Any, even the strongest woman, sooner or later gets tired of being alone. But it turns out, to get acquainted with a man for a serious relationship and keep him by his side is not so easy. Almost everyone agrees to an easy affair, and men are wary of and distrustful of marriage and obligations. Where to look for serious men?
- Best places to meet
- Online
- Courses and trainings
- Dating parties
- Sports halls, fitness clubs
- Recreation, traveling
- Phone dating
- Football matches
- Squares, parks
- Dating rules
- How to dress
- How to behave
Topplace for dating
If you are wondering where to get acquainted with a man for a serious relationship, then carefully study the places in which they can be found most often.
to the table of contents ^Internet
Virtual dating sites have long superseded real matchmakers and newspaper ads. Among the many questionnaires, you can filter out superfluous ones like this:
- If a man in his profile colorfully describes the appearance of a future girlfriend, it's unlikely that the internal qualities are of any importance to him. The same can be said of a strong field that boasts of its appearance, indicates the exact height, weight, physique, color of eyes and hair, but forgets to mention its psychic organization.
- Anyone who is looking for an acquaintance with a woman for meetings on the neutral or on its territory, under the crown is unlikely to drag. Most likely, such a man already is married or has a permanent partner, and a questionnaire on a dating site is just a way to have fun.
- If you decide to meet a man, then communicate with him in advance on Skype. This will give a more detailed idea of his appearance, manner of communication, as well as assess the conditions in which he lives.
Choose a photo for the questionnaire based on your goal, but otherwise how to get to know the Internet with a normal man. It is unlikely that a representative of the stronger sex, seeing pictures of where you are sunbathing topless, or drinking alcohol with friends in a bar, will want to meet you for serious purposes.
Separately, you can distinguish social networks, because by the number of attendance they have long become one of the most suitable places for acquaintances. For example, to get acquainted in a contact or in classmates with an attractive man is very simple - just evaluate his photo or write a short message with the words "How are you?".
to the table of contents ^Courses and trainings
Successful and formed as a person, a man will continue his development. Therefore, various courses, for example, in programming, psychology, foreign languages, are the place where you can meet a future partner.
If you have a sharp question, how to get acquainted with a man after 40 years, then visiting such places, you can meet the future of almost any age.
The higher the cost and demand for trainings, the more serious people they visit. If you decide to choose this path - be careful, active and try to stand out from the crowd.
Dating parties
Periodically, many clubs and restaurants arrange so-called evenings of acquaintances. Everyone wishing to purchase an entrance ticket can get to such a party and get acquainted with the person they liked. As a rule, the organizers include in the evening program dances and competitions, during which the participants relax and open for communication.
to contents ^Sports halls, fitness clubs
A rare successful man is not a regular at the gym, where he rests his soul and tidies his body. Do not know how to get acquainted with a man in the gym? Just ask him to show how to properly use the simulator or perform a complex exercise. A man will be happy to come to the rescue and demonstrate his sports skills.
Rest, travel
After receiving a long-awaited vacation, do not stay at home. You can enroll in a group of tourists and go on a mountain hike or make a raft in kayaks. Also, holiday homes and sanatoriums are suitable for dating, but not all.
When deciding which sanatorium you can meet with a man, it is important to thoroughly study the institution. Pay attention to the presence of a number of picturesque places, all kinds of entertainment, resorts, extreme sports.
If the holiday home is adjacent to a developed infrastructure - this is your option. And if it is located in the wilderness, where from entertainment only a dance floor - it is unlikely there you can get acquainted with a normal man.
to contents ^Phone acquaintances
This method is suitable for shy individuals who do not dare to approach a man. The phone number can be taken from colleagues or acquaintances who can tell you about the person they liked. In some social networks, men also put their number on public display.
Get to know a man by phone number simply, but do not delay with a personal meeting. Having intrigued the interlocutor, go to the next step and discuss the details of your upcoming appointment.
to the table of contents ^Football matches
Most men are just crazy about football. Therefore, the football stadium is just the place where it is not difficult to get acquainted with a rich man. Judge for yourself, because a ticket to a football match is not cheap and not every simple hard worker can afford to buy it.
In addition, cheering for your favorite team, the man is experiencing a huge tide of euphoria and in such a state for sure will be glad to get acquainted. And communication with a devoted fan of his favorite team will be pleasantly doubly pleased.
to the table of contents ^Squares, parks
During the walk it is easy to get acquainted with a man, because the street is a place of congestion. Especially often attractive guys can be found in squares and parks. Ways how to get acquainted with a man on the street is enough:
- Smile to the man you like, without looking away. Perhaps, nothing more will be required, and the chosen one will immediately contact.
- Ask a man to help you, for example, find the right street, carry a heavy bag and so on.
- You can "accidentally" collide with a chosen one on the street, looking somewhere to the side. Remember how in Hollywood movies? The main characters collide, the lady drops the bag, and the gentleman helps to assemble the contents.
- During the rain, you can ask for an umbrella to the man you liked or, conversely, offer him your own.
These are just the basic options for dating on the street. If you fantasize, you'll probably come up with a way to get to know a man.
to contents ^Dating Rules
To meet a man, it is not enough just to choose a suitable place. It is important to interest the potential partner, to make it so that from the general crowd he singles out you.
to the table of contents ^How to dress
Wherever you are, if your goal is to get acquainted with a serious man, then the clothing should not be provocative. This does not mean that you need to tighten all buttons tightly and put the skirt on the floor. But from the deep neckline, mini skirts, boots above the knee and similar items will have to be abandoned.
Your image should match the place where you are. If you chose a club, restaurant or a celebratory event, then try to look smart and well-groomed. Give preference to a skirt or dress - this will give you femininity.
Choose shoes on the heel, but make sure that it was stable, so as not to stumble and not fall at the most inopportune moment.
to the table of contents ^How to behave
When the task to get acquainted with a decent man is done, many ladies begin to make classic mistakes under the carbon paper, and later they wonder why the chosen one ran away without looking back.
How not to behave in order not to scare off a man:
- Do not describe your shortcomings, do not complain about a difficult life - you are not at a psychologist's reception. It is unlikely that a man will like an ever-aching lady.
- Do not make a man "interrogation with addiction."Often a woman, disappointed in a strong field, begins to hang unpleasant labels on each potential partner. Afraid to fall into the clutches of an Alfonso, a drunkard or a rude, she passionately begins to question the interlocutor about all his deadly sins. Nobody will like to feel like a criminal on interrogation.
- Do not be interested in the financial side. Of course, the financial component plays an important role in choosing a man for a serious relationship. But money is not a topic to be discussed during the first communication. It is unlikely that a man will tell you about the amounts in his bank accounts, but the impression of a mercenary lady you will definitely produce.
- Do not rush things. Tired of loneliness, many women immediately rush into battle: when they first become acquainted, they begin telling the man their secrets and making plans for a joint life. It is unlikely that the elect is interested in such conversations and, most likely, you will not see him any more.
If you took the first step to getting acquainted, then the main thing is to refrain from the initiative in the future. Do not impose your presence on a man, do not insist on the next meeting, let him decide what to do. Be cheerful and natural, with a casual joke - before such a weapon no man can stand.