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You are constantly tormented with the question: "What is the meaning of life?" Probably, it is very difficult for each of us to accurately give a detailed answer to this question, as well as to other questions: "What is love?", "What do you mean byin a word - happiness? ", etc.
Many psychologists agree in a single opinion, when a person starts to often talk and think about the meaning of life, then this is a clear sign that things are going wrong with him!
By the way, it is precisely because a person thinks and analyzes a lot that he is completely different from animals - he is not interested in living just for the joy of his physical instincts!
With this it turns out that it is because of this that people of different ages and peoples have been looking for that very magical meaning of life .
And those who lost the meaning of life and still can not understand their destiny - are doomed to be unhappy!
The meaning of life. What is it?
Perhaps you will tell me that not all people are constantly looking for the meaning of life , that's the majority without it cope, just do not think about it!
I'll argue with you, since I believe that this is not so.
You know, after some time a person starts to think about why he lives in this white world, and then gives himself an answer to this question, which satisfies him, perhaps for a time or for the rest of his life. .. that's how we live. ..
Let's consider the answers of most people to the question asked, perhaps you will find your answer in this list.
- My meaning of life is to raise a baby, plant a tree and buy a house!
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The meaning of life - constantly being beautiful and healthy!
To go in for sports, not to grow old, to look after yourself, to remain "eternally" young;
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The meaning of life - get as much as possible and to the maximum of pleasant impressions and emotions!
Life is given to us only once, so why can not we spend this life in pleasure?
This may sound selfish and from my side, but still. .. this is my life!
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My meaning is in self-realization of yourself as a person!
I dream to succeed, to become an independent and respected person;
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The meaning of life - leave a trace of memory!
To be remembered with kind words and thanked for the work done;
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The meaning of life is to serve your family and friends.
To live for their own children, or for the sake of the husband( wife), for the sake of the parents;
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My meaning is in pleasant memories!
I want to turn back, smile and understand for myself that I do not regret a bit about how I lived my life!
- Eh, and my meaning of life, probably in life itself( in my opinion, this is nonsense);
- The meaning of life - to prove to all the surrounding people, as well as to myself, that I can achieve everything I want, which others have not been able to do;
- There's no meaning in life. .. just live and do not torture yourself with this pointless question!
See how many meanings of life I gave you as an example! Choose! But. ..
I must, probably, for myself to understand whether I really chose the right the meaning of life , am I ready to live for it?
And will not it lose its taste at some stage of my life?
Take for example our studies at school or at a university.
You just do not begin to memorize a paragraph from a book, right?
Once you teach it, it means that you know why you are doing this, do not you?
You can get an excellent mark, you will gain additional knowledge, you, in the end you will get the credit.
Under any circumstances - you get the result of your action!
And you can only evaluate the meaning of your action if you are on the last step, for example, at the exam.
What is the last step in our life?
Of course - death.
Someone has done more for his life, someone lived it in kindness, and someone in anger, someone completely devoted themselves to children, and someone had ALL to try everything - we will all be the same before death!
Personally, my life's meaning is self-development!
Planet Earth, you can compare with the college or the institute, where everyone must constantly learn new things, gain knowledge and practice their skills!
My life goal is to reveal my human potential and realize it on my life's path.
The meaning of 's life is that when I turn over my last life page, while looking back, I can confidently say to myself:
"If I had the opportunity to return to the past and live it from the very beginning - probably Iwould have it and lived, nothing has changed! I myself chose how I want to live my life, I and only I am the mistress of my life and my choice! It does not matter if I acted correctly in any situations or not - but I chose how to behave, and in those situations - for me it was the best choice. .. my choice! I do not regret anything! I have lived my happy life with dignity! "
I advise you to read a useful article: How to find yourself? - these tips will help you decide in life, and also proanalize!
I recommend everyone to watch the cartoon: "On the meaning of life"!
( Someone recognizes himself in the main character, and someone can find some answers 🙂)
An excerpt from Dale Carnegie's book "How to stop worrying and start living":
"Be the best yourself.
If you can not be a pine at the top of the hill,
Be a tree in the valley, but only be
The best tree at the spring;
Be a bush if you can not be a tree.
If you can not be a bush, be a grass
And make the road happier;
If you can not be a pike, just be a perch -
But be the most beautiful perch in the lake!
If you can not be expensive, be a footpath,
If you can not be a sun, be a star;
We win or lose - it does not matter,
Do the best that you have!