How do girls show sympathy? How to understand that you like a girl?

The main reasons why guys are afraid to get acquainted with girls are described,
lists the main signs of female sympathy, gives advice and recommendations on how to "read" a girl and make friends with her.

The relationship of opposite sexes is multifaceted, mysterious and often unpredictable. In most cases, this is due to the mysterious and complex nature of women. Men often do not understand the hints and it is difficult for them to decipher the signals of sympathy given by women. How to guess that the girl is interested, and get to know her, without fear of being rejected, learn from this article.

Why are guys afraid to get acquainted with girls, and girls are left alone?

The following fears often prevent the guy who is attracted to the girl:

• Failure
  Selfish man by nature values ​​his dignity and is very afraid to hear the word "no".Refusal of a man perceives hard, so not every
• decides to take such a risk
  . A possible reason why a guy does not hurry to approach a girl is a large crowd of people around her. Fear of ridicule in front of the crowd is much worse than not hearing alone

• Mismatch
  A man is afraid of comparing girls with girls who can be more successful with what she does in life and her financial situation. Fear of losing in these and other comparisons can alienate his desire to get closer to the girl
• Negative installation of
  Doubts about themselves and the thought that nothing will work out predetermine the attitude of the guy who ultimately decides that there is no need to try
• Being used
  It is not uncommon for a girl to get acquainted with a guy and talk with him cute only on the assumption that he will pay for her drink or dinner, and then disappears in search of another for the same purpose. Fear to join the ranks of men, which women use for their own purposes, frightens off guys from unknown girls

How does a guy become more confident?

In order to cope with fears, you need to work on your confidence. If a guy does not doubt that he is a girl and believes in virtue of his own merits, he will certainly be able to convince the girl. And in the event that acquaintance will not develop as we would like, it will not be "fixated" on failures.

Practice

• Start with the people you know, with whom you do not feel discomfort when communicating. Tie with them conversations on any topic, even on the most frank

IMPORTANT: The experience of multifaceted communication and the ability to maintain a conversation in different situations - guarantors of a confident dialogue with the subsequent acquaintance with the girl

• In the next stage, learn to compliment your colleagues, your female friends. They should be short and natural. For example: "you go to this dress", "look good"
• Now you can move on to more complex: casual communication with strangers. Do not immediately set a goal to take the girl's phone number. To begin with, it's enough just to say hello. Then you can try to tie a conversation. The main thing is to be honest and sincere. Experiment, look for your style and remember that your goal is to become more relaxed and confident, and not find a companion of life. Did not get a dialogue - it's okay, it will work with another girl

2. Achievements of
If you consider yourself unrealized, unsuccessful and do not like yourself, you can hardly achieve confidence in communicating with the female half. Analyze your achievements, find strengths, make a list of your most successful qualities. You will understand: everything is not so bad. Perhaps, you focused only on failures and forgot about your achievements. Shift the focus, believe in your potential. This will bear fruit not only in your personal life, but will also help in the professional development of

3. Studying the feminine nature of
Learn to read a girl, react to her signs. Perhaps she already shows you sympathy, and you just do not notice it. If you learn to correctly interpret the signals that it gives you, you will know what to expect, which means that you will feel much more confident

. How can a girl show sympathy?

Men believe that they make the first step towards an unfamiliar girl. In fact, the first communication between a guy and a girl takes place long before the words. The look, gait, body posture and other signals can give clear information, whether the girl is interested in acquaintance. In other words, the woman chooses the man he likes and first gives him a lot of non-verbal signals. A man just comes to her and starts a conversation.

IMPORTANT: Contrary to popular belief, the initiator of acquaintance in 90% of cases is a woman.

Most men are not able to recognize the signs given by women or become entangled in them, are afraid of making a mistake and simply do not respond to these signals. If a man still gets acquainted with a girl, this is, as a rule, simply a desire to risk.

IMPORTANT: The girl shows sympathy in most cases with the help of non-verbal signals.

Verbal and non-verbal signs of female sympathy

The non-verbal signs on which it is possible to identify female sympathy are:

• 
  view delay The girl starts flirting with a short but visible look at the man, then quickly turns away or switches attention. She can repeat this several times. If you are more attentive, this signal can not be missed.
• Pretty
  If the guy is interesting to the girl, she straightens, takes the most successful pose of the body to emphasize all her external virtues, corrects the hairdo
• Smile
  If the girl smiles slightly when the guy meets her eye,this is a clear sign of sympathy for
• Touching
  This signal can be observed after the conversation is tied. If a woman shows interest, she casually, and sometimes consciously touches the partner's hand. If the girl touches her palm - this indicates a desire for closer communication

As for verbal signs, everything is much more obvious here. The girl is clearly interested and sympathetic to you if she:

• is actively involved in the conversation
• avoids one-syllabic answers
• shares personal information
• asks questions
• often calls you by the name

IMPORTANT: If the girl is expressive, emotional, actively gesticulating,she blushes easily, etc., she undoubtedly experiences feelings of sympathy and tries to impress you.

Direct and indirect signs that the girl is interested in the guy

Criteria by which you can indirectly determine that the girl is sympathetic:

• easy shaking or touching the hair
  a woman does it instinctively when a man is not indifferent to her

• touching herself
  a woman can lightly stroke her neck, arm or thigh

• moist lips, a slightly open mouth
  demonstration of sexual attractiveness, a natural manifestation of the

• sympathetic foot
  in suchthe woman's legs look particularly attractive, as she is well aware of

• relaxed wrist
  on a subconscious level, the woman is willing to

• wiggle or hip shift
  if a woman tries to arouse interest, when moving, she involuntarily shakes her hips while standing, tries to focus attention on the waist and hips, shifting her hips towards the

• proximity of the handbag
  a lady's bag is a very personal item for a woman,its an integral part, so if a woman pushed the bag closer to the guy or asked him to lend his handbag, she trusts the man and shows him sympathy for the

• game with a shoe
  the girl is relaxed and her comfwith a male

• stroking a glass of
  or removing and dressing a ring on a finger, etc. indicates that the woman is interested in a close contact.

Direct signs of female sympathy are more understandable and easier to recognize. A girl can bow her head to your shoulder, move closer to you, sincerely laugh at your jokes, etc.

Female sympathy: pitfalls

It should not be forgotten that women are insidious and know how to use non-verbal signals to seduce men for some benefit.

IMPORTANT: Make sure that your sympathy signs are sincere, and not part of the female seduction plan.

You, at least, the woman's eyes and her smile can help in this. A real smile is difficult to simulate:

• it is symmetrical
• is reflected on all face
• glows eyes
• frowns corners of eyes

The look of a girl can also betray her intentions. A woman will not look at you for a long time, if she likes you. Rather, it will be a barely perceptible intersection of views.
It is almost impossible to fake sincere embarrassment and redness of the cheeks.

How to intentionally cause sympathy for a girl?

To say that there is a way to fall in love with absolutely any girl, it would mean to openly lie. But to arouse the liking of a girl you like is quite real.
Some tips:

• Be confident, relaxed and persuasive
• Share her views
• Respect her opinion, but do not be afraid to express your
• Be able to listen
• Be careful, say compliments
• Respect your parents
• Be resolute and firm in your decisions
• Surprise her
• Watch your appearance
• Stay close if she needs help
• Learn to be an interesting interlocutor
• Be persistent, but not intrusive
• Do not make excuseson trifles

What should I talk about with a girl in order to interest her?

Topics can be different, but the main thing:

• The conversation should not look like an interrogation, i.e.do not need to ask the girl too many questions, especially if they do not require a detailed answer
• You need to be well versed in the discussion, be able to fill moments of silence
• It is desirable to share some interesting cases from life so that the dialogue was more emotional
• On the first date,, on which you can have absolutely opposite views and provoke an irreconcilable argument( politics, religion, etc.).
• . It is not necessary to speak exclusively male themes( for example, about the lastI eat football match)

Examples of topics:

• hobbies Common friends
• movie
• travel
• work / study

How not to lose interest in a girl? What spoils the impression of a girl about a guy?

If the first impression on the girl was successful, it is important to consolidate the result and not lose its favor in the future. Attitude towards a man can be spoiled if:

• he stopped following him
• often complains about his problems
• tries to overly control a girl
• began paying less attention to her
• says only about herself

Obviously, in order for interest not to fade,on the first date, the tone. Women will be helped to keep small gifts, flowers, pleasant surprises, readiness to listen.

More details about this can be read in article 7 ways to make a woman nice. What will make any woman happy?

Manifestation of female sympathy: advice and feedback

History of Dmitry:
"I liked the girl at work, talked all the time neutral, all around and around, flirting there all sorts, but there was no specifics. I thought about how to drive it neatly, I did not want my colleagues to find out in case of refusal. As a result, it turned out that I liked her all this time, and she did not know how to tell me about it either. Now a year together, so guys, do not be afraid of your desires and act. "

Olga's story:
" I met my future husband after she took the initiative. He was afraid to take the first step. And if I were also scared? It seems to me that modern guys need to be bolder and not break the rules to get acquainted first »

Not so often men are like a completely unfamiliar girl and start a conversation. Especially seldom get acquainted with very beautiful girls who often are lonely. Look attentively at the girl, pay attention to the signs of sympathy, which she demonstrates. The girl will certainly give her attitude to you and hint at the "green light".

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