Girls in the majority - creation unlike each other.
For this reason, there is no single rule how to use the success of a female, , as to meet a girl .It will be necessary for each of the ladies to seek their own approach.
And yet, do not get discouraged and give up reading this article, because there are a number of secrets that will significantly increase your chances of organizing a personal life.
On all girls without exception, they certainly will not work, but for many - easily.
How to meet a girl to stay interesting for her?
Sasha was still a promising knight at school: cute, tall, engaged in aikido and swimming, from a good family, clever, well-mannered.
Classmates, and then classmates, like other familiar young ladies readily recognized: Sasha is an enviable fiancé, so no one refused him visits.
Sasha could not understand what the problem was. It seems that everything is right: he gives flowers, leads by cafes, if he promised, then he calls and comes, talk to him about what, not nizhebrod, in sex is not bad. What's the matter, then?
Desperate to find a way out of this vicious circle, the guy decided to collect a consultation of friends of both sexes to find out what he was doing wrong.
During the meeting, the main mistakes were found that prevented Sasha from meeting the girls correctly:
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He subconsciously chose girls who previously had "bad" boys.
That is a good Sasha, such a botan and a pedant( with a fat + sign) did not fit into this scheme. The young ladies, loving hooligans and rude people, were frankly bored in his presence.
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The guy was too right, practically - a bore.
Moreover, he demanded the same, from his girls."Missed a date for 10 minutes? How could you? It was necessary to get out earlier! "," How can you not want to go to the movies? We were going to the movies. Well, what, what good weather and you wanted to park? We were going to the cinema "," Why do not you call? You promised to call about eight. And now it's already 21.00. .. "and so on in the same spirit.
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It seemed to him that his mission was to change each of the girls for the better.
Therefore, he carried one on the philharmonic and theaters, the second gave for all holidays season tickets to the simulator and sports equipment, the third sawed for lack of ambition, etc.
There were, of course, other individual trivia, but the main problems we found and advised Sasha what to do to meet girls for more than 3 months:
- to be more spontaneous and less tedious;
- not try to save anyone or radically change;
- start dating girls who are fond of sports, eat right, do not drink alcohol, love plans and lists, are practical, pedantic and punctual.
The business went smoothly. A half year ago, Sasha married an ideal, in his opinion, a girl.
How to meet a girl correctly: all the components of the success of
If in the history of Sasha you have learned yours and, first of all, because you also can not understand how to meet girls correctly so that they do not run away from you, it's time to draw conclusionsand change.
1) You can not start dating a girl without getting to know her.
Many guys experience great difficulties when they meet a girl. And, as you know, not having met with the young lady, you can not begin to meet with her.
How to meet girls in real life:
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| 4 | Do a compliment andSay something relevant | Do not say nonsense | ||
| 5 | Easily accept refusals | Do not insist if you are refused, and did it uniquely |
Matching phrases for dating a girl on the street to start dating her:
How to meet a girl on the Internet so that she does not refuse to meet
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| 1 | error warning Collect as much information about her as possible before writing | Do not try to get acquainted with several girlsat once - there is a chance that they are familiar to each other |
| 2 | Shuti, only - witty | Do not write vulgarity - they are only relevant in the correspondence of the pair |
| 3 | Say that it's interesting to her | Do not think that rudeness will make you more manlym |
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| 5 | Write competently | not go to her cursing when she said she did not want to go out with you |
2) Successful Dating - the key to a strong relationship.
Much depends on how your visits are going( especially important is the first one).
In order for a girl to want to meet with you further, you need your dates to be:
- interesting;
- comfortable;
- non-verbal;
- hilarious;
- informative;
- is not exhausting;
- adequate duration.
Here are a couple of tips, what should be dating to properly meet with the girl:
- Do not drive her constantly in the same place - we love diversity.
- Come to the meeting though sometimes with flowers - modest bouquets are worth a penny, but please us no less than the bounty of roses.
- Do not delay the date, especially at first, until the girl starts asking home.
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Spending money. Visiting in the park, on the embankment, at the opening of the museum exhibition is a wonderful decision, but your lady deserves not only them, but also cafes, theaters, cinemas, amusement parks.
If you want to meet with a girl, you have to spend money on it.
- Create a good mood. If you feel bad or have an abominable mood, it is better to cancel the meeting altogether, than to come to it with sullen beech and spoil the mood of your lady.
- Lead the dialogue: do not crouch like a magpie, but do not keep silent like a fish. Tell me about yourself, but do not forget to ask the girl.
- Look for themes that will interest you both and other touch points.
- Do not hurry with sex - determined, you just want a girl in bed to tighten or a long time to meet with her.
- Surprise."Darling, I bought a tour ticket for the weekend in St. Petersburg" is much better than "On Saturday we always go to bowling and change the rules, I see no reason."
- Remember that women love with their ears, so you need to say compliments and admit to love.
3) What should be the behavior of a guy to meet a girl for a long time?
Often the reason why a guy can not long meet a girl and is constantly abandoned is his behavior and character flaws.
Do you consider yourself perfect and do not want to change? That's your business! Only do not whine after you are alone.
Girls want to meet guys who are:
- Stronger than them, not only physically, but also in character.
- Positively looking at this world, able to cheer up and support in a difficult moment.
- Have prospects in the future.
- Self-confident and able to make decisions.
- Are good lovers.
- Are able to be romantics.
- Have a maximum of merits and a minimum of shortcomings.
| № | manhood | Men disadvantages |
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| 1 | Decisiveness | Greed |
| 2 | Reliability | Cruelty |
| 3 | Fidelity | spineless |
| 4 | Cheerfulness | Insecurity |
| 5 | Sexuality | Dishonesty |
| 6 | developed mind and erudition | Slovenliness |
| 7 | charming | Selfishness |
4) What else needs to be the guy whowants to learn how to meet a girl correctly?
I think the guys that they dream to meet with the girls they choose, and not those that were left after the best ones were dismantled, some more useful tips are useful.
You can meet with any girl if:
- You will carefully take care of your appearance( turning into a girl, crazy for its beauty, you can not, but it is not worthwhile to completely clog your appearance).
- Will match the ideal of the man, who painted this particular girl.
- Correctly impress it: an expensive gift, your successes, a perfect act, an incredible romantic surprise, the fulfillment of her dream, rendered timely help, etc.
- Learn the art of communicating with the opposite sex. I remind you once again: we love with ears, so the ability to talk and talk compliments to girls is valued very highly.
- Learn every cell of your body to give out confidence in the style of "I can get any girl, but I want you."
Tips from Fyodor Bondarchuk with interesting examples:
on how to behave properly with a girl?
5 main mistakes guys, how wrong to meet with the girl
Well, and finally talk about the mistakes that the guys allow during the relationship with the girls.
Even if you really want to start dating( or continue to do so) with some girl, you can not:
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Run after her with a tail, begging to give you a chance.
This will cause her only a feeling of pity and disregard. And this is clearly not what you need. Sometimes it's worth simply retreating and finding yourself another object of love, rather than knocking out a stone wall with your forehead.
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Bend under it.
A man must maintain leadership, even if he has a confident and strong girlfriend. Slabakov ceases to respect, and later - and to love.
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Completely dissolve in a relationship.
Even if you are very fond of your girlfriend, even if you dream to spend as much time as possible with her, you do not need to make your romance the meaning of life, completely hammering into work / school, friends, relatives, hobbies.
If a girl wants you to give up everything and everyone to meet her, it's not about love, but about submission and humiliation.
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Only introduce and receive nothing in return.
My male readers often reproach me for writing about girls as some sort of deities, but about men as slaves. A pier, from the first it is required nothing, and the second constantly should.
Everyone, of course, sees what he wants, but I always stand up for the partnership that both partners should invest in. If you get yourself an egoist who does not give you anything, but demands a lot - a kick( figurative!) To her under the back, even if this ass is beautiful and pumped up.
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Relax, having reached the desired.
This is probably the biggest mistake of guys. They spend a lot of energy to start dating a girl, and then, when it's done, they relax and everything to you - no flowers, no confessions of love, no romance, no worries, not even a decent appearance.
If you begin to treat the girl you meet as your property, not worth much effort on your part, do not be surprised that she will soon find another, more sensitive and attentive.
No one knows how to meet a girl correctly , but I think I gave you food for thought. ..