How quickly to forget the girl you love?

"Do not part with your loved ones," is sung in an old song, but the decision to be close to a loved one is not always accepted by us, sometimes it is taken for us.

"I'm leaving you" - you can find a few guys who have never heard this phrase from girls.

If the novel has exhausted itself, then it is not so important who made the decision about the break, you will not experience special suffering.

But often after such an unpleasant conversation guys have to rack their brains, how to forget the girl , which you continue to love.

This is very hard, especially - at first.

It seems to you that you can never forget a girl you love so much.

But there are ways after parting with an expensive person not to do nonsense and after a while to restore mental equilibrium.

Can I even forget my girlfriend?

Oh, I heard this question more than once from my male friends when they were looking for a vest to cry for "this infection that I loved so much, but she left me."

Emotions that you experience after parting with your loved one are understandable and forgivable only if you do not start to hide behind them to take your life under the slope and commit stupid actions, which you will regret necessarily.

You can forget even your beloved girl if:

1. Send the emotions that are now raging in you, to something useful, for example, to self-realization.
2. Do not allow yourself to drown in these miseries so that you can not be saved.
3. Do not go on about their addictions( from the excessive amount of alcohol and promiscuous sexual relations will only get worse).
4. To perceive the gap with a girl who must be forgotten, not as a terrible tragedy, but as preparation for a new stage in life.
5. Sincerely believe that your big and happy love is yet to come.

What should you remember about guys trying to forget a girl?

You loved her very much, were absolutely happy, made plans for a joint future, and she came one terrible day without declaring war and said that everything is over between you because she:

• does not love you anymore;
• found another;
• leaves far away;
• wants to focus on their careers;
• is not ready for a serious relationship - the reasons can be different, but it hurts from this news equally.

Naturally, any guy in this situation will think how to forget his girlfriend, which makes him suffer so much.

First, you need to throw out the accumulated emotions: enroll in the box section, beat the dishes, get drunk with the best friend( only let it be a one-time action!), Go into the woods to play hard, and so on.

Secondly, you need to pull yourself together and not allow yourself to do something stupid.

How to find yourself a girl for a serious relationship?

If you are trying to forget your girlfriend, then please remember that:

• the suffering that you are experiencing is a natural reaction of the body and should not be ashamed of;
• sooner or later your pain will subside, when this happens - depends largely on you;
• , this young lady, no matter how ideal you think it, not the last in this world - there is much more beautiful, kinder, smarter and better than her.

And it is very important to realize that you are suffering not so much for a specific person, but for the fact that this girl has satisfied your needs: communicative, sexual, emotional, etc.

To forget this particular girl, you need to find a person who will satisfy your needs even better.

On how to forget a girl - advice from psychologists

The strength of the pain of parting with your girlfriend in many ways depends on how strong feelings you have for her.

If a young lady needed you just to have fun and activate an intimate life, then you are unlikely to miss her after she decides to part with you.

Very different emotions are experienced by guys who are thrown by their beloved girlfriends.

Favorite girl, oh, how hard it is to forget.

It is not superfluous in this difficult matter will be the advice of a psychologist.

Psychologists advise guys who want to quickly forget a girl, go through 4 stages:

1. Plan actions to eradicate her from the heart.

   This can be done by hiding all the joint photos, destroying or transferring her gifts, removing her from friends on social networks, etc.

2. Find ways to escape your suffering.

   Fill your life to the maximum with some interesting and useful things, then you will simply not have time to revel in suffering.

3. Start paying attention to other girls.

   Yes, you still love the one that made you so hurt, but if you're not going to take celibacy or change your sexual orientation, then it's time to start inviting nice girls to date.

4. Wait until the time heals the wounds.

   Time is the best healer of all existing, he can heal even the most terrible wounds.

   The healing process will be faster if you stop reveling in your pain and live a full life.

How to forget your girlfriend that left this world?

Sometimes, in the path of love, the most dangerous and ruthless enemy rises, which even the strongest people can not cope with.

This is death.

To lose your beloved girl as a result of her death is the worst, because no one and nothing can return it.

If you have experienced this, then I sincerely sympathize with you, but I advise you, grieving, pull yourself together.

You will quickly forget your girlfriend if you:

1. Stop being angry with her for leaving you.
2. Remember how much she loved you, which means she wanted you unlimited happiness, which you will not feel if you revel in suffering.

3. Understand that your beloved would not exactly like you to put a cross on your life.

   She had no choice but to do with her life, but you have something!

4. You will keep a bright memory of her, but you will not build a memorial of her memory at home, take photos of each day, spend half a day at the cemetery, etc.
5. Realize several of her desires, for example, become a volunteer in a shelter for homeless animals, as she always wanted, etc.
6. You will live an active life of a good person so that she can be proud of you.
7. Allow time to heal your wounds, rather than constantly pulling at them.

To forget your loved one after parting,

will be useful to listen to the advice from this video:

5 ways to quickly forget the girl

Desperate Romeo, who can not recover after they were thrown by their beloved girl, I would advise not to berag.

People cope with such terrible shocks, learning about which you would be ashamed of their snot from the fact that some girl left you.

If you can not forget the girl, try the following:

1. Let something new into your life.

   Start doing something you've never done before, for example, jump with a parachute or register for extreme driving courses.

2. Use your free time and money to pamper yourself : sign up for some courses, buy yourself an expensive gift( which your former ex-boyfriend would not have approved), go on a trip, etc.

3. Go in for sports.

   Start to visit the simulator at least three times a week.

   First, silly thoughts in the head will be less, secondly, the hall is visited by beautiful slender girls, thirdly, with the addition of muscle mass, self-esteem will begin to rise.

4. Take care of your career.

   Nelada in his personal life is a great opportunity to be realized in the profession.

   You'll get a decent position and start earning good money, there will be no end of the girls.

5. Distract yourself from sad thoughts in all possible ways. : go to parties, meet friends, travel, learn, get a pet, start helping people, etc.

If you survived a painful parting, then you are right to act, thinking how quickly to forget the girl .

Do not suffer for a long time for a person to whom you are completely indifferent.