A funny scenario of matchmaking on the part of the groom: the words and the text of the groom, the groom's parents, matchmakers, toasts, chastooshkas, songs, poems. Funny contests, joke games, gifts on the wedding of the bride from the groom

The article offers you a lot of ideas for the matchmaking scenario from the groom's side.

Rules, customs, traditions of matchmaking by the groom

The marriage of is an old custom of the Slavic people to notify the girl's family that they want to marry her. As a rule, the bride's hand was asked of the father, not the girl herself. To do this correctly and well, the partners asked for help from the matchmakers. The role of matchmakers often performed by parents, close relatives or good friends.

But it was impossible to just go and go to matchmaking. Before doing this, the young guy's family gathered for a kind of advice, after which it was decided who was going, what he said and how he sought the consent of the bride. After the council, the matchmakers went to the girl's house to notify the family about the upcoming event.

Unfortunately, in modern life, ancient rituals have lost their necessity. However, some families( most often those that live in villages and small towns) still retain this custom. Svata and relatives of the groom come to the house of his wife with songs and dances, read poems, sing chastushki, joke and try in every possible way to cheer up the girl's parents.

IMPORTANT: Matchmaking is a kind of sign of respect for the bride's parents. So the young man shows his respect and says that he has serious intentions.

Matching customs:

• If after the solemn part of the parents agreed to the union, they should treat the matchmakers and the groom with caravans( it could be replaced with bread).
• After the matchmakers agreed and all the guests were invited to the table to enjoy the event and discuss all the details of the wedding: when it is best arranged, who will pay, who will be invited to the wedding.
• To matchmaking the groom should bring a gift not only to his bride( in the modern version it's a ringlet), but also to the girl's parents: father and mother.
• If it happens that the family gives the groom a refusal, it was customary for him to take out not the loaf, but the "garbuz"( the fruit of the melon family: pumpkin, watermelon, and rarely melon).
• It is also important that matchmaking was held standing. All scenes, poems and songs should be held standing on their feet, not squatting - this is a good sign. If someone sat - this sign said that the wedding will not be soon.
• To leave the house after the feast followed only in the dark and after sunset, so that no one could jinx it.
• Bridegroom, except for gifts, you should definitely bring flowers to your beloved and her mother.

Scenario of cheerful matchmaking and the tradition of celebrating

What do they take with them to matchmaking from the groom, what kind of loaf?

According to another old tradition, the groom's parents, if they went to matchmaking, baked with them a loaf or bread. This bread was given to a young girl. If the young woman was not interested in the wedding, the bread( loaf) remained intact and returned to matchmakers.

If the girl liked the couple, this loaf or bread was cut in the middle of the celebration in exactly four parts. The girl did it herself. She gave two parts to her parents and the two parents of the groom, calling them "mom" and "dad" - it was a good sign that foreshadowed understanding and harmony in the family.

What should I bring to the groom as a gift to parents for matchmaking?

Funny humorous text of the matchmaking scenario from the groom's side: the words of the groom, parents, matchmakers

Every family can come up with their own scenario of matchmaking. It is important to create your own unique, and not take a ready-made template, because each bride and groom are unique. To fill your script you can with a lot of entertaining moments:

• Verses
• Scenes
• Chastushki
• Songs
• Pribautki
• Jokes
• Riddles and so on.

IMPORTANT: Each matchmaking should traditionally begin with a "crown" phrase: "You have a merchandise - we have a merchant!" .After the phrase, the script can be supplemented with ridiculous verses, greetings and jokes.

Poems for the script from the groom:

Today the heart beats briskly,
After all, I decided to tie myself
By marriage and quietly
To live your whole life only for you!

The bride, the tapered - a fairy tale!
Take me with all my heart,
I'll give caring, affection
And I'll share love with you!

Narrowed mine,
Like a star in the sky,
Like a rose in the garden
I'll save you!

Wanna come today
I and the faithful matchmakers,
I do not want to be free,
I want my wife! She'll be you!

Today we must make a bid.
Come ready, elegant matchmakers,
Gifts and treats,
To achieve your agreements!

Asterisk clear, narrowed,
You're the only one in the world I need,
I've come to you to mate,
Its love to brag!

I want to be given to me well.
My parents are my bride.
To me in my heart without it
It's sad, sad, very crowded!

Such as you,( girl's name) in the world can not be found:
Wise, slim, beautiful, good!
I will not give you hundreds, thousands!
If only your soul was happy!

Work around the floor light
For you, dear.
I'll give you a planet,
I do not know the barriers!

My pretty beauty,
I came to see you today.
Come out, my dove,
I'll kiss you in the mouth!

I'll give you a ring
And a loving heart,
Just( name) come out,
Happiness is waiting for us ahead!

What verses are included in the script for matchmaking?

Funny songs for matchmaking from the groom text

You can improve your script with cheerful and fervent songs. They are best performed under live accompaniment( if possible): guitar, button accordion, violin, flute and so on. Sing songs absolutely everyone present. Singing them should be happy, emotional. The selection of songs should be thematic: with jokes, verses and the offer of the hand and heart of the groom. During singing, you can also go dancing.

IMPORTANT: If you are not strong in songs, then everyone can sing chastushki. Choose cheerful quatrains and sing them all crowd, clapping and smiling.

Ditties:

I've long wanted to marry
Just needed an excuse,
And today I decided to
Do not be a bachelor anymore!

Single and not married
I'm tired of walking around the world.
Here came you to get involved,
After all, you are more beautiful than that!

I'll tell you a secret:
I fell in love - no power!
And now I want to marry,
Here it is my big secret!

I, my dear,
I'll give the whole planet,
What else to give - I do not know!
I love you with my soul!

No you in the world more beautiful,
No you are loved.
For you, they are dancing,
You are my beautiful!

I want to marry you,
You're my beauty!
These matchmaking, like a wedding
And matchmakers are all trampled!

I ask you, bride,
Do not chase the bridegroom,
If the houses are very crowded,
You come out of the house!

Ditties for the matchmaking of the groom

Games for the matchmaking of the groom

Diversify the script will help games or fun. They will be able to defuse an awkward situation and bring all present to matchmaking.

Diverse fun contests

Jokes and humor on matchmaking from the groom

Jokes and jokes can be included in any part of the script. They will help to have fun the whole official part, make it interesting and fun.

What jokes you can include:

Jokes and poems

Poems for matchmaking from the groom funny

Words of the parents for the matchmaking:

You seem to be the bridegroom,
And our daughter will come up.
Give us more gifts,
You will not find another bride!

Good matchmakers, rich,
And our daughter easily zasvatali.
Let's make it more interesting,
You sing us a cheerful song!

We took our daughter with care and warmth,
We gave everything to her, bought and loved.
Now agree to you kindness to the wedding to give
And give my dear daughter a daughter!

Wow, good matchmakers today!
The language is suspended, they say so sweetly!
And we are ready to give your beloved daughter freedom,
So that life was just as smooth!

Today you, matchmakers, have fallen in our hearts,
Words, lyrics and songs are good!
Let this marriage be the happiest,
The wife for her husband will be a sweet treat!

Words of matchmakers for matchmaking:

We came today to marry
Your daughter - a beauty,
Groom curly
She really likes it!

We, matchmakers are good,
We bring happiness to all
And today your daughter
is asking for your marriage!

Matchmakers - they are such people,
Which for a long time you will not forget.
Today we came to your house
And happiness shines all around!

Wish you today,
You to praise and rejoice,
Kindness we will not forget
And it's easy to get involved!

Well-behaved matchmakers
You brought treats, flowers,
You are offered to give the bride.
Such a bridegroom, you need to take it urgently!

Verses for matchmaking

Toasts to matchmaking from the groom

During the feast, you should read a lot of pleasant and important toasts. They can be spoken prose or verse.

Toasts in verse:

Let's drink to love,
So that the young reigned,
To flee the veins of blood
And the life of the union blessed!

All the relatives gathered at the table,
Everyone wants happiness for this couple.
Parents have a young bride gold
And they are the same guy!

I want to raise the glass full,
So that everyone around is happy!
To happiness was this couple,
So that we walked here without a reason!

Parents are happy, our relatives are happy,
Our holiday is delightful, has a nice character!
Let this couple be joyful, despondency will pass,
And matchmaking will turn into a wedding smoothly!

How to diversify the script of matchmaking verses?

Contests on matchmaking by the groom

contests and entertainment on matchmaking:

Contests and entertainment

What to give to the suit by the groom?

As already mentioned, the groom should give gifts to his beloved and her parents during matchmaking.

What can you give a girl:

• Ring
• Bracelet
• Beads
• Pendant
• Earrings
• The jeweler statuette
• Sweets
• Flowers

What can you give mom a girl:

• Flowers
• candy box
• jar of honey
• Shawl
• Decoration
• Dishes
• picture

What can you givethe girl's father:

• good bottle of alcohol
• cigars
• Hookah
• Tasty treat
• statuette
• Toolkit
• Notepad
• picture
• kit

Wee bathsdeo: "Matchmaking: how to woo a bride?"