How to get acquainted with a foreigner and marry him? Married to a foreigner: the pros and cons, reviews

Want to marry abroad? Find out where and how to get acquainted with a foreigner for marriage.

Do you dream of marrying a foreigner? Then do not wait in vain for your overseas prince to come riding on a white horse, this is not your case. To enter into and international marriage, you need to act actively, thoughtfully and consistently. Look for clues in this article!

Married to a foreigner: pros and cons

History № 1: Natalia, a girl from the province, the youngest of 7 children, without education, knowledge of English, from the filing of a friend registered on the site of a free marriage agency. Soon she began to communicate with the Norwegian Frier, she was afraid for 20 years. Six months later, she became his wife. The foreign husband of the soul does not like her, she does not refuse anything. Natalia's story is similar to the story of Cinderella: she now lives in Vestfold, brings up a child with Freer, is the owner of a beauty salon and constantly helps the remaining parents, brothers and sisters in their homeland.

These are the stories, fortunately, true and very common, and are the key to the prosperity of marriage agencies. Marriage to a foreigner really promises many advantages:

1. Love and respect of the spouse. Marriages with foreigners are based on calculation, whatever one may say. Both the bride and groom have the opportunity to choose, and are rarely guided solely by the heart. But we can not deny the fact that love, tenderness, affection, mutual respect for each other can not arise already in the process of communication. If the bridegroom from abroad has offered you an offer, is ready to take you to him, most likely he has thought out his decision and considers it to be correct. At home, he will take care of you, literally blow off dust particles from you, since you are alone in a new, unfamiliar place and need it. If you also love him, you will have the opportunity to spend invaluable time, finally, living with him, and not communicating on the Internet or phone.
2. Material security. A man in Europe or the United States with an average level of prosperity is rich in our understanding. You do not need to look for a millionaire foreigner( although there are many such candidates on dating sites and in marriage agencies) to fully eat, dress beautifully, have full medical and social security, allow yourself to relax in exotic countries, etc. You will come to a husband who already has stability. You will be provided with housing, help you find a job, if you want.
3. Absolutely different culture, different level of communication. Lucky if you find yourself in a civilized Europe or the United States, where people are treated differently, respect their rights. You have the opportunity to observe the European way of life from within and take it over. You will only communicate when you want, with educated and polite people. You will walk along clean, well-groomed streets and parks where no one lays, dogs walk with sachets and sovochkami, smoke only in strictly designated places.
4. Ability to learn a foreign language, get an education. You will quickly learn Polish, English, German, French and even Hungarian, being among its speakers. If you want, you can enter a foreign university and learn there for free or for free.

Marrying a foreigner, you can find true happiness.

History No. 2: Larissa is an English teacher. In Facebook I met Emil from Philadelphia. Communication for fun soon grew into something more. A year the guy and the girl went to each other, then they decided to get married. Lara's happiness was unlimited, but the idyll did not last long. Emil lost his job, the family was forced to move from a spacious rented house to a tight apartment on the outskirts, the car was taken to account for unscheduled rent. With her English in the US, Lara turned out to be useless, she had to go to work as a cleaner. Emil fell into depression, took a drink and began to raise his hand against his wife. A year after the flight to a foreign paradise, Lara had to return home.

Many women believe that life abroad, "where we are not", is a fairy tale, some completely different world, in which there are no problems, where they expect prosperity, prosperity and a lot of vivid impressions. Indeed, someone is lucky, and his expectations are justified completely. But an international marriage, moving to another country has many pitfalls. And if you really want to marry a foreigner, you'd better prepare yourself for this right away.

1. Adapting to each other. Even if you talked on the Internet every day, often went to visit each other, relaxed together, you can not be completely confident that you know your foreign husband completely and completely, until you start living with him. Already in the process of cohabitation, he can manifest himself with a completely different, not always a positive side. It's the same with you. There is a great risk that either you are disappointed in your husband, or he is in you.
2. The language barrier. If you do not know the language of the country in which you were going to move, even at an average level, at first it will be very difficult for you. You will experience difficulties in communicating with the husband, his family and the environment. In a shop or cafe, asking for directions on the street, it will be difficult for you to express yourself. Not only will you experience discomfort, the language barrier threatens with a misunderstanding between you and the interlocutor.
3. Difficulties in finding work. You will be lucky if a foreigner marries you "for beauty", and you will not have to work a day. But will you sustain this way of life? And with the search for work abroad can be difficult. Your education, most likely, is depreciated due to the fact that you do not know the language( terminology, regulations, etc.), and the diploma of education by your new country of residence is not recognized. You will have to retrain or go on not requiring qualification, but, accordingly, not prestigious and poorly paid work.
4. Remoteness from the family. You have to literally quit everyone and everything. Perhaps, in the future, you will be able to transfer to your sister, brother or parent-pensioners. But first you will be yourself, and you will miss the family and native places.
5. Loneliness. You go to your husband, but! In addition to him in a new place, you will not know anyone. The husband will not spend with you 24/7 at least because he needs to work and provide you. Prepare yourself for the first time you will spend time alone. The situation is corrected when you can overcome the language barrier and find work.

Married with a foreigner you can not escape the pitfalls.

IMPORTANT: Maybe, well, them, these pluses and minuses? Listen to your heart better.

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Where to meet a foreigner on the Internet for a serious relationship?

IMPORTANT: If you decide to get acquainted with foreigners on the Internet for a serious relationship, tighten your level of English. Without this, there will be no success.

Thanks to the Internet, every woman has the opportunity to get acquainted with a foreigner for serious relationship and marriage. Find her chosen one she can in three most common ways:

1. Through social networks. Not Russian-speaking, such as VKontakte or Classmates, and international - Facebook, Instagram, Twitter.
2. Through a free dating site.
3. Through the marriage agency.

You can find your prince abroad through the Internet

The second option attracts attention at least thanks to the word "free".Having registered, you will not lose anything, even if from the idea to get acquainted with a foreigner for the purpose of marriage you will not get anything done. Here's what you need to do:

1. Choose a free dating site. Google or read what the girls write on the reviews sites.
2. Login to the site and register.
3. Fill profile - add personal data, upload photos. If you have a professional photo, excellent. If not, select several pieces in good quality. One portrait, one - where you are in full growth, be sure. Do not add a photo that shows someone else besides you, too old photos, where you look much younger or not at all. Do not add photos in your underwear or in a swimsuit. If at some stage of communication there is a need to demonstrate such to your interlocutor, you will send them to him personally.
4. View profiles of men on the site, select several and start communication. Yes, to marry a foreigner, you will have to take the initiative. Get used to it.

Popular free dating site for foreigners.

IMPORTANT: Perhaps you will have a question, what is the "trick" of free dating sites. Did their owners decide to organize the fate of the girls free of charge? Here is the whole catch.

1. As a rule, on such sites you get the opportunity to register for free, view profiles of men and send them any welcome message or put an estimate( leave an opinion, etc.).To keep up the correspondence or get the address of his e-mail, you still have to pay.
2. Also there are sites, free for women, but paid for men.
3. On free sites a lot of advertising.
4. Another significant disadvantage of free dating sites is the huge number of trolls or frivolous men, as well as instances that seek to have virtual intimate relationships. Prepare for the fact that you will have to go through a couple of these before you begin to communicate with a really serious-minded man.

Where to find a marriage agency - marry a foreigner?

Marriage agency is the most effective way to get acquainted with a man from another country for a serious relationship and a family.

Marriage agency, international, paid, will give you much more chances.

1. First, the groom pays for leaving his profile and viewing the profiles of suitable candidates, often pays for the translation of letters he liked a girl, if she does not speak the language. This is at least some kind of insurance of his intentions. You do not pay absolutely anything.
2. Secondly, the agency will tell you how to fill out the questionnaire correctly, what photos and how much to add. Prepare for what you need professional shots, for which you will pay out of your pocket. The staff of the agency also help you to correspond, arrange documents for visiting him, etc.
3. Third, your first meeting with the groom can take place in the presence of representatives of a marriage agency or an interpreter provided by the agency. You will feel comfortable and safe.

IMPORTANT: Despite the fact that the agency is interested in marrying you, it will not do all the work for you. Raise your erudition! This overseas prince is unlikely to bite only on the exterior. He should be interested in communicating with you.

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How to meet a foreigner on Facebook?

Acquaintance with foreign men through social networks can occur in several ways:

1. You are randomly looking for pages of men that suit you by age, from the country that interests you. Write to them all, communicate with those who respond to you and believe in your destiny.
2. You find a group of interests, first actively comment on the posts there, then start a personal correspondence with the male members of the group that you liked.
3. You join a community created for international dating.

Community in Facebook to get acquainted with foreigners.

How to marry a foreigner after 50 years?

Why would a woman over 50, who for some reason be alone, not try to arrange their own destiny? The children grew up and went on their own. Career is arranged, life has settled. It's time to look for a man with whom it will be pleasant to spend the evenings that he wants to support. Yes, and about the material well-being for the second half of life does not bother to think.

IMPORTANT: If you are over 50, connecting your life with a man will be hard for you psychologically. Think well if you need it, whether or not you really want it. Perhaps, it is not superfluous to consult with a specialist.

After 50, 60, 70 years you have a good chance to marry a foreigner.

Decided? Take Action!

1. Use the services of a marriage agency. Believe me, in developed countries there are a lot of widowers, divorced men, those who, by virtue of their career, have been left without a family, your age. They are just like you, do not want to be lonely, looking for love, affection and understanding.
2. Choose a man with a difference in age of +/- 10 years. If you are 54, it is unlikely that you are ready to become a nurse to an old man.
3. Add the current photos. Do not be young. Let it be better for you to write less men than later when you meet and open a real picture you will be disappointed.
4. Do not reject the candidacy of men just because of their imperfect appearance. Age gives its own. That's the same way, with a pussy, gray hair and wrinkles, your husband would look after 50 if you were married. Agree, age is to some extent imprinted on you.

IMPORTANT: Western Europeans and the United States have fewer prejudices at the expense of age-old marriages. Men and women there create families not only after 50, but also after 80. You have very good chances!

If after 50 you are looking for a foreigner for marriage, use the services of a marriage agency.

Dating with foreigners to get married: feedback from

Surely, you have friends or acquaintances of friends who have married abroad and live there safely. If not, read on the Internet reviews about dating sites and communicating with foreign fiancées.

Olga L.: I'm 43 years old, my personal life did not work out. Married early, lived with her husband for 4 years, divorce. She did not give birth to children, but she was deeply disappointed in men. Career has become my everything. I realized when a close friend invited my daughter to a wedding. So sad and lonely. You will not believe, in the metro saw advertising of the marriage agency, legs themselves were carried there. I did not think there would be so many suggestions. Although my appearance is spectacular, I speak English well, but I'm not a girl anymore. Communicated immediately with several men, but with Hans from the German city of Kiel, we immediately had a strong connection. He is the same as me, a lone careerist, once disappointed in women. After a month of correspondence, he came to visit me, in two - I went to him. At the third meeting we had already arrived with a ring. Now I live in Germany, we have a spacious apartment, a dog. We understand each other is not that from a half-word, but from a look, gesture. That's who would tell me that this is how I meet my man?

Eugene: In Facebook wrote a foreigner. An Englishman who serves a motor ship, a widower with a 13-year-old daughter. Type, beautiful I could not pass by. We started to communicate. Already the next day, confused that he did not specifically answer any of my questions, but continued to sing only praises. Purely from excitement continued to communicate with him. It was interesting, than will end. As a result, he spat that his daughter has a birthday, she wants a gift from me. Since I do not have time to buy and send, I must send him money so that he can buy it himself. She laughed and added to the Black List. Beware of scammers!

Review of a girl about communicating with a foreigner.

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