desire or brings a coin or a delicious, favorite candy. While telling a story or a fairy tale, parents can show their permanent teeth so that the child understands that the smile will soon become beautiful again, as before.
And you can come up with your own unique story about a magical housekeeper who collects the lost teeth of all family members, and then compares who has the healthiest and whiter. If you are interested in a baby, you will help him survive a difficult period.
There are times when a child may accidentally swallow a tooth that has fallen out. And if the parents have such suspicions, it is recommended to consult a doctor to see if the splinter remains in the gum.
And if a small bleeding appeared on the wound site, then you can use a piece of gauze, from which you should form a small tourniquet, put it on the wound area and ask the baby to bite it. The blood will soon stop.
Parents perceive the process of growing up their own children with special trepidation. Especially important for many is the moment when the baby starts to fall out his baby teeth. Mom and Dad should try to distract the baby from the very fact of what happened, so that he does not feel any fears because of what is happening. Here you can apply all your wit and imagination, so that the most pleasant process is not an enjoyable and memorable event.
Tales, stories and myths help the child overcome fear, which will add to his confidence and calmness in later life.