How do you like the girl?

All men, even the most popular among women, at least once in their lives dried their heads over how would please a girl .

And for those unfortunates who have always been deprived of the attention of the fair sex, this problem has turned into a nightmare of all life.

But the casket is opened quite simply: you need to read more useful articles, such as, for example, how the "Diary of Success" is published.

How do you like a girl? !The story of one loser. ..

Boy Danila was studying with me at school. A modest boy of his own, in glasses.

Instead of rocking, he always hurried to the tutor, and changed the game of football to reading books. He was not some scared nerd, just a smart average boy.

Such people usually start to like women, when they have already achieved certain success and material prosperity.

But Danila did not want to wait that long, because he was in love with school beauty Janu. Yana met with the student, for a timid courtship Danila only chuckled.

In short, the guy did not manage to like the girl of his dreams.

We graduated from school, did who did what, went to work. We met together only for a meeting of graduates in 10 years.

Yana became even more beautiful, continued to sort out the gentlemen in search of her ideal.

Danil has also changed.

Ochochki replaced lenses, knitted sweaters by mother - a good suit, but most importantly the guy became incredibly self-confident - from a modest teaching there was not a trace left.

Now Yana decided to like him, but turned out to be a bummer: Danila was happily married and raised a two-year-old daughter.

I from professional curiosity decided to chat with Danila to find out what changed him so.

The guy admitted that Yana's disdain was a cruel blow, and he swore to himself that the next girl he fell in love with would become his wife.

I asked him to give my readers a few tips on how to please the girl of your dreams.

Danila did not become greedy, so - catch the recommendations of the former loser.

Without self-confidence, one can not like a girl

A classmate admitted to me that at the university he, although he studied financially, was carried away by psychology.

Most of all he was interested in the psychology of relations, because in the specialized literature he was looking for the reason why I could not like Jan.

All the authors of the articles, as agreed, said: "Become self-confident", "Girls love the confident", etc.

With self-confidence, Danila had problems, so he had to work hard to find this quality.

And only after two years of training, autosuggestion and work with a psychologist guy was convinced that the authors of the articles were not mistaken: it is impossible to please the girl if he is unsure of himself.

And here shy, uncertain, doubtful, blushing, muffled something muttering, cowardly prefer to bypass the party, counting on anything worthless weaklings.

If you want to please some girl, try to increase your self-esteem to begin with and become more confident.

How to do this, I have written more than once.

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What prevents a girl like?

As we have already explained, the first thing that prevents a girl from being liked is her self-doubt and her own strength.

But men have other enemies that prevent them from winning the heart of a beautiful lady:

1. An untidy and ridiculous appearance.

   Dear men, finally understand: soap, washing powder, shampoo, toothpaste, stylish things, polished shoes, daily shaving, regular visits to the hairdresser are your friends, but salted hair, dirt under the fingernails, three-day bristles, dirty worn things, bad smell from the mouth, unwillingness to wash - your enemies.

   Having such enemies, you will never be able to please the girl.

2. Excessively compulsive courtship or vice versa, a complete lack of demonstration of their feelings.

   You do not need to run after the girl you want to conquer, but to build a macho, which "some kind of left-wing dude" is not at all interesting - you do not need to.

   Find the golden mean that a girl will like.

   Who is the perfect man?

3. Idiotic way of dating.

   Men's magazines are full of recommendations, as you need to roll to the lady unannounced.
   Sometimes you read such funny tips that you understand: the poor fellow who decides to apply them in practice, just does not shine.

   You do not need to reinvent the wheel and overreach, or the lady will doubt your mental health.

   Be easier.

10 qualities that a man must possess to please a girl

Often from men you can hear: "Oh, these women do not know what they want."

Some women there may not know, and we, beautiful and intelligent ladies, we know perfectly well what kind of man we want to see next to us.

To please a girl, you need to be:

1. Polite.

   You must have good manners, do not be rude, do not be rude to everyone around, do not make a fuss and do not rush into a fight, unless something really important is at stake.

2. Generous.

   You can consider us to be vile bastards, but someone who "pushes a hare in the field for a ruble" risks being left alone until the end of his days, because he will not be able to please the girl.

3. Clever.

   This does not mean that you need to solve mathematical problems with the speed of light or brag about your IQ, but understand: to like a girl, being an idiot who hardly reads by syllables and does not know the capital of his own country is difficult enough.

4. Cheerful.

   The main thing that your jokes were not flat and not vulgar.

5. Courageous.

   I agree, this is a very vague concept, but if women say "real man" about you, consider that the goal is achieved.

6. Responsible and reliable.

   Any girl is looking for a companion in the life of someone you can rely on in a difficult moment.

7. Good companion.

   You should be interested.

   Your speech should be literate and fluent, and even learn to say compliments - it's very like girls.

8. Successful.

   Yes, and here we are again - self-serving bitch who do not want to meet unemployed unsuccessful losers.

9. Kind.

   Cruelty to people and animals can help you win leadership in some sadist club, but definitely not like any girl.

10. Strong.

    Intense weaklings in any historical era were not popular with women.

    Our century is no exception.

    A girl should know that you will be able to overcome any life's hardships and nothing can break your spirit.

The Soviets, how to like the girls, also shares the

psychologist-video blogger Victoria Yushkevich

in the following video:

Did not like some girl? No problem - there are others. ..

And the last advice I received from Danila: if you are trying to please a girl for a very long time, but did not advance one iota in your courtship, accept this.

Sometimes you do not have to keep your head against the wall, risking your forehead.

You just need to find a way to get around this wall and see that there is a smooth and wide path ahead, on which one is sure to meet.

My classmate says that I'm grateful to Yana for what she could not like, because then he might not have met his wife and would never have learned what absolute happiness is.

Forgiveness - recommendation from me personally: breaking the head, how to please the girl , try to stand in her place, that is, look at yourself from the side.

You, being a girl, could love someone like you? Hardly? Then why do you demand the impossible from others?

Start conquering love from trying to change yourself for the better.