Psychology of female gestures. What do women hide?

How to understand that you like a girl? How does a girl attract a guy? What kind of posture to take during communication, so as not to alienate him? Let's talk about all this in the article.

Gestures and body language can tell a lot more about a person than he himself will do. To recognize true sympathy, interest or self-serving goals of the opposite sex, watch for non-verbal gestures. The body language does not lie.

How attract women's attention, and how attract the attention of men. What are the differences?

Not always men and women rush to confess their feelings. But in the presence of the object of their sympathy, some of their gestures can not remain silent about sympathy. Subconsciously, they attract attention. And sometimes only a very observant person will be able to read the meaning of these gestures.

The difference between female and male gestures is that a woman shows her weakness and femininity, and the man tries to demonstrate his strength.

What men do :

• Begin to straighten clothes, hair, look like a non-existent speck of dust
• In the presence of a pretty woman, a man immediately becomes younger: straightens his shoulders, draws in his belly, his eyes sparkle brighter than the former
• Hands can be held by a man in his pockets with his thumb outwardsor lays his fingers on the
• strap. A man can keep his head in a raised position, thereby demonstrating himself in all its glory
• Looks at the woman with a long studying look

What women do :

• The woman shakes her hair, straightens her hair, sometimes starts to twist the curls on her finger, the latter is not always a sign of sympathy( some just love to do it)
• While walking under the gaze of the object of sympathy, the woman begins to rock her usual hips
• .attention with short glances from under the eyelashes, shoots the eyes. As soon as a man catches her gaze, she immediately turns her eyes away
  with her hands a woman can accidentally stroke herself on the thighs or touch the chest
  demonstrates her gentle wrist
• Strokes the leg of the glass, pencil or other conical object
• A muffled voice, wet lips slightly opened and languid lookfrank appeal for love
• A woman attracts attention by laying her foot on the leg. Sometimes she does it too frankly.

. Explicit female sympathy: what not everyone knows.

Sometimes a girl does not want to show her sympathy because of the fear of being rejected. In the gestures of such a girl, the guy will not see stroking movements, appeals by swinging his hips and other sexual gestures. The girl can behave completely the opposite:

• Her voice can break, shake, she speaks more quickly, not as usual
• Laughter becomes like a hysterical laughter: loud and jerky
• Motions are clunky and awkward

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The girl's ridiculous behavior may indicate that she likes you, but she is very worried.

Why is it worth watching a girl?

Before you conclude that this girl is too awkward or too provocative, the guy should watch her for a while. Perhaps she is just trying to attract him to her in this way.

Important: Often at the moment of falling in love, we behave differently than usual. We try to appear better than we really are or, conversely, want to create an impregnable image.

Eye contact: short or long view

• A long look( more than 1-2 seconds) towards an unfamiliar person is considered indecent. A person can perceive it as a gesture of aggression. An exception are lovers
• A man can watch a pretty woman for a long time and closely, often delays a look at the chest, hips, neck. Sometimes these views can be completely unceremonious.

It's not for nothing that they say that a man loves his eyes.

• Short looks can also be signs of love, but so shy people look. Usually women use short glances as a game. They languishly watch over the man, doing everything so that he intercepts their eyes. But as soon as the man noticed, the woman slyly turns her eyes towards
• . To establish a trust contact, look at the person and smile at him. If the people are united by a common situation, you can apply a long look. For example, you wanted to take one glass and looked at each other for a long time. This indicates that your attempt to attract attention was seen and understood by

. Location: always next to the guy

A clear sign of female sympathy is the desire to follow the man.

Guys, do not be surprised if you always "accidentally" meet an unfamiliar girl. It can be a completely non-random meeting.

• If the guy liked, but the girl with him is not yet familiar, she will start looking for ways to cross them. A girl who is constantly next to a guy, obviously sympathizes with him
• If the girl is your old friend, pay attention to how quickly she agrees to change her whereabouts with you. For example, when visiting friends, invite her to sit in the kitchen, invite her to a disco at another discotheque, even if she just interrupts her conversation with a friend for you - this can talk about feelings for you.

A girl wants to like: perfect make-up and hairstyle

On a strongthe gender of the woman's appearance has a powerful effect, and women know about it. Therefore, a woman tries to please a beloved man, carefully choosing her hair and makeup.

Important: Girls, do not overdo it with make-up, sometimes the result can be deplorable.

The fact is that the concepts of women and men about beauty can be very different. Too well-groomed, expensive dressed and ideal outwardly women seem to men inaccessible and cold. Although men are very appreciated in women grooming, naturalness and neatness.

Smile smile different: how not to be mistaken?

One of the strongest means of seduction is a smile. However, not every smile can be perceived as a gesture of goodwill and disposition. Attract a man can only sincere smile.

A strained smile, when you do not have a good mood, is always felt. Also a tense smile can not only bring, but also push away a man. For example, he might think that you are smiling at him only because the rules of decency and nothing more are required.

Important: Do not try to seduce a man with an insincere smile.

Significance of gestures and poses: what poses attract attention, and which ones repel?

If you do not want to alienate a man, do not occupy closed positions :

1. Crossed arms and legs indicate that you do not want to continue acquaintance
2. Hands crossed, and no legs - a sign of doubt, you do not know whether to continue communication
3. Forward-facing palms - the signal "All Enough! I'm tired »
4. Do not pretend that you are bored
5. Avoid gestures of aggression: do not roll your eyes under the forehead, do not look down on the partner
6. The hands that you hold behind your back are subconsciously perceived by a man as a stone in your bosom

Occupy friendly and openposes :

1. Hands and feet when communicating should not be crossed
2. See the interlocutor in the eye while talking
3. During communication, your body should be turned towards the man

Common mistakes of men in dating and communicating with a girlKami: Why girls do not reciprocate?

It's amazing why some men, with the appearance of simpletons, easily conquer the opposite sex. And others - successful, kind and attentive, suffer a fiasco in the field of love.

In order for girls not to refuse acquaintance and further communication, it is desirable for men to avoid common mistakes:

1. Do not try to indulge the girl in everything. In fact, girls do not like henpecked. Do not confuse this with gentlemanly duties: open the door in front of the entrance, give a hand, push the chair
2. Uncertainty of .Nature is so arranged that women are drawn to strong men who are able to solve any problem. So do not ask constantly about where we're going, what we're going to do. Take the initiative of
3. Do not buy love with gifts. A man who can only offer gifts will be perceived as a money bag, no more. Gifts should be sincere and sincere.

How to recognize female sympathy: advice and feedback

Roman, 26 years old : "Girls are insidious creatures. I'm always worried by the girl's overt behavior. This is a clear sign that you need something from her. "

Inna, 30 years old : "There can not be universal councils. Some girls are modest and silent. And others know how to take the initiative in their own hands. We need to look at each case individually. "

Alexey, 41 year : "I'm no longer a teenager. Only one conversation with a woman can understand if I like her or not. "

Maxim, 19 years old : "Observe the girl. Her behavior will give attitude to you. If she does not behave with you like everyone else, then something is wrong there. "

The body language is very eloquent. Watch closely for the people you like. Maybe they have long secretly sigh for you, but they are afraid to say this.

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