How to know whether you like a man: 20 main signs

We all want to love and be loved.

There are happy women who absolutely know exactly what their second half feels to them sincere deep feelings. But there are those who have to understand what lies behind the beautiful words of their young man: love, lust, lies, emptiness.

How do you know if a man or a relationship with you loves you only for him? Ask directly? But it's so easy to lie.

It's better not to look at words, but at deeds. And still look for the right signs, which will accurately indicate the power and genuineness of the senses.

How do you know if a man loves you by his behavior, look and other signs?

To find out exactly what your man is feeling, you just need to look at it. Push aside for a while your own feelings, which zamylivayut look and analyze his actions, words, gestures and stuff.

You can easily understand whether he loves you or not, if you do not deceive yourself.

1) 10 phrases that men say when they like

1. "I love you".
2. "Let me introduce you to my friends / colleagues / relatives. ..".
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3. "You are the most beautiful and intelligent, I was so lucky to meet you."
4. "How many children would you like to have?".
5. "In the future I plan. .."( you too are in these plans).
6. "I want you to know more about me."
7. "I'm afraid of disappointing you."
8. "I was so bored, although we did not see each other for only two days."
9. "I'm worried / worried about you."
10. "Dress warmly, it's cold outside. Have lunch, please, do not go hungry all day. I bought fruit, medicine in the pharmacy and I'm already flying to you. "

Of course, phrases can be formed in a different way. But I think you understand the general meaning.

A man who loves will not:

• conceal his feelings;
• hide you from friends and family;
• does not care about your health, well-being, mood;
• self-centered in the difficult moments of your life;
• spit on what you think of it;
• to hide its past and plans for the future;
• look for excuses why you can not meet.

2) Actions of a man who will indicate that he loves you

If you happen to be silent or a stern man who speaks little, but does much, do not rush to reproach him for not loving you. Just analyze the actions of a young man, not words.

Action of a man who precisely loves his woman:

1. Caring.

   It manifests itself in small things( pack your lunch, massage after a hard day, feed your dinner, throw your jacket when you're cold in a light dress under the gusts of a cold wind), and in larger scale actions: caring for you whenyou are sick, comfort, when you lose a loved one, etc.

2. Involving you in your life.

   A man who loves and who wants a woman to be a part of his life, quickly:

   • will introduce her to her friends and relatives;
   • will show where he lives and works;
   • will try to attach to your hobby, etc.

   This will allow him to spend more time with his beloved, namely, every loving man aspires to this.

3. Help.

   A man who loves does not even need to ask you to help. He listens to you attentively and reacts sensitively to the phrases that:

   • you have a light bulb burned out;
   • the shelf has disappeared;
   • broke the electric kettle;
   • you do not know what to get to your parents, because on Friday night all buses are clogged;
   • you can not solve the problems with the JECOM, and so on.

   The desire to help and facilitate the life of a woman gives a man in love with a head.

4. The desire to please you.

   He knows what your favorite flowers are and regularly pleases with bouquets. The same goes for sweets, favorite restaurants, movies, etc. He is not ashamed to arrange for his beloved romantic surprise, to cook a delicious dinner, pleasantly surprise. He revels in your joy and is happy when you are happy.

5. You are an important part of his life.

   Favorite woman occupies one of the main places in life of a man, whereas a lady who is not loved is just one of the components.

   If you are constantly feeling on the sidelines, if he regularly donates a date with you to go with friends to the bar, go fishing, take work on the weekend - no love is talking about.

3) Another 10 additional signs that will indicate that a man loves you

1. Views full of love and a thirst to admire you when he thinks that you do not see it.
2. Desire to share with you both sadness and joy.
3. Adequate response to your mood: the desire to comfort, when you feel bad, maintaining gaiety - when it's good.
4. Invariable presence and desire to help when you are in stress, in a bad mood, in depression, during PMS, etc.
5. The pride that a man feels for your victories and achievements.
6. The lack of selfishness in terms of sex and the desire to please your beloved woman, and not just take care of your satisfaction.
7. Knowledge and understanding of your tastes, hobbies, likes, dislikes, allergies, etc.
8. The value of your opinion for him is undeniable.
9. A loving man will not rip off on you his bad mood and pour his problems on his head in order to splash out anger, and not get help or good advice.
10. The aspiration will please your girlfriends, parents, grow stronger in your life and become an important part of it.

How do you know that a man does not love you so you do not waste time on it?

We are women - creating a different warehouse than men, so we can not always understand them.

As in my opinion, it's easiest to understand whether a man loves you or not - just feel it. If you are confused by something in the relationship, if you do not fully believe in it, even if you often ask yourself the question: "Does he love or not?", Most likely, there is no real love.

There is sympathy, affection, passion, perhaps - falling in love, but this is not enough to enter into marriage with a man. Where is the guarantee that when you are already married, he will not meet the one that will love with all his heart?

But this is my, a woman's view of the problem. And I would like to know what men think about this.

My friend-man, a psychologist by profession, called me a few signs that will accurately indicate that a man does not like you:

1. He has not changed a habit, nor a traditional way of life, nor a schedule due to the fact that you have appeared.

   All that you have been awarded is to take a free place between work, friends, relatives and hobbies.

2. He does not want to spend more time with you, see you more often, talk a lot on the phone.

   Excessive employment of a man does not excuse - if he likes, then he will have time for his beloved.

3. He is not afraid of offending you.

   He just does not care that some careless words or deeds can hurt you.

4. He does not want to plan with you that the distant future( family, children), but even a joint summer vacation.

   Just responds: "Let's see, let's live, then it will be visible, etc.".

5. You repeatedly caught a guy on a lie.

   There are two options - or he is a pathological liar, or he just does not care how you meet lies. Neither the first nor the second option for you - not an option.

6. He does not try to lighten your life, help in difficult situations.

   No, if you ask for help, you get it, but a man in love sees when to put his own shoulder.

7. He does not accept you as you are.

   The man who loves, at first will not notice any female faults, he will forgive even what used to irritate him.

   Lapping and smoothing of sharp corners occurs later. For example, I - an ardent opponent of smoking, once met with a smoking girl, because he fell in love like a kid.

   If he finds fault with you, tries to change, to adjust for himself - definitely does not like.

Likes - does not like to: find out, even if it hurts

Most women at least once in their life, but were trapped by debilitating relationships. ..

I'm not talking about some kind of violence or connection with a dysfunctional fugitive. I'm talking about a relationship that seems to be developing and it's logical and fun to bring, and the belief that they will end up as something good is not.

This is usually the case if we doubt that we are loved. I once had such relations.

With Dima, we met six months ago at the university. A nice guy, well educated, with many positive traits of character, purposeful( even in the second year he began to earn extra money to have his own money), etc.

He treated me very well: he made appointments, gave flowers and nice presents, complimented me. In general, a good candidate for the role of the second half. But something in our relationship was not enough. It was only then that I realized that there was not enough love.

No, I loved Dima( well, or then I thought I loved), but I was not sure about his feelings, although I received several "I love you" on duty. I always wanted to know what he felt for me. It was this that drained morally and did not let you relax

How to become a good wife?

How did I know that Dima does not love me? I took off the rose-colored glasses and really looked at the attitude towards me. That's what embarrassed me:

1. He did not show genuine concern when I was sick or dealt with some problems.
2. The man was never upset when our date was postponed for some reason.
3. Even in the most intimate moments, Dima remained detached - like him anyway, I'm next to him or another.
4. The guy paid too much attention to other girls - and it was not a quick meaningless look that all men throw at attractive girls, it was an assessment: whether it would suit me as a substitute or not.
5. I felt that he was lying to me when he spoke of his feelings.

We parted on Valentine's Day. During a romantic dinner, we started talking about feelings. I jokingly asked why Dima spends this day with me, and not with another girl and heard in response: "Well, I love you".

And these secret words sounded like: "Well, I bought a jacket without thinking, now I have to wear it, although I do not like it."And I decided to get the truth out of my young man.

We spoke for a long time and for the first time sincerely. For the evening I still managed to find out that Dima, although he thinks I'm wonderful, but does not really love.

He felt guilty and tried to persuade me to wait, they say, feelings will come, but I did not want to.

Yes, it was painful, yes, leaving it was a difficult decision, but I did not regret that I achieved such an important recognition for myself.

How do you know if a man loves you or not?

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My advice to you: if you think how to find out if the man loves you, think about what you will do if he says: "I do not like".If you are ready for the truth( albeit bitter), then seek sincere recognition. If not, leave everything as is. It is possible that sooner or later he will still love you.